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  • BubblesGoesBooBubblesGoesBoo Sunny ScotlandPosts: 2,886 Mega Poster
    got taken back to hospital yesterday  :'( had a weird experience, like I wasn't in my body but watching my actions from someone else's perspective, I dunno. 
    ' So I put a bullet where I shouda put a helmet, and I crash my car cause I wanna get carried away, that's why I'm standing on the overpass screaming at myself 'hey, I wanna get better''  
    fadedangelShaunieLaine
  • ShaunieShaunie England 🏠Posts: 7,369 The Mix Elder
    Im so lonely 😭
    “If we could look into each other’s hearts and understand the unique challenges each of us faces, I think we would treat each other much more gently, with more love, patience, tolerance, and care” Marvin J. Ashton
    LaineMillie2787
  • LaineLaine Llama Mama Posts: 1,400 Fanatical Poster
    Shaunie said:
    Im so lonely 😭
    We're all here for you <3

    🌈Positive thoughts🌈

    It's my life It's now or never
    I ain't gonna live forever
    I just want to live while I'm alive
    (It's my life)
    My heart is like an open highway
    Like Frankie said I did it my way
    I just want to live while I'm alive It's my life ~ Bon Jovi


    "What's gonna be left of the world if you're not in it?" ~ Bastille
    Shaunie
  • Millie2787Millie2787 Carer/Craft Lover Posts: 2,483 Mega Poster
    Final preparations today to say goodbye tomorrow and I’ve stupidly come to college 
    “ I believe that you have the power to achieve whatever you put your mind too, You are living a life’s most people won’t  ever understand but that’s what will Be the root of all your determination and success. You have a soul full of love and kindness and I just know that despite all the hardship, a life’s of happiness awaits you and I’m very proud of you, just keep holding on” 
    Laine
  • Millie2787Millie2787 Carer/Craft Lover Posts: 2,483 Mega Poster
    Time so say goodbye to our little prince albie 👼🏻💔
    “ I believe that you have the power to achieve whatever you put your mind too, You are living a life’s most people won’t  ever understand but that’s what will Be the root of all your determination and success. You have a soul full of love and kindness and I just know that despite all the hardship, a life’s of happiness awaits you and I’m very proud of you, just keep holding on” 
    AifeLaine
  • AifeAife LondonPosts: 2,169 Moderator
    edited November 2018
    Time so say goodbye to our little prince albie 👼🏻💔
    Sending you a big hug Aimee. Thinking of you and your family <3
    Maybe somethings don't get better, but we do. We get stronger. We learn to live with our situations as messy and ugly as they are. We fix what we can and we adapt to what we can't. Maybe some of us will never fully be okay, but at least we're here. We're still trying. We're doing the best we can. That's worth celebrating too ❤
    Millie2787
  • Millie2787Millie2787 Carer/Craft Lover Posts: 2,483 Mega Poster
    Aife said:
    Time so say goodbye to our little prince albie 👼🏻💔
    Sending you a big hug Aimee. Thinking of you and your family <3
    Thank you so much @Aife it was as absolutely beautiful and perfect send off for our little prince 👼🏻💖
    “ I believe that you have the power to achieve whatever you put your mind too, You are living a life’s most people won’t  ever understand but that’s what will Be the root of all your determination and success. You have a soul full of love and kindness and I just know that despite all the hardship, a life’s of happiness awaits you and I’m very proud of you, just keep holding on” 
  • ShaunieShaunie England 🏠Posts: 7,369 The Mix Elder
    edited November 2018
    Edit - deleted it all—
    think was triggerin. I don’t know how else to express my eating disorder thoughts so probs best to not At all
    “If we could look into each other’s hearts and understand the unique challenges each of us faces, I think we would treat each other much more gently, with more love, patience, tolerance, and care” Marvin J. Ashton
    Laine
  • ShaunieShaunie England 🏠Posts: 7,369 The Mix Elder
    I had a dream that i went outside for the first time and spoke to soemone for the first time. Was really weird because it felt like i had a whole life time of speaking to nobody when it was probably a few seconds in my dream. Quite sad. I think thats saying how lonely i feel. 
    “If we could look into each other’s hearts and understand the unique challenges each of us faces, I think we would treat each other much more gently, with more love, patience, tolerance, and care” Marvin J. Ashton
    Laine
  • LaineLaine Llama Mama Posts: 1,400 Fanatical Poster
    Feel really lonely tonight. 

