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Is my Ex Gay?

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
Hey, I had a pretty crap 5 month relationship with a guy last year ... he treated me so distantly and we split because he never really cared, even when i was sick.
Anyway...fast forward to my new bloke who ive been seeing for 6 months now. (not so new i guess!)
We were discussing old rels....and some stuff came up...now my bloke reckons my ex is gay and only ever used me as a cover (explaining why he was so distant to be as a boyfriend..)
Just my luck..the evidence was...well...what do you think?

:crazyeyes he tried on my dresses and let me do his makeup, he put glitter in his hair and used my butterfly hairgrip
:o he was SO vain - stopping at every bloody reflective surface
:eek: before he came to uni he liked to wank with his best mate in the same room, also wanking
:confused: he LOVED dressing me up like a barbie doll and pretending we were the perfect couple when we were out
:crazyeyes he ALWAYS wanted anal - or nothing at all
:mad: he totally LOVED my very gay mate and always talked about him and hoped he would be out
:eek2: he lost interest in me as soon as there was noone watching- even when I had to have an operation, he refused to help me to the hospital...preferring to stay in with a suspiciously camp mate...

Am I being paranoid or trying to make excuses for his horrible behaviour? I must say..he did love topshop, puppies and cosmo...and it was always in the back of my mind....erk!

a very confused (possible gay man-magnet) kitsxxx
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Re: Is my Ex Gay?
    Originally posted by KittyKat
    :o he was SO vain - stopping at every bloody reflective surface

    You'll find that with a lot of men! But the rest of it, I'm sorry but could it be staring you much more in the face?????? It's just a bit blatantly obvious. But why do you care now, you got a new man who is obviously better than some guy that was using you to cover up his homosexuality, which is stupid cos there ain't nothin' wrong with it!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Well...

    Yes, it does sound like it. But I know some really really camp guys who aren't gay at all, so you never know.

    But like socksgirl said, it does seem pretty blatant!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Yeah, what those two /\ have said

    Even I'm not that camp!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    it sounds like it...

    i have a gay ex though... can be quite the talking point.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    woah...

    my GAY-O meter totally went off this time. Hun Ur X is GAY....O well having Gay x's isn't so bad..LOL. I've had a guy come out and tell me while I was dating him...how much worse can it get?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    BEEP ... BEEP .... BEEP ...My Gaydar says "YES"
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Yeah, well I don't think I have any *straight* exes, beat that... maybe one :rolleyes:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Re: Is my Ex Gay?
    Originally posted by KittyKat
    :confused: he LOVED dressing me up like a barbie doll and pretending we were the perfect couple when we were out

    If he was gay he would have dressed you up as Ken, not Barbie
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    If it looks like a duck, walks like a duck, quacks like a duck, then its a duck.:D
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by TheCymruKid
    If it looks like a duck, walks like a duck, quacks like a duck, then its a duck.:D

    lol good insight,

    yes your ex is a poof, oh well least you didnt make him a poof, that happened to someone i spk to on msn, he turn his ex gf into a dyke
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Rude_boyz
    oh well least you didnt make him a poof, that happened to someone i spk to on msn, he turn his ex gf into a dyke

    Whaaat? How can you make someone gay? :/
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    well we already know rude_boyz has some odd theories on what can turn people gay...
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Rude_boyz (lol wimp boy), why are you so homophobic, you know what they say about homophobic people, they are most likely to be covering something up...hmm...i think we might have a closet case here.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by jellygirl
    Rude_boyz (lol wimp boy), why are you so homophobic, you know what they say about homophobic people, they are most likely to be covering something up...hmm...i think we might have a closet case here.

    Argh everyone know why i am a homophobe,


    This person apparently broke this girls heart Really badly that she doesnt want a man ever and wants a girl two weeks later she got a gf. this is what i got told by my mate and the girl even admited it
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Rude_boyz
    This person apparently broke this girls heart Really badly that she doesnt want a man ever and wants a girl two weeks later she got a gf. this is what i got told by my mate and the girl even admited it

    That doesn't mean he made her gay.

    "Oh, boo hoo, my heart is broken, I'll go be a lesbian".
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by DaisyChainThing
    That doesn't mean he made her gay.

    "Oh, boo hoo, my heart is broken, I'll go be a lesbian".

    i never said it did, its her and him that told me, just a story i got told.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I think I put one of my exes off women for life. Oops. :rolleyes: He hasn't pulled or had a relationship since we split up over 2years ago, and he's extremely camp. Whoops.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by perfect***day
    I think I put one of my exes off women for life. Oops. :rolleyes: He hasn't pulled or had a relationship since we split up over 2years ago, and he's extremely camp. Whoops.

    Aww you meanie lol:lol::p
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Rude_boyz
    Aww you meanie lol:lol::p
    It wasn't deliberate! Obviously I just have that effect on men :nervous:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by perfect***day
    It wasn't deliberate! Obviously I just have that effect on men :nervous:

    Aww i bet ya dont;) lol proberlly just him, loseing a great girl broke his heart:)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Rude_boyz

    yes your ex is a poof, oh well least you didnt make him a poof, that happened to someone i spk to on msn, he turn his ex gf into a dyke

    Your posts are laughable.
    Other types of people exist, if you have a problem with it keep it to yourself. I don't care if you're a homophobe or not but I'd rather not be subjected to reading it.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Alan
    Your posts are laughable.
    Other types of people exist, if you have a problem with it keep it to yourself. I don't care if you're a homophobe or not but I'd rather not be subjected to reading it.

    Nicely said!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Dont worry...loads of my exs are gay
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    this is how gay your ex is
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by rachie004
    i don't really think guys care that much about where theyre wanking/who ever else is there...
    errrr, yes I think most of them DO care.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    well is it true? do most men not care where or with whom they masturbate????? In my experience, most men masturbate in private or with their partner. They usually try and avoid masturbating when friends, relatives, colleagues etc are in the same room.
    someone start a poll
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by rainbow brite
    this is how gay your ex is
    damnit - I had hair like that once... :nervous:
    ...but, to my defense, I didn't have a beard/moustache and my hair's more blonde/ginger that black
    Originally posted by rainbow brite
    do most men not care where or with whom they masturbate
    I do - I do it alone. "Alone" should really be stressed there!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Skateside
    damnit - I had hair like that once... :nervous:
    ...but, to my defense, I didn't have a beard/moustache and my hair's more blonde/ginger that black

    !
    The question is, did you have pants like that?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by rainbow brite
    The question is, did you have pants like that?
    No :)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    that's it then; im just blind, aren't I?!!!!

    :rolleyes:
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