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[OLD] The 'I need a hug' thread - please read first post before posting :)

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    SienaSiena Posts: 15,495 Skive's The Limit
    edited August 2019
    GreenTea said:
    Shaunie said:
    GreenTea said:
    The boards aren't really a thing anymore. They haven't been used in roughly 5-6 months 
    Oh thank you. Do you know why?
     I don't know, probably want to focus more on the chats and 1-2-1 support. 
    I just looked and they don't advertise the boards at all on their site anymore
    The boards used to look like the "how I'm feeling" "I'm support someone" options before going onto the boards but it goes no where so I thought it might of just been my phone./ doing something wrong Thanks
    “And when they look at you, they won't see everything you've been through. They won't see the **** that turned to scars that began to fade with time. They won't see the heartbreaking things that shook up and changed your entire world. They won't know how many tears you cried or even what it was you were crying about. They won't see how strong you had to be because you had no other choice. What they will see though is how compassionate you are because you experienced pain. What they will see is how kind you are because you experienced how cruel the world is. What they will see is how good you are because you've seen how bad things or people can be. The difference between you and your experiences are who you choose to be, despite everything that could have turned you cold and unkind.You are the good the world needs and the best of us.” ~ Kirsten Corley
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    GreenTeaGreenTea Posts: 12,938 Born on Earth, Raised by The Mix
    Idk I used the boards a few years ago but I guess it's not a thing anymore
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    davcr0ckdavcr0ck Posts: 774 Part of The Mix Family
    Best of luck to everyone getting their gcse results today 
    Love is love and everyone is accepting and can share their issues with no judge from me and I try to help 
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    Millie2787Millie2787 Community Champion Posts: 5,146 Part of The Furniture
    When college tell you results will be on dashboard at half 7 yet it’s no where to be seen 😩 
    Sometimes all you need is one person to believe in you , for you to begin to believe in yourself.
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    davcr0ckdavcr0ck Posts: 774 Part of The Mix Family
    edited August 2019
    Got massive bar of chocolate and a 2 litre bottle of coke and a hot chocolate, I'm sure you can tell how it went from that

    (I didn't go down or up let's up it like that) (3) 
    Post edited by davcr0ck on
    Love is love and everyone is accepting and can share their issues with no judge from me and I try to help 
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    Kathleen07Kathleen07 Posts: 1,938 Extreme Poster
    Sending hugs everyone <3
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    davcr0ckdavcr0ck Posts: 774 Part of The Mix Family
    Just a emional reck like last year, 

    Broke my gay mug by dropping it on my foot and that's not looking good so might be off to hospital this evening or tomorrow 

    Just want to forget everything 😣😣
    Love is love and everyone is accepting and can share their issues with no judge from me and I try to help 
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    Kathleen07Kathleen07 Posts: 1,938 Extreme Poster
    edited August 2019
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    GreenTeaGreenTea Posts: 12,938 Born on Earth, Raised by The Mix
    [ignore me. I'm actually nobody so please ignore the piece of garbage :)]

    You aren't a nobody or garbage! Sorry to hear you feel this way! 
    Just know we are here to support you if you need it
    We care ♥️
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    DancerDancer Community Champion Posts: 7,788 Master Poster
    I am the only piece of garbage here. True. 
    "There's a part of me I can't get back. A little girl grew up too fast. All it took was once. I'll never be the same." ~ Demi Lovato
    "The way that I have found the light in my life is through the expressive arts because I know that I will be accepted for the way I am." ~ Me
    "I'm going to get strong again and see you soon. " ~ Anonymous 
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    Kathleen07Kathleen07 Posts: 1,938 Extreme Poster
    @Kasa2103 said:
    I am the only piece of garbage here. True. 
    That's not true Kasa, I think of you as a great person <3
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    Kathleen07Kathleen07 Posts: 1,938 Extreme Poster
    It really hurts...
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    GreenTeaGreenTea Posts: 12,938 Born on Earth, Raised by The Mix
    It really hurts...

    Hugs ♥️♥️
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    Kathleen07Kathleen07 Posts: 1,938 Extreme Poster
    GreenTea said:
    It really hurts...

    Hugs ♥️♥️
    Thank you <3
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    DancerDancer Community Champion Posts: 7,788 Master Poster
    @Kasa2103 said:
    I am the only piece of garbage here. True. 
    That's not true Kasa, I think of you as a great person <3
    Thanks but your opinion of me is different to mine. 
    "There's a part of me I can't get back. A little girl grew up too fast. All it took was once. I'll never be the same." ~ Demi Lovato
    "The way that I have found the light in my life is through the expressive arts because I know that I will be accepted for the way I am." ~ Me
    "I'm going to get strong again and see you soon. " ~ Anonymous 
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    Millie2787Millie2787 Community Champion Posts: 5,146 Part of The Furniture
    edited August 2019
    Really hurting tonight , just know this interview didn’t go too well I caught a glimpse of my feedback sheet from the group activity and it didn’t look too good, the picked up on my not giving eye contact which really isn’t my fault  :( 
    Sometimes all you need is one person to believe in you , for you to begin to believe in yourself.
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    SienaSiena Posts: 15,495 Skive's The Limit
    Feel sooo bad 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
    “And when they look at you, they won't see everything you've been through. They won't see the **** that turned to scars that began to fade with time. They won't see the heartbreaking things that shook up and changed your entire world. They won't know how many tears you cried or even what it was you were crying about. They won't see how strong you had to be because you had no other choice. What they will see though is how compassionate you are because you experienced pain. What they will see is how kind you are because you experienced how cruel the world is. What they will see is how good you are because you've seen how bad things or people can be. The difference between you and your experiences are who you choose to be, despite everything that could have turned you cold and unkind.You are the good the world needs and the best of us.” ~ Kirsten Corley
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    SienaSiena Posts: 15,495 Skive's The Limit
    edited August 2019
    TRIGGER WARNING 


