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  • SienaSiena Posts: 15,681 Skive's The Limit
    GreenTea said:
    Shaunie said:
    GreenTea said:
    Because care homes are full of vunerable and by opening them up, it might allow infection rates in care homes to rise. It's kinda common sense tbh. A lot of people are still in shielding. They are just trying to protect them.
    I get that obviously but lonlieness is a massive killer. If Wear protection then it’s fine. Yet the nurses will go to these GYM so that’s just unsafe in its self. 

    How do you know they will go to gyms? Kinda jumping to assumptions there. 
    I meant to say gym or restaurants and what not that’s open. We can never be 100% sure we don’t have it and should be able to go inside and stay far with protection and shit but yeah just annoying
    “And when they look at you, they won't see everything you've been through. They won't see the **** that turned to scars that began to fade with time. They won't see the heartbreaking things that shook up and changed your entire world. They won't know how many tears you cried or even what it was you were crying about. They won't see how strong you had to be because you had no other choice. What they will see though is how compassionate you are because you experienced pain. What they will see is how kind you are because you experienced how cruel the world is. What they will see is how good you are because you've seen how bad things or people can be. The difference between you and your experiences are who you choose to be, despite everything that could have turned you cold and unkind.You are the good the world needs and the best of us.” ~ Kirsten Corley
  • Former MemberFormer Member ☕🌻☕ Posts: 12,938 Born on Earth, Raised by The Mix
    Starlight said:
    The Care home my mum works at have had 0 cases of Covid 19 still, I don't really get how when all the other homes in our area have had multiple deaths!

    That's really good for that home! They just want to protect the people living there. That's amazing to hear 0 cases!
  • independent_independent_ Community Champion Posts: 9,015 Supreme Poster
    Goodnight @Millie2787 hope you sleep well <3 
    “Sometimes the people around you won’t understand your journey. They don’t need to, it’s not for them.”
  • StarlightStarlight Posts: 1,438 Wise Owl
    My mum feels so bad her residents cant have visitors shes refusing to see any of her friends even socially distanced she says its unfair!
    * Shine like the star you are! *
  • Former MemberFormer Member ☕🌻☕ Posts: 12,938 Born on Earth, Raised by The Mix
    I just feel a lot of people make judgements and assumptions without looking at the facts and statistics first and that frustrating for me 
  • Former MemberFormer Member ☕🌻☕ Posts: 12,938 Born on Earth, Raised by The Mix
    Starlight said:
    My mum feels so bad her residents cant have visitors shes refusing to see any of her friends even socially distanced she says its unfair!


    It's keeping her residents safe though..
  • SienaSiena Posts: 15,681 Skive's The Limit
    Starlight said:
    My mum feels so bad her residents cant have visitors shes refusing to see any of her friends even socially distanced she says its unfair!
    Aw yeah. See that’s what I meant with GYMs being open. Nurses can do all that stuff and can catch it from them. That’s cute of your mum
    “And when they look at you, they won't see everything you've been through. They won't see the **** that turned to scars that began to fade with time. They won't see the heartbreaking things that shook up and changed your entire world. They won't know how many tears you cried or even what it was you were crying about. They won't see how strong you had to be because you had no other choice. What they will see though is how compassionate you are because you experienced pain. What they will see is how kind you are because you experienced how cruel the world is. What they will see is how good you are because you've seen how bad things or people can be. The difference between you and your experiences are who you choose to be, despite everything that could have turned you cold and unkind.You are the good the world needs and the best of us.” ~ Kirsten Corley
  • Former MemberFormer Member ☕🌻☕ Posts: 12,938 Born on Earth, Raised by The Mix
    My nan died in a care home because of an illness she caught off another resident. It spreads like wildfire.
  • SienaSiena Posts: 15,681 Skive's The Limit
    Which is why it’s way too early to be opening gyms imo
    “And when they look at you, they won't see everything you've been through. They won't see the **** that turned to scars that began to fade with time. They won't see the heartbreaking things that shook up and changed your entire world. They won't know how many tears you cried or even what it was you were crying about. They won't see how strong you had to be because you had no other choice. What they will see though is how compassionate you are because you experienced pain. What they will see is how kind you are because you experienced how cruel the world is. What they will see is how good you are because you've seen how bad things or people can be. The difference between you and your experiences are who you choose to be, despite everything that could have turned you cold and unkind.You are the good the world needs and the best of us.” ~ Kirsten Corley
  • SienaSiena Posts: 15,681 Skive's The Limit
    Omg I should be asleep ah
    “And when they look at you, they won't see everything you've been through. They won't see the **** that turned to scars that began to fade with time. They won't see the heartbreaking things that shook up and changed your entire world. They won't know how many tears you cried or even what it was you were crying about. They won't see how strong you had to be because you had no other choice. What they will see though is how compassionate you are because you experienced pain. What they will see is how kind you are because you experienced how cruel the world is. What they will see is how good you are because you've seen how bad things or people can be. The difference between you and your experiences are who you choose to be, despite everything that could have turned you cold and unkind.You are the good the world needs and the best of us.” ~ Kirsten Corley
  • independent_independent_ Community Champion Posts: 9,015 Supreme Poster
    It is really sad for the residents, I do feel for them they must be horribly lonely :(
    “Sometimes the people around you won’t understand your journey. They don’t need to, it’s not for them.”
  • Former MemberFormer Member ☕🌻☕ Posts: 12,938 Born on Earth, Raised by The Mix
    edited July 2020
    It's not to early to open gyms. If you work with those who are high risk, you'd use your common sense and know not to visit gyms etc yet. 

