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  • Emoji246Emoji246 Posts: 456 Listening Ear
    🥺🥺🥺
    errrinindependent_Anch0r33Salix_alba_2019
  • independent_independent_ Resident Coffee Addict ScotlandPosts: 5,355 Part of The Furniture
    I hate being worried about something specific wich I can’t speak about to anyone except one person. It’s a lonely feeling
    “Sometimes the people around you won’t understand your journey. They don’t need to, it’s not for them.”
    errrinDandelionAnch0r33Salix_alba_2019
  • Anch0r33Anch0r33 Crazy Rat Lady 🐀 Posts: 565 Incredible Poster
    Feeling a bit overwhelmed with my workload but determined to hit my deadlines. 

    Going to make a study plan and try to de-stress myself
    👁️👄👁️
    independent_GreenTeaerrrinDandelionMel_Salix_alba_2019
  • Mel_Mel_ Posts: 203 Trailblazer
    Feeling overly stressed and almost pressured to come into work on my days off, idk what to do. Something my therapist said to me really got me also and I can't stop thinking about it.
    errrinDandelionAnch0r33
  • ShaunieShaunie I’m alive but I’m dead England 🏠Posts: 11,354 An Original Mixlorian
    Help me
     
    ThatFelixGuyerrrinindependent_Anch0r33
  • ThatFelixGuyThatFelixGuy Always Look Up. Optimism > PesimismPosts: 225 Trailblazer
    Shaunie said:
    Help me
    Hugs <3
    "Be like water making its way through cracks. Do not be assertive, but adjust to the object, and you shall find a way around or through it. If nothing within you stays rigid, outward things will disclose themselves." - Bruce Lee
  • EleanorEleanor Living the Zen life 🧘🏼‍♀️ Posts: 1,563 Extreme Poster
    @Shaunie Is all alright? <3
    Alis propriis volat 
  • ShaunieShaunie I’m alive but I’m dead England 🏠Posts: 11,354 An Original Mixlorian
    I’m so sad I can’t take it 😭😭😭😭😭 But thanks
     
    independent_ThatFelixGuyEleanorAnch0r33
  • GreenTeaGreenTea ☕🌻☕ MidlandsPosts: 9,339 Supreme Poster
    My whole body hurts. It just hurts

    The scars you can't see are the hardest to heal.     

    Astrid Alauda

    independent_errrinAnch0r33
  • ThatFelixGuyThatFelixGuy Always Look Up. Optimism > PesimismPosts: 225 Trailblazer
    Shaunie said:
    I’m so sad I can’t take it 😭😭😭😭😭 But thanks
    Hey now,

    It is ok to be sad <3 we are here!!
    "Be like water making its way through cracks. Do not be assertive, but adjust to the object, and you shall find a way around or through it. If nothing within you stays rigid, outward things will disclose themselves." - Bruce Lee
    independent_ShaunieAnch0r33
  • Anch0r33Anch0r33 Crazy Rat Lady 🐀 Posts: 565 Incredible Poster
    I think I'm genuinely so run down that I wake up exhausted. I just fell asleep last night after putting my work down and now I'm super tired like I could sleep for the whole day. 

    My uni class had us fill out a survey and it asked about if our mental health is bothering us and if so can they contact us. I disclosed a few things and said they can contact me. I think they'll contact during the week but it's the waiting that's draining, I don't know what they'll say. I hope they don't recommend uni counselling as they told me they couldn't help me. 

    I've got so much work I need to do and I'm not even behind on anything - it's all just piled at once and it's so hard to concentrate with the kids and other distractions. I just want to sleep all the time and it's really starting to drain me. 
    👁️👄👁️
    EleanorGreenTeaerrrinindependent_Mel_
  • errrinerrrin Posts: 104 The Mix Convert
    I feel like I’m suffocating, and there’s a sadness that never goes away no matter what I do. A few things used to ease it but now nothing works. I’m annoyed and frustrated because I’m pretty sure there’s nothing that can help me because how I feel is just a part of life. I have happy  moments, the occasional good day so I’m trying to cling onto those. I just feel really guilty because I have a good life. I’ve never been faced with real problems, I’m my only enemy. I get too caught up in my own head, I’m sorry if I’ve ever upset or offended anyone here. You’re all nice people but I can be extremely self absorbed. I’m fine or at least I will be, I just need to get a grip. Getting this off my chest really helped. 
    independent_LiamAnch0r33
  • GreenTeaGreenTea ☕🌻☕ MidlandsPosts: 9,339 Supreme Poster
    edited October 18
    Constant negative view on myself and knowing everyone else has a negative view on me..hurts. I can't take it. I can't look in a mirror without crying. Everything I do I feel like people talk badly about me behind my back.. I can't take this Anymore. I hate myself a lot and knowing everyone else hates me too, makes me question why I'm alive.
    I've turned to self harm so much recently. I struggle to see a point in battling anything.

