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do u think its gone on for too long?

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Re: do u think its gone on for too long?
    Originally posted by Super_Chicken
    She's starting to mother me!. she wont let me go out wiv my m8s anymore man.. its pissin me off!!

    Tell her to change or say :wave: :wave:

    she does not own you so make that straight :)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Re: Re: do u think its gone on for too long?
    Originally posted by BeckyBoo
    Tell her to change or say :wave: :wave:

    she does not own you so make that straight :)

    yeah but knowin what shes like she will just say "u asked me to change b4, u want to much from me, blah blah blah".."love me the way i am"
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Re: Re: Re: do u think its gone on for too long?
    Originally posted by Super_Chicken
    yeah but knowin what shes like she will just say "u asked me to change b4, u want to much from me, blah blah blah".."love me the way i am"

    So if you want to go out go out, she does not own you, end of story.
    You cant keep going out with someone who wont let you do your own thing :)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    yeah

    but im neav the 1 to do the dumping.. how do i do it!?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Its been a while since i dumped lol

    Just tell her its over, dont lead her on just tell her you are finished?
    I dunno............anyone else? :lol:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    No wonder you're getting offers from other women - i just looked at your face party ;)

    if you're really not happy and want to move on then just tell her straight about your feelings and how you think it's time to move on etc etc. i'm rubbish at this though.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Two Options:

    The Homer Simpson way - Welcome to Dumpsville baby, population you!

    or, and slightly more tactful:

    You're feeling for her have changed, maybe because you want more time to spend with your friends and you feel a little pegged in.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    The fact that you're having second thoughts says it all really.
    Your relationship has come to an end, so do the decent thing and end it.

    Ilora x
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    its not a case of her not letting you go out, as it sounds like youre going out anyway. Shes obviously got reason to feel paranoid about you going out as youre eyeing up the girls when your there. I dont think you should blame her just because your feelings are changing. Do the decent thing and end the relationship, because your obviously making her insecure by dragging it out.
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