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ThePigeonsThePigeons Posts: 199 Trailblazer
in Health & Wellbeing
Pls help i need someone to talk to
ᴛʜᴇ ᴍɪɴᴅ ɪs ᴛʜᴇ ᴋᴇʏ ᴛʜᴀᴛ sᴇᴛs ʏᴏᴜ ғʀᴇᴇ

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    Millie2787Millie2787 Community Champion Posts: 5,160 Part of The Furniture
    Hey ,

    Is everything okay ?

    don’t forget you can also text SHOUT to 85258 if you really need someone to talk to <3
    Sometimes all you need is one person to believe in you , for you to begin to believe in yourself.
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    SienaSiena Posts: 15,557 Skive's The Limit
    Here if you wanna talk <3
    “And when they look at you, they won't see everything you've been through. They won't see the **** that turned to scars that began to fade with time. They won't see the heartbreaking things that shook up and changed your entire world. They won't know how many tears you cried or even what it was you were crying about. They won't see how strong you had to be because you had no other choice. What they will see though is how compassionate you are because you experienced pain. What they will see is how kind you are because you experienced how cruel the world is. What they will see is how good you are because you've seen how bad things or people can be. The difference between you and your experiences are who you choose to be, despite everything that could have turned you cold and unkind.You are the good the world needs and the best of us.” ~ Kirsten Corley
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    GreenTeaGreenTea Posts: 12,938 Born on Earth, Raised by The Mix
    Heya, 

    I'm around too if you want to talk.

    We are here for you
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    BubblesGoesBooBubblesGoesBoo Posts: 3,590 Community Veteran
    Here if you need someone to talk to 💖
    ' So I put a bullet where I shouda put a helmet, and I crash my car cause I wanna get carried away, that's why I'm standing on the overpass screaming at myself 'hey, I wanna get better''  
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    independent_independent_ Community Champion Posts: 8,667 Legendary Poster
    I hope you’re ok, around if you need a chat :) 
    “Sometimes the people around you won’t understand your journey. They don’t need to, it’s not for them.”
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    Salix_alba_2019Salix_alba_2019 Deactivated Posts: 1,646 Extreme Poster
    Heyyyy it's not too late to share, what's going on for you?

    Salix
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    coc0maccoc0mac Posts: 1,054 Wise Owl
    Hello, we are all here for you. 

    How are you feeling today @ThePigeons? :heart:
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    ThePigeonsThePigeons Posts: 199 Trailblazer
    Thanks everyone. I was panicking because I'm stuck, lost, not having answers. Not knowing if I can go to uni again stresses me out. 
    ᴛʜᴇ ᴍɪɴᴅ ɪs ᴛʜᴇ ᴋᴇʏ ᴛʜᴀᴛ sᴇᴛs ʏᴏᴜ ғʀᴇᴇ
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    Han93Han93 Posts: 309 The Mix Regular
    edited April 2020
    Hey @ThePigeons

    Sending you hugs. Why don't you know if you can go to uni again? Is it because of the coronavirus?

    We are always here to support you <3
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    ThePigeonsThePigeons Posts: 199 Trailblazer
    @Han93 Because I need therapy before I can go. I just found out that it will start in the next two weeks, which I'm glad about. But it will be over videocall and I have no privacy whatsoever in my house. I don't know how to do that.
    ᴛʜᴇ ᴍɪɴᴅ ɪs ᴛʜᴇ ᴋᴇʏ ᴛʜᴀᴛ sᴇᴛs ʏᴏᴜ ғʀᴇᴇ
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    StephanieStephanie Moderator Posts: 1,084 Wise Owl
    Hey, 

    Sending lots of hugs and just wanted to let you know we are here for you and care about you :heart:

    How are you today? :heart:
                                   "Happiness can be found even in the darkest of times if only one remembers to turn on the light" - Albus Dumbledore 

    "Like when I was down you just had that smile that made me feel like everything's worthwhile. Thinking of the day when you went away, what a life to take, what a bond to break, I'll be missing you"

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    ThePigeonsThePigeons Posts: 199 Trailblazer
    @Stephanie thankyou <3
    today was okay, i just layed in the sun all day with my headphones on
    ᴛʜᴇ ᴍɪɴᴅ ɪs ᴛʜᴇ ᴋᴇʏ ᴛʜᴀᴛ sᴇᴛs ʏᴏᴜ ғʀᴇᴇ
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    AifeAife Community Manager Posts: 3,056 Boards Guru
    We're here for you @ThePigeons, it can be really tough not having privacy in your home for your therapy sessions, having a space where you feel comfortable can be really important.