    The scars you can't see are the hardest to heal.     

    Astrid Alauda

    Anch0r33errrinindependent_
  • GreenTeaGreenTea ☕🌻☕ MidlandsPosts: 9,339 Supreme Poster
    Do you ever just give up with the day? Pull the blinds down and crawl into bed and just lay there...?

    The scars you can't see are the hardest to heal.     

    Astrid Alauda

    Anch0r33errrinindependent_
  • GreenTeaGreenTea ☕🌻☕ MidlandsPosts: 9,339 Supreme Poster
    All I have done is cry this afternoon..I'm convinced everyone hates me.
    I'm in a right emotional state.

    The scars you can't see are the hardest to heal.     

    Astrid Alauda

    LiamAnch0r33errrinindependent_Mel_
  • LiamLiam mint Posts: 1,660 Extreme Poster
    we dont hate u @GreenTea x
    Anch0r33
  • Anch0r33Anch0r33 Crazy Rat Lady 🐀 Posts: 565 Incredible Poster
    @GreenTea all we want is to see you do well, we care about you <3
    👁️👄👁️
  • errrinerrrin Posts: 104 The Mix Convert
    @GreenTea , we haven’t spoken much but you’re clearly a wonderful person. I definitely don’t hate you. I wish you all the best. Happy to listen if you ever need someone to talk to. :)  
  • Mel_Mel_ Posts: 203 Trailblazer
    no matter what i do, ill never be good enough.
    independent_Anch0r33errrinSalix_alba_2019
  • GreenTeaGreenTea ☕🌻☕ MidlandsPosts: 9,339 Supreme Poster
    edited October 20
    I'm crying out of pure exhaustion 

    The scars you can't see are the hardest to heal.     

    Astrid Alauda

    Dandelionindependent_errrinAnch0r33
  • GreenTeaGreenTea ☕🌻☕ MidlandsPosts: 9,339 Supreme Poster
    edited October 20
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    The scars you can't see are the hardest to heal.     

    Astrid Alauda

    Dandelionindependent_errrinAnch0r33
  • independent_independent_ Resident Coffee Addict ScotlandPosts: 5,355 Part of The Furniture
    Why can’t I Just be happy, and feel genuinely ok for even a day in my life 
    “Sometimes the people around you won’t understand your journey. They don’t need to, it’s not for them.”
    errrinGreenTeaAnch0r33Salix_alba_2019Dandelion
  • ShaunieShaunie I’m alive but I’m dead England 🏠Posts: 11,354 An Original Mixlorian
    Anxiety is making me feel sick and leaving me with no appetite 
     
    Dandelion
  • GreenTeaGreenTea ☕🌻☕ MidlandsPosts: 9,339 Supreme Poster
    Why can’t I Just be happy, and feel genuinely ok for even a day in my life 


    Sending huge hugs 

    The scars you can't see are the hardest to heal.     

    Astrid Alauda

    independent_
  • GreenTeaGreenTea ☕🌻☕ MidlandsPosts: 9,339 Supreme Poster
    I'm so mentally exhausted. It's been a really long week and it's hit me this evening

    The scars you can't see are the hardest to heal.     

    Astrid Alauda

    independent_Dandelion
  • independent_independent_ Resident Coffee Addict ScotlandPosts: 5,355 Part of The Furniture
    GreenTea said:
    Why can’t I Just be happy, and feel genuinely ok for even a day in my life 


    Sending huge hugs 
    Thank you. Have had an awful day honestly :(  
    “Sometimes the people around you won’t understand your journey. They don’t need to, it’s not for them.”
  • GreenTeaGreenTea ☕🌻☕ MidlandsPosts: 9,339 Supreme Poster
    GreenTea said:
    Why can’t I Just be happy, and feel genuinely ok for even a day in my life 


    Sending huge hugs 
    Thank you. Have had an awful day honestly :(  

    You know where I am if you need a chat my lovely 💕 
    The day is almost over

    The scars you can't see are the hardest to heal.     

    Astrid Alauda

    independent_
  • Anch0r33Anch0r33 Crazy Rat Lady 🐀 Posts: 565 Incredible Poster
    I'm so so tired and feel like I just need to sleep all the time. 

    I've had a day off doing uni work which has been nice. 

    But I just feel so mentally done. 
    👁️👄👁️
    independent_ThatFelixGuyerrrinGreenTeaDandelion
  • ShaunieShaunie I’m alive but I’m dead England 🏠Posts: 11,354 An Original Mixlorian
    edited October 23
    Had sex again. Didn’t feel much. Just feel numb with everything 
     
    independent_
  • ShaunieShaunie I’m alive but I’m dead England 🏠Posts: 11,354 An Original Mixlorian
    Got notification saying “ Possible Covid-19 exposure
     
    independent_
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