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    AuroraAurora Posts: 11,722 An Original Mixlorian
    thumperbear said:
    In agony body is giving up on me just need a cuddle and a hug 😭😭😭
    Would you like to tell us a bit more about whats going on Thumper? Might help to just talk about it, talk about whats going on for you at the moment. -Hugs- 
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    AuroraAurora Posts: 11,722 An Original Mixlorian
    Meggles said:
    Really really sick, I just want lucazade, painkillers and soup but nobody loves me enough to bring me some. I can't leave the house because I'll probably vomit

    I hope you feel better soon, if I lived near you, I would totes deliver you a little care package! Plenty of self care and you time, and fluids! 
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    AuroraAurora Posts: 11,722 An Original Mixlorian
    Meggles said:
    Aurora said:
    Meggles said:
    Really really sick, I just want lucazade, painkillers and soup but nobody loves me enough to bring me some. I can't leave the house because I'll probably vomit

    I hope you feel better soon, if I lived near you, I would totes deliver you a little care package! Plenty of self care and you time, and fluids! 
    I can't get hold of anyone to help me :( just sat crying to myself
    It's still pretty early, try and get in touch with them a bit later. Whats making you feel so unwell though? 
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    AuroraAurora Posts: 11,722 An Original Mixlorian
    Meggles said:
    Aurora said:
    Meggles said:
    Aurora said: 
    Meggles said:
    Really really sick, I just want lucazade, painkillers and soup but nobody loves me enough to bring me some. I can't leave the house because I'll probably vomit

    I hope you feel better soon, if I lived near you, I would totes deliver you a little care package! Plenty of self care and you time, and fluids! 
    I can't get hold of anyone to help me :( just sat crying to myself
    It's still pretty early, try and get in touch with them a bit later. Whats making you feel so unwell though? 
    I think I finally caught the stomach bug
    Oh man, that sucks, I had food poisoning last month, and legit all my friends were busy, I get how lonely it can be, do you have anyone at home who could help out? Do you live with anyone? 
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    AuroraAurora Posts: 11,722 An Original Mixlorian
    Meggles said:
    I'm currently alone because my housemates aren't back yet
    I hope you feel better soon, try and get some rest, legit best cure is sleep and water when you're poorly. And keep chatting to us on here! 
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    LaineLaine Deactivated Posts: 2,762 Boards Guru
    Sending hugs Meggles ❤

    It's not fun being ill alone :(  but maybe people will respond later xo

    🌈Positive thoughts🌈

    "This is my family. I found it, all on my own.
    It's little, and Broken, but still good. Yeah. Still good." ~ Stitch

    "Lately, I've been struggling with all the simple things in my life" ~ Cian Ducrot

