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[OLD] The 'I need a hug' thread - please read first post before posting :)

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  • pandalover200pandalover200 Deactivated Posts: 349 The Mix Regular
    @pandalover200 I have my autism assessment 
    Aww you will be fine good luck 
  • DandelionDandelion Posts: 1,911 Extreme Poster
    Actually getting so fed up, feel like I’m going backwards 
    The steps you take don’t need to be big, they just need to take you in the right direction. 
  • StarlightStarlight Posts: 1,436 Wise Owl
    Just when your thinking your feeling great and having a good time, everything has to come crashing down. It’s so hard to actually have a good time nowadays cos I always know it won’t be long till I’m lying in bed crying and feeling my worst. Ohh well that’s life I guess
    “I got you, moonlight, you're my starlight
    I need you all night, come on, dance with me”

    * Shine like the star you are! *
  • independent_independent_ Community Champion Posts: 8,610 Legendary Poster
    help
    “Sometimes the people around you won’t understand your journey. They don’t need to, it’s not for them.”
  • StarlightStarlight Posts: 1,436 Wise Owl
    help
    You alright lovely? <3 
    “I got you, moonlight, you're my starlight
    I need you all night, come on, dance with me”

    * Shine like the star you are! *
  • independent_independent_ Community Champion Posts: 8,610 Legendary Poster
    Starlight said:
    help
    You alright lovely? <3 
    Thank you for checking up on me <3 I will be. 
    “Sometimes the people around you won’t understand your journey. They don’t need to, it’s not for them.”
  • SienaSiena Posts: 15,463 Skive's The Limit
    TW

    I had a dream my family got another dog saying its to Improve my  mental illness and that they will pay for everything but they have done this for me. I acted happy but I was annoyed thinking how am I supposed to kil myself now


    “And when they look at you, they won't see everything you've been through. They won't see the **** that turned to scars that began to fade with time. They won't see the heartbreaking things that shook up and changed your entire world. They won't know how many tears you cried or even what it was you were crying about. They won't see how strong you had to be because you had no other choice. What they will see though is how compassionate you are because you experienced pain. What they will see is how kind you are because you experienced how cruel the world is. What they will see is how good you are because you've seen how bad things or people can be. The difference between you and your experiences are who you choose to be, despite everything that could have turned you cold and unkind.You are the good the world needs and the best of us.” ~ Kirsten Corley
  • GreenTeaGreenTea Posts: 12,938 Born on Earth, Raised by The Mix
    Had to walk home in the rain I'm it's soaked all through my coat down to my skin and uncomfortable and itchy even tho I've changed
  • SienaSiena Posts: 15,463 Skive's The Limit
    edited July 2020
    My hands feel really skinny today and it’s triggering me. It feels pretty cool tbh 😶
    “And when they look at you, they won't see everything you've been through. They won't see the **** that turned to scars that began to fade with time. They won't see the heartbreaking things that shook up and changed your entire world. They won't know how many tears you cried or even what it was you were crying about. They won't see how strong you had to be because you had no other choice. What they will see though is how compassionate you are because you experienced pain. What they will see is how kind you are because you experienced how cruel the world is. What they will see is how good you are because you've seen how bad things or people can be. The difference between you and your experiences are who you choose to be, despite everything that could have turned you cold and unkind.You are the good the world needs and the best of us.” ~ Kirsten Corley
  • Past UserPast User Posts: 1,997 Extreme Poster
    we appreciate you @laine <3
  • Past UserPast User Posts: 1,997 Extreme Poster
    && hugs to everyone :)<3
  • LaineLaine Deactivated Posts: 2,762 Boards Guru
    Thanks @Liam appreciate you all too 💖

    🌈Positive thoughts🌈

    "This is my family. I found it, all on my own.
    It's little, and Broken, but still good. Yeah. Still good." ~ Stitch

    "Lately, I've been struggling with all the simple things in my life" ~ Cian Ducrot

    "I don't know if it's because my heart hurts or I'm insecure" ~ Juice Wrld
  • StarlightStarlight Posts: 1,436 Wise Owl
    Why can't I just stop crying for a minute, I feel like such a baby!
    “I got you, moonlight, you're my starlight
    I need you all night, come on, dance with me”

    * Shine like the star you are! *
  • GreenTeaGreenTea Posts: 12,938 Born on Earth, Raised by The Mix
    Starlight said:
    Why can't I just stop crying for a minute, I feel like such a baby!

