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[OLD] The 'I need a hug' thread - please read first post before posting :)

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    Salix_alba_2019Salix_alba_2019 Deactivated Posts: 1,646 Extreme Poster
    I need the noise to stop, I need to ask for hell but I can't do it.

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    _Tech_Addict_Girl_Tech_Addict_Girl Posts: 1,489 Wise Owl
    I’m not going to lie staying in and not hanging out with my friends is really upsetting me🥺
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    _Tech_Addict_Girl_Tech_Addict_Girl Posts: 1,489 Wise Owl
    Because my mom can’t be bothered to drop me off places😒
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    independent_independent_ Community Champion Posts: 8,617 Legendary Poster
    zaynab_5 wrote: »
    I'm so insecure about my weight urgh, the medication I'm on really does cause significant weight gain and I really want to get off it because I don't think I'll get a relapse. I loved my old weight I miss it so much.

    My meds cause this too @zaynab_5 it’s hard when the meds help but they have effects like that. Worth having a chat with your GP about it there might be another they can switch you to if it’s really affecting you <3
    “Sometimes the people around you won’t understand your journey. They don’t need to, it’s not for them.”
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    _Tech_Addict_Girl_Tech_Addict_Girl Posts: 1,489 Wise Owl
    I left my glasses at 6th form do you think someone will touch them 😥
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    SienaSiena Posts: 15,500 Skive's The Limit
    There’s a moth in my room and I’m so scared
    “And when they look at you, they won't see everything you've been through. They won't see the **** that turned to scars that began to fade with time. They won't see the heartbreaking things that shook up and changed your entire world. They won't know how many tears you cried or even what it was you were crying about. They won't see how strong you had to be because you had no other choice. What they will see though is how compassionate you are because you experienced pain. What they will see is how kind you are because you experienced how cruel the world is. What they will see is how good you are because you've seen how bad things or people can be. The difference between you and your experiences are who you choose to be, despite everything that could have turned you cold and unkind.You are the good the world needs and the best of us.” ~ Kirsten Corley
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    SienaSiena Posts: 15,500 Skive's The Limit
    LorryTruck wrote: »
    @Shaunie @zaynab_5 Is it one of those big massive ones that when they hit the wall they sound like batssss.
    Yeah hate that sound
    “And when they look at you, they won't see everything you've been through. They won't see the **** that turned to scars that began to fade with time. They won't see the heartbreaking things that shook up and changed your entire world. They won't know how many tears you cried or even what it was you were crying about. They won't see how strong you had to be because you had no other choice. What they will see though is how compassionate you are because you experienced pain. What they will see is how kind you are because you experienced how cruel the world is. What they will see is how good you are because you've seen how bad things or people can be. The difference between you and your experiences are who you choose to be, despite everything that could have turned you cold and unkind.You are the good the world needs and the best of us.” ~ Kirsten Corley
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    lovemimoonlovemimoon Posts: 2,318 Boards Champion
    YOOOO

    What kind of moths do you have over there??
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    SienaSiena Posts: 15,500 Skive's The Limit
    My ENT appointment has been cancelled 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
    “And when they look at you, they won't see everything you've been through. They won't see the **** that turned to scars that began to fade with time. They won't see the heartbreaking things that shook up and changed your entire world. They won't know how many tears you cried or even what it was you were crying about. They won't see how strong you had to be because you had no other choice. What they will see though is how compassionate you are because you experienced pain. What they will see is how kind you are because you experienced how cruel the world is. What they will see is how good you are because you've seen how bad things or people can be. The difference between you and your experiences are who you choose to be, despite everything that could have turned you cold and unkind.You are the good the world needs and the best of us.” ~ Kirsten Corley
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    lovemimoonlovemimoon Posts: 2,318 Boards Champion
    In several weeks or so, I'm going to be discharged from group therapy and I'm scared.

    I'm not ready.
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    GreenTeaGreenTea Posts: 12,938 Born on Earth, Raised by The Mix
    I'm doing to much and I know it..but I can't stop because I'm so desperately trying to be completely independent..
    45+ hours working, on top of study for a short course I'm doing, helping my mate with her kids..
    I'm mentally and physically exhausted. I don't have time to eat, shop etc.
    In struggling to keep up with myself..I'm self harm free 2 months and I'm really struggling.
    I feel like I'm drowning
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    natalie_bnatalie_b Posts: 45 Boards Initiate
    Big hugs @GreenTea, I just wanted to pop in here to say remember to take time for what you need. You have to put on your own oxygen mask on first <3
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    GreenTeaGreenTea Posts: 12,938 Born on Earth, Raised by The Mix
    natalie_b wrote: »
    Big hugs @GreenTea, I just wanted to pop in here to say remember to take time for what you need. You have to put on your own oxygen mask on first <3

    Thank you
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    SienaSiena Posts: 15,500 Skive's The Limit
    Uhhh what a day
    “And when they look at you, they won't see everything you've been through. They won't see the **** that turned to scars that began to fade with time. They won't see the heartbreaking things that shook up and changed your entire world. They won't know how many tears you cried or even what it was you were crying about. They won't see how strong you had to be because you had no other choice. What they will see though is how compassionate you are because you experienced pain. What they will see is how kind you are because you experienced how cruel the world is. What they will see is how good you are because you've seen how bad things or people can be. The difference between you and your experiences are who you choose to be, despite everything that could have turned you cold and unkind.You are the good the world needs and the best of us.” ~ Kirsten Corley
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    SienaSiena Posts: 15,500 Skive's The Limit
    My throat is hurting I can’t eat anything atm
    “And when they look at you, they won't see everything you've been through. They won't see the **** that turned to scars that began to fade with time. They won't see the heartbreaking things that shook up and changed your entire world. They won't know how many tears you cried or even what it was you were crying about. They won't see how strong you had to be because you had no other choice. What they will see though is how compassionate you are because you experienced pain. What they will see is how kind you are because you experienced how cruel the world is. What they will see is how good you are because you've seen how bad things or people can be. The difference between you and your experiences are who you choose to be, despite everything that could have turned you cold and unkind.You are the good the world needs and the best of us.” ~ Kirsten Corley
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    StephanieStephanie Moderator Posts: 1,084 Wise Owl
    Sending hugs to all those who need them :heart:
                                   "Happiness can be found even in the darkest of times if only one remembers to turn on the light" - Albus Dumbledore 

    "Like when I was down you just had that smile that made me feel like everything's worthwhile. Thinking of the day when you went away, what a life to take, what a bond to break, I'll be missing you"

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    independent_independent_ Community Champion Posts: 8,617 Legendary Poster
    You know that way when something doesn’t feel right in your head but you can’t pinpoint what?

    I know I’m struggling again but I don’t understand it or even have words for how I feel.
    “Sometimes the people around you won’t understand your journey. They don’t need to, it’s not for them.”
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