    There never seems to be a correlation like I haven't been alone all day but everyone has gone to bed and I just notice it right now how alone I feel?  

    I guess it doesn't matter if people are around IDK just yeah feel really sad tonight  

    🌈Positive thoughts🌈

    It's my life It's now or never
    I ain't gonna live forever
    I just want to live while I'm alive
    (It's my life)
    My heart is like an open highway
    Like Frankie said I did it my way
    I just want to live while I'm alive It's my life ~ Bon Jovi


    "What's gonna be left of the world if you're not in it?" ~ Bastille
    ShaunieMillie2787BubblesGoesBooAife
  • Millie2787Millie2787 Carer/Craft Lover Posts: 2,483 Mega Poster
    Just been to see Albies grave for the first time since the funeral 💖
    “ I believe that you have the power to achieve whatever you put your mind too, You are living a life’s most people won’t  ever understand but that’s what will Be the root of all your determination and success. You have a soul full of love and kindness and I just know that despite all the hardship, a life’s of happiness awaits you and I’m very proud of you, just keep holding on” 
    LaineAife
  • ShaunieShaunie England 🏠Posts: 7,369 The Mix Elder
    :’(
    “If we could look into each other’s hearts and understand the unique challenges each of us faces, I think we would treat each other much more gently, with more love, patience, tolerance, and care” Marvin J. Ashton
    BubblesGoesBooAifeLaine
  • Millie2787Millie2787 Carer/Craft Lover Posts: 2,483 Mega Poster
    Parents evening didn’t quite go to plan 
    my CPLD is worried becasue the mock paper ( old exam paper ) I did yesterday I only got a L1 pass whereas the test paper she made that I did for her before half term I got a merit 😭
    “ I believe that you have the power to achieve whatever you put your mind too, You are living a life’s most people won’t  ever understand but that’s what will Be the root of all your determination and success. You have a soul full of love and kindness and I just know that despite all the hardship, a life’s of happiness awaits you and I’m very proud of you, just keep holding on” 
    BubblesGoesBooLaine
  • ShaunieShaunie England 🏠Posts: 7,369 The Mix Elder
    Feel so empty :’(. Feel so repeative too lol. But always sad
    “If we could look into each other’s hearts and understand the unique challenges each of us faces, I think we would treat each other much more gently, with more love, patience, tolerance, and care” Marvin J. Ashton
    RileyLaine
  • BubblesGoesBooBubblesGoesBoo Sunny ScotlandPosts: 2,886 Mega Poster
    Yesterdays appointment was tough :( they done a report about me to send out to my team/GP and I don't know, having all my problems down on paper really hit me hard... so many diagnoses, some of which I knew nothing about. still feeling drained from it but have to go into work :(
    ' So I put a bullet where I shouda put a helmet, and I crash my car cause I wanna get carried away, that's why I'm standing on the overpass screaming at myself 'hey, I wanna get better''  
    Millie2787*BananaMonkey*Laine
  • *BananaMonkey**BananaMonkey* Lyrical Poster Posts: 5,212 The Mix Elder
    Yesterdays appointment was tough :( they done a report about me to send out to my team/GP and I don't know, having all my problems down on paper really hit me hard... so many diagnoses, some of which I knew nothing about. still feeling drained from it but have to go into work :(
    Sending hugs :heart:
    " And everywhere I am, there you'll be, your love made me make it through, oh I owe so much to you "
    " So I say thank you for the music, the songs I'm singing, thanks for all the joy they're bringing, who can live without it, I ask in all honestly what would life be? Without a song or a dance, what are we? So I say thank you for the music, for giving it to me "
    '' It's a beautiful day and I can't stop myself from smiling "
    Millie2787BubblesGoesBoo
  • ShaunieShaunie England 🏠Posts: 7,369 The Mix Elder
    Im so sad. Omg please someone kil me
    “If we could look into each other’s hearts and understand the unique challenges each of us faces, I think we would treat each other much more gently, with more love, patience, tolerance, and care” Marvin J. Ashton
    Millie2787Laine*BananaMonkey*
  • *BananaMonkey**BananaMonkey* Lyrical Poster Posts: 5,212 The Mix Elder
    Shaunie said:
    Im so sad. Omg please someone kil me
    Hey Shaunie,

    Sounds like your struggling. Do you want to chat about what's going on for you?


