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[OLD] The 'I need a hug' thread - please read first post before posting :)

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  • GreenTeaGreenTea Posts: 12,938 Born on Earth, Raised by The Mix
    GreenTea said:
    Friend did something last night and is now missing. I feel like he's dead in s field somewhere. I feel so guilty. He messaged me last night and I didn't respond.  Then this evening I find out what he did and he's been in hospital before for this action. Nobody can find him. Nobody has heard from him. What if he's dying? I'm so scared..

    Completely fearing the worst.  Still not been found
  • StarlightStarlight Posts: 1,436 Wise Owl
    Just feeling really insecure today.
    “I got you, moonlight, you're my starlight
    I need you all night, come on, dance with me”

    * Shine like the star you are! *
  • StarlightStarlight Posts: 1,436 Wise Owl
    Why am I so good at pushing people out of my life? Looks like it's just me, myself and I 
    “I got you, moonlight, you're my starlight
    I need you all night, come on, dance with me”

    * Shine like the star you are! *
  • SienaSiena Posts: 15,463 Skive's The Limit
    I really want to kil myself
    “And when they look at you, they won't see everything you've been through. They won't see the **** that turned to scars that began to fade with time. They won't see the heartbreaking things that shook up and changed your entire world. They won't know how many tears you cried or even what it was you were crying about. They won't see how strong you had to be because you had no other choice. What they will see though is how compassionate you are because you experienced pain. What they will see is how kind you are because you experienced how cruel the world is. What they will see is how good you are because you've seen how bad things or people can be. The difference between you and your experiences are who you choose to be, despite everything that could have turned you cold and unkind.You are the good the world needs and the best of us.” ~ Kirsten Corley
  • GreenTeaGreenTea Posts: 12,938 Born on Earth, Raised by The Mix
    GreenTea said:
    GreenTea said:
    Friend did something last night and is now missing. I feel like he's dead in s field somewhere. I feel so guilty. He messaged me last night and I didn't respond.  Then this evening I find out what he did and he's been in hospital before for this action. Nobody can find him. Nobody has heard from him. What if he's dying? I'm so scared..

    Completely fearing the worst.  Still not been found

    They found him.  He's alive but critical. He's done so much damage to his liver etc..
    Just glad he's alive
  • SienaSiena Posts: 15,463 Skive's The Limit
    I don't want to go to work. Im fed up of this life
    “And when they look at you, they won't see everything you've been through. They won't see the **** that turned to scars that began to fade with time. They won't see the heartbreaking things that shook up and changed your entire world. They won't know how many tears you cried or even what it was you were crying about. They won't see how strong you had to be because you had no other choice. What they will see though is how compassionate you are because you experienced pain. What they will see is how kind you are because you experienced how cruel the world is. What they will see is how good you are because you've seen how bad things or people can be. The difference between you and your experiences are who you choose to be, despite everything that could have turned you cold and unkind.You are the good the world needs and the best of us.” ~ Kirsten Corley
  • SienaSiena Posts: 15,463 Skive's The Limit
    I feel awful omg. Such bad thoughts
    “And when they look at you, they won't see everything you've been through. They won't see the **** that turned to scars that began to fade with time. They won't see the heartbreaking things that shook up and changed your entire world. They won't know how many tears you cried or even what it was you were crying about. They won't see how strong you had to be because you had no other choice. What they will see though is how compassionate you are because you experienced pain. What they will see is how kind you are because you experienced how cruel the world is. What they will see is how good you are because you've seen how bad things or people can be. The difference between you and your experiences are who you choose to be, despite everything that could have turned you cold and unkind.You are the good the world needs and the best of us.” ~ Kirsten Corley
  • lucyking200lucyking200 Deactivated Posts: 130 The Mix Convert
    Shaunie said:
    I feel awful omg. Such bad thoughts
    Don’t please 
  • GreenTeaGreenTea Posts: 12,938 Born on Earth, Raised by The Mix
    GreenTea said:
    GreenTea said:
    GreenTea said:
    Friend did something last night and is now missing. I feel like he's dead in s field somewhere. I feel so guilty. He messaged me last night and I didn't respond.  Then this evening I find out what he did and he's been in hospital before for this action. Nobody can find him. Nobody has heard from him. What if he's dying? I'm so scared..

    Completely fearing the worst.  Still not been found

    They found him.  He's alive but critical. He's done so much damage to his liver etc..
    Just glad he's alive

    Just in tears and overwhelmed by all this. I don't want to lose him but fearing the worse
  • SienaSiena Posts: 15,463 Skive's The Limit
    I feel the thoughts are slowly turning into urges. 
    “And when they look at you, they won't see everything you've been through. They won't see the **** that turned to scars that began to fade with time. They won't see the heartbreaking things that shook up and changed your entire world. They won't know how many tears you cried or even what it was you were crying about. They won't see how strong you had to be because you had no other choice. What they will see though is how compassionate you are because you experienced pain. What they will see is how kind you are because you experienced how cruel the world is. What they will see is how good you are because you've seen how bad things or people can be. The difference between you and your experiences are who you choose to be, despite everything that could have turned you cold and unkind.You are the good the world needs and the best of us.” ~ Kirsten Corley
  • independent_independent_ Community Champion Posts: 8,610 Legendary Poster
    So relieved that they’ve found him @GreenTea, I really hope he pulls through this <3
    “Sometimes the people around you won’t understand your journey. They don’t need to, it’s not for them.”
  • GreenTeaGreenTea Posts: 12,938 Born on Earth, Raised by The Mix
    edited June 2020
    Thank you @independent_
    I really hope so too. Just want to scream at him and tell him how stupid he was and that so many people care about him then tell him I love him and he's a good person and deserves to live. 
    You know..just scream and shake him and then be s massive comfort.

