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Guys and Flowers

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
Hello everybody,just thought I'd let u know I am a newcomer and there is a question I so wanna ask especially to the lads.I was just wondering,if u had received flowers from yr girl would u think its a sad prez or a good one.or do guys and flowers just do not mix.
looking forward to replies.chat to u all soon.
w love
CHEEKy

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    well, tim has a flower and i dont think he minds it <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt;

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I guess it would differ from guy to guy to be honest with you! Personally I wouldn't mind them but a Liam Gallagher wannabe would probably laugh at you.

    Or Turtle would eat them. Is your guy a romantic kind of guy? If so then I don't think he would mind. I think most guys would prefer some nice choccies though.

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i got my ex a valentine teddy bear one time and he was holding a rose! it was so sweet and i knew i had to get it!! he thought it was cute too but then again, he's that sort of guy. some hard guys would probably have a good laugh so i guess it's all really down to the guy himself. what kinda person he is.

    but no matter how bad they are...don't think they'll go as far as eating them...right turtle?? hehehe...that's a good one!
  • Girl-From-MarsGirl-From-Mars Posts: 2,822 Boards Guru
    last valentine's day i bought my ex a red rose.. or was it our year anniversary? lol who knows.. but he liked it and was really pleased and everything and thought it was romantic and not sad. but yeah i guess it depends on the guy.

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by IcKleMoNSteR:
    well, tim has a flower and i dont think he minds it <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt;


    tim loves getting flowers and thinks that's one of the sweetest gifts he could ever get from a loved one.

    of course he has a special place in his heart for one particular flower. <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    flowers are the message that words cannot show because they have no picture, flowers show how you feel and are (to my mind) a far more complex and underrated gift than most people realise. If i was given a flower by a beautiful woman once a year i would certainly be a happy boy, and your young fella will feel the same <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Well i know im a girl, so it dont really answer ur question but,

    id love someone to send me some flowers i think its well sweet,

    ive had loadsa roses bough for me in clubs n stuff of girls and boys <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt; but no ones ever sent me some in the post for a surprise, i think that would be soooo nice!!

    I reckon some of the guys ive been out with would run a mile if i sent them flowers, im wierd tho i send ppl chocolate lol.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    your best bet is food with a bloke so the chocy idea is a good one....flowers tho? um...personaly id be very greatful but the two things dont tend to mix

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I know that this is straying from the thread a little, but although I love the sentiment behind flowers I much prefer to see them where they are supposed to be, in the garden, or wild flowers growing in a meadow.

    I think that the most romantic thing you can do for someone is to write them some poetry, from the heart.

    j9
    (PS freesias are my favourite flowers. lol)

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Unfortunately I was out of the house all day yesterday and missed the florist, so I walked down there this afternoon with the card they left to tell me they'd been. I was absolutely gobsmaked when they presented me with a dozen red roses from my beloved... oh how my heart melted, I love flowers and have never been sent any before let alone roses.

    Walking the 5-10 minute walk home the smiles I got from everyone obviously thinking some girl's luck!! one bloke even smiled and winked at me ... lol .. still I knew that they were for me and made me feel so special.

    Thank you H
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    But to answer the initial question I don't think it's sad for guy's to have flowers, that's just stupid sexist stereotyping.

    LUK

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    if i got sent 12 red roses, all i'd be able to think is 'my god, these cost him £50, and they'll be dead soon!'... i think one rose is enough (but still very expensive on valentines day! - £4 i think!)

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Button:
    if i got sent 12 red roses, all i'd be able to think is 'my god, these cost him £50, and they'll be dead soon!'... i think one rose is enough (but still very expensive on valentines day! - £4 i think!)


    True it's a very generous gift she sent, but still it was the sentiment on which she sent them that counts, I love H dearly because she's her and not for what she has possesion wise, the most important posession she has that I'm interested in is MY HEART, and she can have that always. Surely the most important thing when receiving a gift is to cherish the thought it was sent with, not how much it costs, if that's what you are thinking, then surely u aren't receiving the gift greatfully.

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Thought I'd add that to preserve one I am slowly drying one of the roses out so that I can TREASUREfor the rest of my life. I told my beloved I want to be burried with it so I can always be with our love <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt; <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;



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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    that is so sweet luka! She must b really special! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Easy T:

    of course he has a special place in his heart for one particular flower. <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;


    really? which one? personally, i do rather like tulips...have a special flavour to then. carnations..well, they remind me of milk. :P

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Turtle:
    really? which one? personally, i do rather like tulips...have a special flavour to then. carnations..well, they remind me of milk. :P


    yeah.. i think ur not funny turtletoise. it's me and you know it. :P
    grrr my last name sucks.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by IcKleMoNSteR:
    yeah.. i think ur not funny turtletoise. it's me and you know it. :P
    grrr my last name sucks.

    *feels sheepish* i'm sorry. <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/frown.gif"&gt; <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/frown.gif"&gt; <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/frown.gif"&gt;

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Turtletoise:
    *feels sheepish* i'm sorry. <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/frown.gif"&gt; <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/frown.gif"&gt; <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/frown.gif"&gt;


    thas ok <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by IcKleMoNSteR:
    yeah.. i think ur not funny turtletoise. it's me and you know it. :P
    grrr my last name sucks.

    soooooo doesn't.

    i seem to like it flower. <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

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