    How are things at home? Do you feel you can talk to those you're living with about having a bit of privacy during those sessions? 

    Glad to hear you we're feeling okay yesterday, the sunny weather has been so nice <3 
    Maybe somethings don't get better, but we do. We get stronger. We learn to live with our situations as messy and ugly as they are. We fix what we can and we adapt to what we can't. Maybe some of us will never fully be okay, but at least we're here. We're still trying. We're doing the best we can. That's worth celebrating too ❤
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    ThePigeonsThePigeons Posts: 199 Trailblazer
    @Aife when I tell them I'm going to call and close my door they still just walk in. I don't want to tell them it's for therapy because I'm afraid they will listen in.
    ᴛʜᴇ ᴍɪɴᴅ ɪs ᴛʜᴇ ᴋᴇʏ ᴛʜᴀᴛ sᴇᴛs ʏᴏᴜ ғʀᴇᴇ
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    SienaSiena Posts: 15,557 Skive's The Limit
    edited April 2020
    Heyy! I totally understand the lack of privacy stuff. I would much rather my counselling was on the phone but ive had to do it through texts and even then i dont get mych privacy. The whole 50 mins my sister will come in and be like oh who are you texting and im just like na no one just scrolling through facebook. Its just like i want my own stuff that you dont need to know every single thing. Ive never had the confidence to ask them to leave me alone while have a call as id be scared they listen to.  And because feel they would judge. BitProbably a lot more understanding then my brains makes them out. But still scared. But maybe you have the confidence to ask them? You could ask them to stay downstairs or something? If not is there an option to do it by text message? Good that you have a time for when youll start it!
    “And when they look at you, they won't see everything you've been through. They won't see the **** that turned to scars that began to fade with time. They won't see the heartbreaking things that shook up and changed your entire world. They won't know how many tears you cried or even what it was you were crying about. They won't see how strong you had to be because you had no other choice. What they will see though is how compassionate you are because you experienced pain. What they will see is how kind you are because you experienced how cruel the world is. What they will see is how good you are because you've seen how bad things or people can be. The difference between you and your experiences are who you choose to be, despite everything that could have turned you cold and unkind.You are the good the world needs and the best of us.” ~ Kirsten Corley
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    ThePigeonsThePigeons Posts: 199 Trailblazer
    @Shaunie wow that must be very annyoing if she keeps asking what you're doing. When I say that I'm busy they kind of react angrily. They think I'm being grumpy or something idk. Some of my family works upstairs and some downstairs. I don't think they will do it over text but maybe they understand and just use regular calling, then I can go sit in the car. It's really stressing me out that they can call anytime haha
    ᴛʜᴇ ᴍɪɴᴅ ɪs ᴛʜᴇ ᴋᴇʏ ᴛʜᴀᴛ sᴇᴛs ʏᴏᴜ ғʀᴇᴇ
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    ThePigeonsThePigeons Posts: 199 Trailblazer
    I don't think this is normekz
    ᴛʜᴇ ᴍɪɴᴅ ɪs ᴛʜᴇ ᴋᴇʏ ᴛʜᴀᴛ sᴇᴛs ʏᴏᴜ ғʀᴇᴇ
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    ThePigeonsThePigeons Posts: 199 Trailblazer
    Im malfunctioning
    ᴛʜᴇ ᴍɪɴᴅ ɪs ᴛʜᴇ ᴋᴇʏ ᴛʜᴀᴛ sᴇᴛs ʏᴏᴜ ғʀᴇᴇ
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    BubblesGoesBooBubblesGoesBoo Posts: 3,590 Community Veteran
    whats been going on @ThePigeons <3
    ' So I put a bullet where I shouda put a helmet, and I crash my car cause I wanna get carried away, that's why I'm standing on the overpass screaming at myself 'hey, I wanna get better''  
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