    Keep seeing social media posts saying he still missing.. 
    Bleh downside of social media, word spreads fast but when it changes, it's already too far circulated. Just greatful for everyone who posted and like looked
  • LaineLaine Deactivated Posts: 2,762 Boards Guru
    Lots of strong feelings this morning folks sending all the hugs 💖

    @Shaunie how are you feeling now? Do you think you would be able to reach out to 1-2-1 or crisis? We all care here x

    I'm so glad he was found @GreenTea I hope he's on the mend and you're looking after yourself it's a very scary time 

    🌈Positive thoughts🌈

    "This is my family. I found it, all on my own.
    It's little, and Broken, but still good. Yeah. Still good." ~ Stitch

    "Lately, I've been struggling with all the simple things in my life" ~ Cian Ducrot

    "I don't know if it's because my heart hurts or I'm insecure" ~ Juice Wrld
  • SienaSiena Posts: 15,463 Skive's The Limit
    I just want to be dead tbh i feel awful 
    “And when they look at you, they won't see everything you've been through. They won't see the **** that turned to scars that began to fade with time. They won't see the heartbreaking things that shook up and changed your entire world. They won't know how many tears you cried or even what it was you were crying about. They won't see how strong you had to be because you had no other choice. What they will see though is how compassionate you are because you experienced pain. What they will see is how kind you are because you experienced how cruel the world is. What they will see is how good you are because you've seen how bad things or people can be. The difference between you and your experiences are who you choose to be, despite everything that could have turned you cold and unkind.You are the good the world needs and the best of us.” ~ Kirsten Corley
  • GreenTeaGreenTea Posts: 12,938 Born on Earth, Raised by The Mix
    Help me
  • *BananaMonkey**BananaMonkey* Posts: 5,462 Part of The Furniture
    Sending hugs to all those who need them :heart:
    " And everywhere I am, there you'll be, your love made me make it through, oh I owe so much to you "
    " So I say thank you for the music, the songs I'm singing, thanks for all the joy they're bringing, who can live without it, I ask in all honestly what would life be? Without a song or a dance, what are we? So I say thank you for the music, for giving it to me "
    '' It's a beautiful day and I can't stop myself from smiling "
  • Millie2787Millie2787 Community Champion Posts: 5,143 Part of The Furniture
    Ever feel like you have no one to talk to .. like you have friends but you don’t want to bother them , or they don’t understand and just make everything about them when you really need them there for you ... yeah that’s my thoughts of the days just yeah 
    Sometimes all you need is one person to believe in you , for you to begin to believe in yourself.
  • BubblesGoesBooBubblesGoesBoo Posts: 3,590 Community Veteran
    My friend attempted suicide and may never walk again 😭😭😭
    ' So I put a bullet where I shouda put a helmet, and I crash my car cause I wanna get carried away, that's why I'm standing on the overpass screaming at myself 'hey, I wanna get better''  
  • GreenTeaGreenTea Posts: 12,938 Born on Earth, Raised by The Mix
    Feel like I'm still recovering from last night anxiety attack. I just can't gather myself up. 
  • independent_independent_ Community Champion Posts: 8,610 Legendary Poster
    In so much pain. Have the worst period pains that are making me feel so sick and horrible :( 
    “Sometimes the people around you won’t understand your journey. They don’t need to, it’s not for them.”
  • GreenTeaGreenTea Posts: 12,938 Born on Earth, Raised by The Mix
    In so much pain. Have the worst period pains that are making me feel so sick and horrible :( 

    Sending massive hugs 💕
    Hot water bottle!! Lots of chocolate and got any pain meds?
  • GreenTeaGreenTea Posts: 12,938 Born on Earth, Raised by The Mix
    edited June 2020
    I give up
  • StarlightStarlight Posts: 1,436 Wise Owl
    Just really struggling right now
    “I got you, moonlight, you're my starlight
    I need you all night, come on, dance with me”

    * Shine like the star you are! *
  • Mel_Mel_ Posts: 574 Incredible Poster
    honestly just hate my life, I'm being passed from person to person. I'm tired of having to chase people. I shouldn't have too.  I just don't want to be here anymore no one actually wants to try and help me or even listen to me.
  • GreenTeaGreenTea Posts: 12,938 Born on Earth, Raised by The Mix
    All the tension and stress has caught up and I have the most intense and horrific headache I have ever felt...
  • SienaSiena Posts: 15,463 Skive's The Limit
    Sending Hugs x
    “And when they look at you, they won't see everything you've been through. They won't see the **** that turned to scars that began to fade with time. They won't see the heartbreaking things that shook up and changed your entire world. They won't know how many tears you cried or even what it was you were crying about. They won't see how strong you had to be because you had no other choice. What they will see though is how compassionate you are because you experienced pain. What they will see is how kind you are because you experienced how cruel the world is. What they will see is how good you are because you've seen how bad things or people can be. The difference between you and your experiences are who you choose to be, despite everything that could have turned you cold and unkind.You are the good the world needs and the best of us.” ~ Kirsten Corley
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