Know you love someone but can't do anything about it?

Former Member

If your answer is yes then you're like me.

There's this special person out there, and I know I love her. Im sure she knows that and? I know she loves me. We live along way apart and she's seeing someone else at the moment. We both still talk a bit (we were seeing each other but split up a month or two ago). I don't have any hard feelings whatsoever about our split, all I want is to get back together but the distance is the only thing keeping me from doing anything - other than that what can I do.
Anybody ever been here? What did you do?
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[You should probably have put this in relationships, but if u ask the mods they might do it for u.]
If i was in your situation i wouldn't know what to do! Probably put it to the back of my mind, and try and get on with things. maybe you could try that?

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Good advice, thanks. You're a star. <IMG alt="image" SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0">

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Originally posted by SeaShihtzu:
<STRONG>put it to the back of my mind, and try and get on with things. maybe you could try that?</STRONG>

Easier said then done.

I know where ur coming from mate cos I have the same problem. I'm in love with my best mates girlfriend, and have been for ages now. She was for years my best mate until one time this year we got together. She says she has feelings for me but still loves my mate. Thing is he cheats on her and generally treats her like shit, and I can't say anything cos he's supposed to be a mate. Every day I see her and havn't been able to get her out my head since august. It gives me a proper head bake.

Best thing you can do is love them as a mate. Cos I can't care about her as my girlfriend I try my best as a mate to her and try and be there when my mate treats her like shit.

Good luck

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I can relate to this. <IMG alt="image" SRC="frown.gif" border="0"> makes me so sad <IMG alt="image" SRC="frown.gif" border="0">

Former Member

Its really annoying! Im in a similar situation. My head always feels like its gonna explode any minute!

Former Member

Staying quiet and staying friends is all very well, but what if u want more? I wouldn't know what to do, but maybe u could find someone else to keep your mind off her LordofChaos?
xxs

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Originally posted by SeaShihtzu:
<STRONG>maybe u could find someone else to keep your mind off her LordofChaos?
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Is that really fair on that someone else though?