    If you can't use your common sense to protect those in your job. I suggest leaving the job tbh
  • SienaSiena Posts: 15,681 Skive's The Limit
    GreenTea said:
    It's not to early to open gyms. If you work with those who are high risk, you'd use your common sense and know not to visit gyms etc yet. 

    If you can't use your common sense to protect those in your job. I suggest leaving the job tbh
    Yeahh but I live with my sister who works in a care home if I get it she will get it. So it means loads of people shouldn’t visit it then and just not really fair. Gym are so dirty
    but lol yeah enough of corona
    “And when they look at you, they won't see everything you've been through. They won't see the **** that turned to scars that began to fade with time. They won't see the heartbreaking things that shook up and changed your entire world. They won't know how many tears you cried or even what it was you were crying about. They won't see how strong you had to be because you had no other choice. What they will see though is how compassionate you are because you experienced pain. What they will see is how kind you are because you experienced how cruel the world is. What they will see is how good you are because you've seen how bad things or people can be. The difference between you and your experiences are who you choose to be, despite everything that could have turned you cold and unkind.You are the good the world needs and the best of us.” ~ Kirsten Corley
  • Former MemberFormer Member ☕🌻☕ Posts: 12,938 Born on Earth, Raised by The Mix
    Gyms aren't dirty. If you clean the machines after you use them like you are supposed to.. it's not dirty. 
    It's dirty people who don't clean after themselves.
  • independent_independent_ Community Champion Posts: 9,015 Supreme Poster
    These sorts of discussions make me a bit nervous, such differing opinions everywhere on when things should be opening. 
    “Sometimes the people around you won’t understand your journey. They don’t need to, it’s not for them.”
  • SienaSiena Posts: 15,681 Skive's The Limit
    independent_ said:
    These sorts of discussions make me a bit nervous, such differing opinions everywhere on when things should be opening. 
    Samee
    “And when they look at you, they won't see everything you've been through. They won't see the **** that turned to scars that began to fade with time. They won't see the heartbreaking things that shook up and changed your entire world. They won't know how many tears you cried or even what it was you were crying about. They won't see how strong you had to be because you had no other choice. What they will see though is how compassionate you are because you experienced pain. What they will see is how kind you are because you experienced how cruel the world is. What they will see is how good you are because you've seen how bad things or people can be. The difference between you and your experiences are who you choose to be, despite everything that could have turned you cold and unkind.You are the good the world needs and the best of us.” ~ Kirsten Corley
  • Former MemberFormer Member Deactivated Posts: 1,646 Extreme Poster
    It makes my heart ache thinking about how hard it must be for residents in nursing homes 😢

    @Starlight that's fantastic, the home your mum works at must be doing something right!

  • Former MemberFormer Member ☕🌻☕ Posts: 12,938 Born on Earth, Raised by The Mix
    independent_ said:
    These sorts of discussions make me a bit nervous, such differing opinions everywhere on when things should be opening. 


