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stupid lady

ellie2000ellie2000 Posts: 3,960 Community Veteran
I attend a mind zoom seminar group and a lady who attends the group always tlk about suicidal thoughts n i sick of it bcoz after last wks seession i wanted to die. who...wat...phrase, struggling wat to say....?
Crazy mad insane


  • Lucy307Lucy307 Posts: 1,171 Wise Owl
    Hey Ellie, could you reach out to the organiser of the zoom group and tell them how it makes you feel? How are you doing today?
    Treat yourself as you would treat a good friend
  • coc0maccoc0mac Posts: 1,054 Wise Owl
    Hi Ellie,

    That is a tough thing to talk about and it can certainly feel triggering to hear those conversations. Sending love :heart:

    It's important that everybody in the group respects each other, and it seems this lady isn't being as considerate as she perhaps could be. She might not realise this though - she could just be talking about her thoughts without realising the impact these can have on others. So, I think it would be helpful to raise this with the organiser of the group - just as Lucy has said. The organiser could then have a chat with the lady to encourage less triggering conversations. How does that sound? :heart:
  • StephanieStephanie Moderator Posts: 1,084 Wise Owl
    Hey @ellie2000

    Just thought id check in to see how you are doing? :heart:

    We are here for you :heart:
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  • ellie2000ellie2000 Posts: 3,960 Community Veteran
    thank you, i dont feel as bad this week, in the group we were tlkn about happiness which i think is shortlived, the lady wasnt there which was gd, if she was i think she would of ranted on nd ruined the atmos. wats every1s opinions?
    Crazy mad insane
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