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When do you call it a day?

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru


  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    don't know if i can b any help but here goes....

    ok, first of all the truth is that few relationships like yours can last because youre in different situations. youre concentrating on uni, he's looking for a job. right now, they're totally different worlds.

    also, you definitely cannot, and i mean CANNOT, stay with him out of pity. that's what it sounds like when you talk about his redundancy. it seems you dont want to break it off because it would be a bad time for him. but seriously, you'll start feeling ten times guiltier if you find that youre staying with him through pity, and he'll be twice as huirt if he ever finds out.

    as for you guys being engaged...it's not the be-all and end-all. you can break it off. but think about why you got engaged in the first place - obviously you are or were committed to each other and have very strong feelings towards each other. have those feelings gone, or are they still there?

    ultimately, u have 2 ask yourself..could i live without him?

    and if you do decide to break it off, do it soon. dont let it drag on.

    hope i helped <IMG alt="image" SRC="tongue.gif" border="0">
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