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Hey guys so itās been a long time since I actually properly made one of these explaining things. So this is about my ex that I was dating two months ago. Well I kind of messed that relationship up to be honest and ever since we broke up his been blunt but every now and again I message him and that.I feel really strongly about him like Iāve got strong feelings about him and I ruined it.
So today I said to him again that I miss him and I actually want him back and all of that.
This is what he said: [/Okay well how bout stop with the putting words in my mouth and we talk again then just maybe just maybe it might happen again b]
So guys this boy feels like the one for me honestly.
So I need your help what do I talk about to get him back?.
Also do you think by that message it looks like Iāll have another chance with him?.
This is written so late at 5 in the morning because I really would like some answers later on today because I really love this boy and I want it to work š„ŗš„°
Night guys š«š
So today I said to him again that I miss him and I actually want him back and all of that.
This is what he said: [/Okay well how bout stop with the putting words in my mouth and we talk again then just maybe just maybe it might happen again b]
So guys this boy feels like the one for me honestly.
So I need your help what do I talk about to get him back?.
Also do you think by that message it looks like Iāll have another chance with him?.
This is written so late at 5 in the morning because I really would like some answers later on today because I really love this boy and I want it to work š„ŗš„°
Night guys š«š
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With what you said about that I know it is something that bothers him so I said to him alright I wonāt do it again again. That is one of my flaws I need to work on.
As I said I really want the boy back in my life
Totally agree with @zaynab_5 . We all have our flaws and its great that you are actively working to become a better version of yourself. Tell him how much he means to you and how you have changed for the better in your time apart.
Then for a few minutes we was like saying what you doing and all of that.
Then I said Could you be truthful with the question Iām going to ask. Do you really want to try again or not just be honest. Then he said no I donāt but it could change
I donāt know what to do
I agree with what everyone said above!
Right now, it seems like there's tension between you two and it'll take time to reconsider being in a relationship.
For now, try to keep it neutral and platonic for now. See how he feels.
Hope you're doing okay.
Sometimes good relationships come from good communication so keep trying!