    They just frustrate me tbh because like i see a lot of things from my experience and understanding etc. 
    Sorry
  • StarlightStarlight Posts: 1,438 Wise Owl
    Can we leave this subject behind now thanks 
    * Shine like the star you are! *
  • SienaSiena Posts: 15,681 Skive's The Limit
    edited July 2020
    Starlight said:
    Can we leave this subject behind now thanks 
    Defiently 
    “And when they look at you, they won't see everything you've been through. They won't see the **** that turned to scars that began to fade with time. They won't see the heartbreaking things that shook up and changed your entire world. They won't know how many tears you cried or even what it was you were crying about. They won't see how strong you had to be because you had no other choice. What they will see though is how compassionate you are because you experienced pain. What they will see is how kind you are because you experienced how cruel the world is. What they will see is how good you are because you've seen how bad things or people can be. The difference between you and your experiences are who you choose to be, despite everything that could have turned you cold and unkind.You are the good the world needs and the best of us.” ~ Kirsten Corley
  • Former MemberFormer Member ☕🌻☕ Posts: 12,938 Born on Earth, Raised by The Mix
    @Salix_alba_2019 it does me too, I really feel for them and families, but I also see it from the point of view of trying to protect them.

    Ive seen a lot of care homes who have been offering video chats with families, daily phone calls, visits through Windows with family outside and residents inside etc.
    Like a lot of care homes are doing their best while trying to keep the residents safe
  • StarlightStarlight Posts: 1,438 Wise Owl
    Does anyone have any plans for tomorrow? 
    * Shine like the star you are! *
  • Former MemberFormer Member ☕🌻☕ Posts: 12,938 Born on Earth, Raised by The Mix
    Starlight said:
    Does anyone have any plans for tomorrow? 

    I have work then probably gonna get drunk with some friends. You?
  • independent_independent_ Community Champion Posts: 9,015 Supreme Poster
    It's alright it's ok for people to think differently about it.

    I think one thing we shouldn't be doing in these times is judging others for doing things that are legal, but that we just don't agree with personally. If someone doesn't want to go out, or can't because of work, then that's ok. If someone does, so long as they're following the rules to the best of their ability, then that's fine too. 
    “Sometimes the people around you won’t understand your journey. They don’t need to, it’s not for them.”
  • SienaSiena Posts: 15,681 Skive's The Limit
    edited July 2020
    Starlight said:
    Does anyone have any plans for tomorrow? 
    @Starlight I’m looking after bella tomorrow while my sister and her husband go out for a meal. I also should get my new phone tomorrow 

    what about you?
    “And when they look at you, they won't see everything you've been through. They won't see the **** that turned to scars that began to fade with time. They won't see the heartbreaking things that shook up and changed your entire world. They won't know how many tears you cried or even what it was you were crying about. They won't see how strong you had to be because you had no other choice. What they will see though is how compassionate you are because you experienced pain. What they will see is how kind you are because you experienced how cruel the world is. What they will see is how good you are because you've seen how bad things or people can be. The difference between you and your experiences are who you choose to be, despite everything that could have turned you cold and unkind.You are the good the world needs and the best of us.” ~ Kirsten Corley
  • independent_independent_ Community Champion Posts: 9,015 Supreme Poster
    @Starlight I've got another zoom call at 4pm, but otherwise not much aha, how about you?
    “Sometimes the people around you won’t understand your journey. They don’t need to, it’s not for them.”
  • Former MemberFormer Member ☕🌻☕ Posts: 12,938 Born on Earth, Raised by The Mix
    My weights are in my housemates room and she's not home 😣😣 needed them. Damn
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 282 The Mix Regular
    Starlight said:
    Does anyone have any plans for tomorrow? 
    School work and a zoom meeting with my youth group. Probably will spend too much time watching stuff though haha
  • StarlightStarlight Posts: 1,438 Wise Owl
    Ive got a dance intensive 4-7:30 then off to my sisters to bunny sit and stay the night again!! @independent_
    * Shine like the star you are! *
  • Former MemberFormer Member ☕🌻☕ Posts: 12,938 Born on Earth, Raised by The Mix
    @EGM watched anything cool recently?
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