    Sending you massive hugs lovely 💞
  • independent_independent_ Community Champion Posts: 8,610 Legendary Poster
    Starlight said:
    Why can't I just stop crying for a minute, I feel like such a baby!
    Big hugs <3<3 
    “Sometimes the people around you won’t understand your journey. They don’t need to, it’s not for them.”
  • Salix_alba_2019Salix_alba_2019 Deactivated Posts: 1,646 Extreme Poster
    My ears feel better today, the still feel a bit sensitive. I feel like I need to put ice cubes on them to help with the friction irritation from the masks 
  • SienaSiena Posts: 15,463 Skive's The Limit
    edited July 2020
    My face is ugly. I would actually get a lip filler if I earned enough money. And my nose is to big and my whole face is not symmetrical
    “And when they look at you, they won't see everything you've been through. They won't see the **** that turned to scars that began to fade with time. They won't see the heartbreaking things that shook up and changed your entire world. They won't know how many tears you cried or even what it was you were crying about. They won't see how strong you had to be because you had no other choice. What they will see though is how compassionate you are because you experienced pain. What they will see is how kind you are because you experienced how cruel the world is. What they will see is how good you are because you've seen how bad things or people can be. The difference between you and your experiences are who you choose to be, despite everything that could have turned you cold and unkind.You are the good the world needs and the best of us.” ~ Kirsten Corley
  • SienaSiena Posts: 15,463 Skive's The Limit
    The only thing I like about myself rn is that I am not overweight. Tho I have gained weight I’m taking that better than I thought I would. But omg I hate it when you get a new phone and you look at the camera and I don’t look at my front camera a lot unless I’m going to take a picture with the front camera. So when I look at it with no make up on and such a bad view just because it’s a new phone and want to see the quality it’s very triggering cause I look so ugly and don’t prepare myself lol
    “And when they look at you, they won't see everything you've been through. They won't see the **** that turned to scars that began to fade with time. They won't see the heartbreaking things that shook up and changed your entire world. They won't know how many tears you cried or even what it was you were crying about. They won't see how strong you had to be because you had no other choice. What they will see though is how compassionate you are because you experienced pain. What they will see is how kind you are because you experienced how cruel the world is. What they will see is how good you are because you've seen how bad things or people can be. The difference between you and your experiences are who you choose to be, despite everything that could have turned you cold and unkind.You are the good the world needs and the best of us.” ~ Kirsten Corley
  • GreenTeaGreenTea Posts: 12,938 Born on Earth, Raised by The Mix
    Laine said:
    Just give me all the virtual hugs I need them so bad 💖


  • LaineLaine Deactivated Posts: 2,762 Boards Guru
    Thank you guys sending all the hugs back too of course! x

    🌈Positive thoughts🌈

    "This is my family. I found it, all on my own.
    It's little, and Broken, but still good. Yeah. Still good." ~ Stitch

    "Lately, I've been struggling with all the simple things in my life" ~ Cian Ducrot

    "I don't know if it's because my heart hurts or I'm insecure" ~ Juice Wrld
  • LaineLaine Deactivated Posts: 2,762 Boards Guru
    All the hugs @Aidan a million times more it really hurts we're all here during this period of time x

    🌈Positive thoughts🌈

    "This is my family. I found it, all on my own.
    It's little, and Broken, but still good. Yeah. Still good." ~ Stitch

    "Lately, I've been struggling with all the simple things in my life" ~ Cian Ducrot

    "I don't know if it's because my heart hurts or I'm insecure" ~ Juice Wrld
  • GreenTeaGreenTea Posts: 12,938 Born on Earth, Raised by The Mix
    @Aidan
    Sending you massive hugs 💕
  • *BananaMonkey**BananaMonkey* Posts: 5,462 Part of The Furniture
    So tired.. zzz 
    " And everywhere I am, there you'll be, your love made me make it through, oh I owe so much to you "
    " So I say thank you for the music, the songs I'm singing, thanks for all the joy they're bringing, who can live without it, I ask in all honestly what would life be? Without a song or a dance, what are we? So I say thank you for the music, for giving it to me "
    '' It's a beautiful day and I can't stop myself from smiling "
  • DancerDancer Community Champion Posts: 7,740 Master Poster
    Oh no @Aidan So sorry to hear about Dyson. He was such a lovely dog and a good boy. He will forever be loved and missed by everyone at The Mix. We are here for you through this difficult time. How are you and any surviving pets doing? 
    "There's a part of me I can't get back. A little girl grew up too fast. All it took was once. I'll never be the same." ~ Demi Lovato
    "The way that I have found the light in my life is through the expressive arts because I know that I will be accepted for the way I am." ~ Me
    "I'm going to get strong again and see you soon. " ~ Anonymous 
  • SienaSiena Posts: 15,463 Skive's The Limit
    I have work 9-6:30 tomorrow. Worked at primark for four years now and I’ve never worked that long 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 I am dreading it 
    “And when they look at you, they won't see everything you've been through. They won't see the **** that turned to scars that began to fade with time. They won't see the heartbreaking things that shook up and changed your entire world. They won't know how many tears you cried or even what it was you were crying about. They won't see how strong you had to be because you had no other choice. What they will see though is how compassionate you are because you experienced pain. What they will see is how kind you are because you experienced how cruel the world is. What they will see is how good you are because you've seen how bad things or people can be. The difference between you and your experiences are who you choose to be, despite everything that could have turned you cold and unkind.You are the good the world needs and the best of us.” ~ Kirsten Corley
  • SienaSiena Posts: 15,463 Skive's The Limit
    I’m thinking of hurting myself so I don’t have to go 
    “And when they look at you, they won't see everything you've been through. They won't see the **** that turned to scars that began to fade with time. They won't see the heartbreaking things that shook up and changed your entire world. They won't know how many tears you cried or even what it was you were crying about. They won't see how strong you had to be because you had no other choice. What they will see though is how compassionate you are because you experienced pain. What they will see is how kind you are because you experienced how cruel the world is. What they will see is how good you are because you've seen how bad things or people can be. The difference between you and your experiences are who you choose to be, despite everything that could have turned you cold and unkind.You are the good the world needs and the best of us.” ~ Kirsten Corley
  • independent_independent_ Community Champion Posts: 8,610 Legendary Poster
    Aww @Aidan im so sorry to hear about Dyson :( hugs <3 
    “Sometimes the people around you won’t understand your journey. They don’t need to, it’s not for them.”
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