Not sure what to do 😔

Former Member

Hello,

Not really sure where to start to be honest, I’ve just realised that I’m selfish.. really selfish and I don’t seem to care about anyone else, don’t care whether they are worrying about me or anything. I don’t have the motivation to get better and I’m putting people through hell and upset for no reason and I don’t want to put it’s so hard.. I’m always spreading negativity in person around me friends and family, causing them then to feel low and down and it’s not fair is it. 

Sorry just feeling crappy 😔

Former Member

Hey @Past User

I think the thing I'd ask here is if it feels like this is coming from a place of selfishness (not caring how others feel) or if it's along the lines of self-doubt (worrying about how your actions are impacting them and feeling like you're a rubbish person)? It sounds more like the latter to me - you don't seem selfish at all, for what it's worth. I've seen you being so kind to people here I also think that the fact you're feeling like this shows that you can't be truly selfish, because if you were, you wouldn't care.

Sending hugs