     while intentionally looking for pro anorexia things on the internet I end up on something very upsetting. Obviously far from pro anorexia. Someone saying they have been accepted for assisted suicide, euthanasia because they ended up in a wheelchair from something and they have messed up their bodies and their pain killers don't work anymore so they can't carry on with their lives and that was all from anorexia. And jus basically saying to recover before gets that bad. Omg that upset me so much😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 i don’t know what to think of my own recovery now. 


    “And when they look at you, they won't see everything you've been through. They won't see the **** that turned to scars that began to fade with time. They won't see the heartbreaking things that shook up and changed your entire world. They won't know how many tears you cried or even what it was you were crying about. They won't see how strong you had to be because you had no other choice. What they will see though is how compassionate you are because you experienced pain. What they will see is how kind you are because you experienced how cruel the world is. What they will see is how good you are because you've seen how bad things or people can be. The difference between you and your experiences are who you choose to be, despite everything that could have turned you cold and unkind.You are the good the world needs and the best of us.” ~ Kirsten Corley
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    BubblesGoesBooBubblesGoesBoo Posts: 3,590 Community Veteran
    @Aidan thanks :) taking it at night as ive heard it can make people feel sick for a few hours after taking it ...
    ' So I put a bullet where I shouda put a helmet, and I crash my car cause I wanna get carried away, that's why I'm standing on the overpass screaming at myself 'hey, I wanna get better''  
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    SienaSiena Posts: 15,495 Skive's The Limit
    edited August 2019
    Just had my whole life sucked out from  my body. Didn't think had any life in me. Now i feel so low and death sounds so peaceful. (Not in crisis) just feel so bad in so many ways
    “And when they look at you, they won't see everything you've been through. They won't see the **** that turned to scars that began to fade with time. They won't see the heartbreaking things that shook up and changed your entire world. They won't know how many tears you cried or even what it was you were crying about. They won't see how strong you had to be because you had no other choice. What they will see though is how compassionate you are because you experienced pain. What they will see is how kind you are because you experienced how cruel the world is. What they will see is how good you are because you've seen how bad things or people can be. The difference between you and your experiences are who you choose to be, despite everything that could have turned you cold and unkind.You are the good the world needs and the best of us.” ~ Kirsten Corley
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    SienaSiena Posts: 15,495 Skive's The Limit
    Shaunie said:
    TRIGGER WARNING 


     while intentionally looking for pro anorexia things on the internet I end up on something very upsetting. Obviously far from pro anorexia. Someone saying they have been accepted for assisted suicide, euthanasia because they ended up in a wheelchair from something and they have messed up their bodies and their pain killers don't work anymore so they can't carry on with their lives and that was all from anorexia. And jus basically saying to recover before gets that bad. Omg that upset me so much😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 i don’t know what to think of my own recovery now. 


    This person hasn't gone through euthanasia yet and now added them on Instagram Im speaking to them now.

    Crying how painful life and hope everyone finds peace
    “And when they look at you, they won't see everything you've been through. They won't see the **** that turned to scars that began to fade with time. They won't see the heartbreaking things that shook up and changed your entire world. They won't know how many tears you cried or even what it was you were crying about. They won't see how strong you had to be because you had no other choice. What they will see though is how compassionate you are because you experienced pain. What they will see is how kind you are because you experienced how cruel the world is. What they will see is how good you are because you've seen how bad things or people can be. The difference between you and your experiences are who you choose to be, despite everything that could have turned you cold and unkind.You are the good the world needs and the best of us.” ~ Kirsten Corley
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    davcr0ckdavcr0ck Posts: 774 Part of The Mix Family
    Biggest low and sad feeling I've had in a while and it's due to a piece of paper 
    Love is love and everyone is accepting and can share their issues with no judge from me and I try to help 
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    GreenTeaGreenTea Posts: 12,938 Born on Earth, Raised by The Mix
    I'm in so much pain all over my body, achy dull pain everywhere. 
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    *BananaMonkey**BananaMonkey* Posts: 5,462 Part of The Furniture


    Just leaving this here and sending hugs to all those who need them :heart:
    " And everywhere I am, there you'll be, your love made me make it through, oh I owe so much to you "
    " So I say thank you for the music, the songs I'm singing, thanks for all the joy they're bringing, who can live without it, I ask in all honestly what would life be? Without a song or a dance, what are we? So I say thank you for the music, for giving it to me "
    '' It's a beautiful day and I can't stop myself from smiling "
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