    " And everywhere I am, there you'll be, your love made me make it through, oh I owe so much to you "
    " So I say thank you for the music, the songs I'm singing, thanks for all the joy they're bringing, who can live without it, I ask in all honestly what would life be? Without a song or a dance, what are we? So I say thank you for the music, for giving it to me "
    '' It's a beautiful day and I can't stop myself from smiling "
    Shaunie
  • Millie2787Millie2787 Carer/Craft Lover Posts: 2,483 Mega Poster
    As New Years starts to creep upon me just thinking about everything that’s happended this year 😢😐
    “ I believe that you have the power to achieve whatever you put your mind too, You are living a life’s most people won’t  ever understand but that’s what will Be the root of all your determination and success. You have a soul full of love and kindness and I just know that despite all the hardship, a life’s of happiness awaits you and I’m very proud of you, just keep holding on” 
    LaineAifeShaunie
  • LaineLaine Llama Mama Posts: 1,400 Fanatical Poster
    Feel so alone rn just want a hug i guess,

    just me being silly but yeah x

    🌈Positive thoughts🌈

    It's my life It's now or never
    I ain't gonna live forever
    I just want to live while I'm alive
    (It's my life)
    My heart is like an open highway
    Like Frankie said I did it my way
    I just want to live while I'm alive It's my life ~ Bon Jovi


    "What's gonna be left of the world if you're not in it?" ~ Bastille
    ShaunieBubblesGoesBoo
  • *BananaMonkey**BananaMonkey* Lyrical Poster Posts: 5,212 The Mix Elder
    Sending hugs to all those who may need them right now :heart:


    " And everywhere I am, there you'll be, your love made me make it through, oh I owe so much to you "
    " So I say thank you for the music, the songs I'm singing, thanks for all the joy they're bringing, who can live without it, I ask in all honestly what would life be? Without a song or a dance, what are we? So I say thank you for the music, for giving it to me "
    '' It's a beautiful day and I can't stop myself from smiling "
    Laine
  • AidanAidan Potato Posts: 1,463 Fanatical Poster
    Our chocolate lab, Truffle, who's been a part of the family 13 years since I was 5 or 6, has been having coughing and choking fits. She's been barking randomly, at nothing or at us and our other dogs. She has to be let out really early in the morning because she can't hold on for as long as our younger dogs. I don't think she's enjoying life.

    I feel she's been an afterthought, that we've not been good enough for her. She deserves the best.

    She's going to the vets on Monday. It took some pleading to get this to happen, my parents were scared of getting her to the vets for the same reason I am. I know what Monday could entail. She's terrified of the vets.

    I don't want her to be scared.
    Millie2787Laine
  • Millie2787Millie2787 Carer/Craft Lover Posts: 2,483 Mega Poster
    edited December 2018
    Shouldn’t have to had taken me staying off college becasye my anxiety was so bad for my tutor to attucally start to care 😭
    “ I believe that you have the power to achieve whatever you put your mind too, You are living a life’s most people won’t  ever understand but that’s what will Be the root of all your determination and success. You have a soul full of love and kindness and I just know that despite all the hardship, a life’s of happiness awaits you and I’m very proud of you, just keep holding on” 
  • LaineLaine Llama Mama Posts: 1,400 Fanatical Poster
    Aidan said:
    Our chocolate lab, Truffle, who's been a part of the family 13 years since I was 5 or 6, has been having coughing and choking fits. She's been barking randomly, at nothing or at us and our other dogs. She has to be let out really early in the morning because she can't hold on for as long as our younger dogs. I don't think she's enjoying life.

    I feel she's been an afterthought, that we've not been good enough for her. She deserves the best.

    She's going to the vets on Monday. It took some pleading to get this to happen, my parents were scared of getting her to the vets for the same reason I am. I know what Monday could entail. She's terrified of the vets.

    I don't want her to be scared.
    Aw Aidan I'm sorry to hear it but whatever happens is for the best interest of her heart.

    She could be barking at nothing if she is having sight or hearing issues.

    It's very common for doggos to get out of breath and coughy in old age,  the same happened to Rosie but she still lived for another 4 years before developing a brain tumour. 

