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Perhaps if you and your friend are still interested, you could privately message that person? Maybe you could even suggest doing some other activity which is less expensive than the restaurant? As you say, it could help that person make some new friends
Let us know how it goes!
You mentioned money (that's huge for people right now), but it may also be that they sent the information out in a way where people are unlikely to see/remember it, it may be that they don't have the right interpersonal connections in the group, maybe the timing is bad. There's a lot that might be behind the lack of interest, so exploring that with him might be helpful.
I agree with Amy though that it's incredibly kind of you to be thinking about him, and it's lovely that you can empathise with this situation and want to help him out.