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Parents just died

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 152 Helping Hand
in Health & Wellbeing
My parents just died not long ago and so I’m really struggling right now no other family around I’m 15

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,938 Extreme Poster
    I'm so sorry. That must feel so awful for you :frown:

    Do you want to talk more about it? You could maybe start on how your relationship with your parents was if you're not sure where to start? There's no pressure to talk if you'd rather not :heart:

    Are you staying anywhere right now, like a foster home or anything? Sending you hugs x
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 152 Helping Hand
    Rather not 
    and no just living on my own 
  • JellyelephantJellyelephant Posts: 1,908 Extreme Poster
    Just wondering how you are living alone when you are 15 yrs old (therefore too young to sign a legal contract like a tenancy) and are in a wheelchair with MS? How are you paying the bills and daily living costs?
    The sun will rise and we will try again 
  • DancerDancer Community Champion Posts: 8,103 Legendary Poster
    I am so sorry to hear that your parents died. It must be so hard to go through. I am concerned to hear that you are living on your own in a wheelchair with a disability. You really need to ring social services or at least ask a friend if you can sleep on their sofa so you are not alone. 
    "There's a part of me I can't get back. A little girl grew up too fast. All it took was once. I'll never be the same." ~ Demi Lovato
    "The way that I have found the light in my life is through the expressive arts because I know that I will be accepted for the way I am." ~ Me
    "I'm going to get strong again and see you soon. " ~ Anonymous 
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 152 Helping Hand
    @Jellyelephant well I have neighbours who are paying for me and checking on me  daily and I lied about wheelchair sorry have asked mix to delete wheelchair post 
  • SienaSiena Posts: 15,681 Skive's The Limit
    edited August 2019
    Why did you lie about that? That's sick thing to lie about. Many people are in wheelchairs and can affect them very badly. How suppose to believe any of that now
    “And when they look at you, they won't see everything you've been through. They won't see the **** that turned to scars that began to fade with time. They won't see the heartbreaking things that shook up and changed your entire world. They won't know how many tears you cried or even what it was you were crying about. They won't see how strong you had to be because you had no other choice. What they will see though is how compassionate you are because you experienced pain. What they will see is how kind you are because you experienced how cruel the world is. What they will see is how good you are because you've seen how bad things or people can be. The difference between you and your experiences are who you choose to be, despite everything that could have turned you cold and unkind.You are the good the world needs and the best of us.” ~ Kirsten Corley
  • JellyelephantJellyelephant Posts: 1,908 Extreme Poster
    dogmad20 said:
    @Jellyelephant well I have neighbours who are paying for me and checking on me  daily and I lied about wheelchair sorry have asked mix to delete wheelchair post 
    Sorry but it seems unlikely to me. I doubt your neighbours are ok with you living alone and paying all ur bills and living costs for you. Also as you lied about the wheelchair it puts doubts on the rest of what you say 

    just as a side note: if you are struggling with how you feel or something then you don’t need to make stuff up to get support. We are here for you anyway if you tell the truth. 
    The sun will rise and we will try again 
  • DancerDancer Community Champion Posts: 8,103 Legendary Poster
    dogmad20 said:
    @Jellyelephant well I have neighbours who are paying for me and checking on me  daily and I lied about wheelchair sorry have asked mix to delete wheelchair post 
    At least you have someone who is checking on you daily now which is good. I am glad that you have asked The Mix to delete your wheelchair post. Sorry if this is rude or personal but do you even have Multiple Sclerosis? It is still concerning to hear that there is nobody to contact. 
    "There's a part of me I can't get back. A little girl grew up too fast. All it took was once. I'll never be the same." ~ Demi Lovato
    "The way that I have found the light in my life is through the expressive arts because I know that I will be accepted for the way I am." ~ Me
    "I'm going to get strong again and see you soon. " ~ Anonymous 
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 146 Helping Hand
    edited September 18
    @Past User I'm really sorry to hear about your parents, hope you are coping. X 
    Post edited by TheMix on
  • DancerDancer Community Champion Posts: 8,103 Legendary Poster
    Remember that you are never alone with what you are going through. We are here to help you and we won't judge you. All we need from you is the truth. Can you promise that?
    "There's a part of me I can't get back. A little girl grew up too fast. All it took was once. I'll never be the same." ~ Demi Lovato
    "The way that I have found the light in my life is through the expressive arts because I know that I will be accepted for the way I am." ~ Me
    "I'm going to get strong again and see you soon. " ~ Anonymous 
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 152 Helping Hand
    Sorry just in a bad place 😢😢😭
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 152 Helping Hand
    @Kasa2103 yep 
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 152 Helping Hand
    @Mike ok thanks please can you pm me back?
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