    I can't promise anything good or bad will happen but I can promise that whatever does will make truffle very happy and while a hard decision may come take happiness in the fact that it will be good for her 💕

    Dogs are so precious xo

    🌈Positive thoughts🌈

    It's my life It's now or never
    I ain't gonna live forever
    I just want to live while I'm alive
    (It's my life)
    My heart is like an open highway
    Like Frankie said I did it my way
    I just want to live while I'm alive It's my life ~ Bon Jovi


    "What's gonna be left of the world if you're not in it?" ~ Bastille
  • ShaunieShaunie England 🏠Posts: 7,369 The Mix Elder
    Omg so tired can barely keep my eyes open but have work
    “If we could look into each other’s hearts and understand the unique challenges each of us faces, I think we would treat each other much more gently, with more love, patience, tolerance, and care” Marvin J. Ashton
    Laine
  • *BananaMonkey**BananaMonkey* Lyrical Poster Posts: 5,212 The Mix Elder
    Sending hugs to those who are in need of one right now :heart:

    Remember we are all here for you 
    " And everywhere I am, there you'll be, your love made me make it through, oh I owe so much to you "
    " So I say thank you for the music, the songs I'm singing, thanks for all the joy they're bringing, who can live without it, I ask in all honestly what would life be? Without a song or a dance, what are we? So I say thank you for the music, for giving it to me "
    '' It's a beautiful day and I can't stop myself from smiling "
  • BubblesGoesBooBubblesGoesBoo Sunny ScotlandPosts: 2,886 Mega Poster
    my report came.. too scared to open it, I know it will set me back, I know ill do something destructive, but in a way I want to read it just to punish myself?  doesn't make any sense but just how I feel.
    ' So I put a bullet where I shouda put a helmet, and I crash my car cause I wanna get carried away, that's why I'm standing on the overpass screaming at myself 'hey, I wanna get better''  
    *BananaMonkey*
  • *BananaMonkey**BananaMonkey* Lyrical Poster Posts: 5,212 The Mix Elder
    my report came.. too scared to open it, I know it will set me back, I know ill do something destructive, but in a way I want to read it just to punish myself?  doesn't make any sense but just how I feel.
    hey bubbles :heart:

    Do you want to chat about anything?


    " And everywhere I am, there you'll be, your love made me make it through, oh I owe so much to you "
    " So I say thank you for the music, the songs I'm singing, thanks for all the joy they're bringing, who can live without it, I ask in all honestly what would life be? Without a song or a dance, what are we? So I say thank you for the music, for giving it to me "
    '' It's a beautiful day and I can't stop myself from smiling "
  • BubblesGoesBooBubblesGoesBoo Sunny ScotlandPosts: 2,886 Mega Poster
    my report came.. too scared to open it, I know it will set me back, I know ill do something destructive, but in a way I want to read it just to punish myself?  doesn't make any sense but just how I feel.
    hey bubbles :heart:

    Do you want to chat about anything?


    there is nothing to chat about till I open this report, I know roughly what it says, how fucked up I am and a list of diagnoses I knew nothing about, was in tears when he read it out to me, I just don't feel strong enough to go through that again. <3
    ' So I put a bullet where I shouda put a helmet, and I crash my car cause I wanna get carried away, that's why I'm standing on the overpass screaming at myself 'hey, I wanna get better''  
    Laine
  • *BananaMonkey**BananaMonkey* Lyrical Poster Posts: 5,212 The Mix Elder
    my report came.. too scared to open it, I know it will set me back, I know ill do something destructive, but in a way I want to read it just to punish myself?  doesn't make any sense but just how I feel.
    hey bubbles :heart:

    Do you want to chat about anything?


    there is nothing to chat about till I open this report, I know roughly what it says, how fucked up I am and a list of diagnoses I knew nothing about, was in tears when he read it out to me, I just don't feel strong enough to go through that again. <3
    hugs :heart:
    " And everywhere I am, there you'll be, your love made me make it through, oh I owe so much to you "
    " So I say thank you for the music, the songs I'm singing, thanks for all the joy they're bringing, who can live without it, I ask in all honestly what would life be? Without a song or a dance, what are we? So I say thank you for the music, for giving it to me "
    '' It's a beautiful day and I can't stop myself from smiling "
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