    "I don't know if it's because my heart hurts or I'm insecure" ~ Juice Wrld
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    Millie2787Millie2787 Community Champion Posts: 5,146 Part of The Furniture
    Meggles said:
    Really really sick, I just want lucazade, painkillers and soup but nobody loves me enough to bring me some. I can't leave the house because I'll probably vomit
    If I was closer and had transport  I would of as  I have cup-A-soups and were always stocked up on pain killers 🤦🏻‍♀️
    Sending you hugs @meggles
    Sometimes all you need is one person to believe in you , for you to begin to believe in yourself.
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    thumperbearthumperbear Posts: 44 Boards Initiate
    Aurora said:
    thumperbear said:
    In agony body is giving up on me just need a cuddle and a hug 😭😭😭
    Would you like to tell us a bit more about whats going on Thumper? Might help to just talk about it, talk about whats going on for you at the moment. -Hugs- 
    I have hurt all my back through fighting on New Year’s Eve and i can hardly walk and feel so down and hurt and I have no one who cares enough to help me 
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    AuroraAurora Posts: 11,722 An Original Mixlorian
    thumperbear said:
    Aurora said:
    thumperbear said:
    In agony body is giving up on me just need a cuddle and a hug 😭😭😭
    Would you like to tell us a bit more about whats going on Thumper? Might help to just talk about it, talk about whats going on for you at the moment. -Hugs- 
    I have hurt all my back through fighting on New Year’s Eve and i can hardly walk and feel so down and hurt and I have no one who cares enough to help me 
    I really hope you got yourself checked out in A&E! Just to make sure you ain't broke anything. 
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    SienaSiena Posts: 15,495 Skive's The Limit
    edited January 2019
    Nan isn’t well and don’t expect her to last more than a few days 😭😭. Has a really bad chest infection and wont feed her as old which I am confused about and apperently let old people die
    “And when they look at you, they won't see everything you've been through. They won't see the **** that turned to scars that began to fade with time. They won't see the heartbreaking things that shook up and changed your entire world. They won't know how many tears you cried or even what it was you were crying about. They won't see how strong you had to be because you had no other choice. What they will see though is how compassionate you are because you experienced pain. What they will see is how kind you are because you experienced how cruel the world is. What they will see is how good you are because you've seen how bad things or people can be. The difference between you and your experiences are who you choose to be, despite everything that could have turned you cold and unkind.You are the good the world needs and the best of us.” ~ Kirsten Corley
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    ArianaAriana Posts: 193 Trailblazer
    Shaunie said:
    Nan isn’t well and don’t expect her to last more than a few days 😭😭. Has a really bad chest infection and wont feed her as old which I am confused about and apperently let old people die
    Aw I'm sorry to hear this @Shaunie Sometimes older people have certain wishes expressed in their medical notes about not wanting interventions when they get really ill, but I agree it doesn't feel right not to feed her. I will say though that my nana got really bad pneumonia a couple of years ago and we were told she probably wouldn't last the night, yet somehow she pulled through and is still with us now, so it can happen. Sending you lots of love and hugs xx
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    Kathleen07Kathleen07 Posts: 1,938 Extreme Poster
    I'm so sorry @Shaunie :(<3
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    AuroraAurora Posts: 11,722 An Original Mixlorian
    Shaunie said:
    Nan isn’t well and don’t expect her to last more than a few days 😭😭. Has a really bad chest infection and wont feed her as old which I am confused about and apperently let old people die
    Is your nan struggling with diet and fluid at the moment? 
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    SienaSiena Posts: 15,495 Skive's The Limit
    edited January 2019
    They have now just said that if they do feed her or give her antibiotics it could go into her lungs and kill her straight away and she is on end of life plan and that she is going to die either way :’( and only a matter of time. 😭 need to go down there to see her  and for the funereal :’(
    “And when they look at you, they won't see everything you've been through. They won't see the **** that turned to scars that began to fade with time. They won't see the heartbreaking things that shook up and changed your entire world. They won't know how many tears you cried or even what it was you were crying about. They won't see how strong you had to be because you had no other choice. What they will see though is how compassionate you are because you experienced pain. What they will see is how kind you are because you experienced how cruel the world is. What they will see is how good you are because you've seen how bad things or people can be. The difference between you and your experiences are who you choose to be, despite everything that could have turned you cold and unkind.You are the good the world needs and the best of us.” ~ Kirsten Corley
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    ArianaAriana Posts: 193 Trailblazer
    Shaunie said:
    They have now just said that if they do feed her or give her antibiotics it could go into her lungs and kill her straight away and she is on end of life plan and that she is going to die either way :’( and only a matter of time. 😭 need to go down there to see her  and for the funereal :’(
    So sorry to hear that Shaunie. Sending love and strength xx
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    Kathleen07Kathleen07 Posts: 1,938 Extreme Poster
    That's really horrible @Shaunie, really sorry, sending a big virtual hug:( xo
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    SienaSiena Posts: 15,495 Skive's The Limit
    Thank you. She has passed away now:(😭
    “And when they look at you, they won't see everything you've been through. They won't see the **** that turned to scars that began to fade with time. They won't see the heartbreaking things that shook up and changed your entire world. They won't know how many tears you cried or even what it was you were crying about. They won't see how strong you had to be because you had no other choice. What they will see though is how compassionate you are because you experienced pain. What they will see is how kind you are because you experienced how cruel the world is. What they will see is how good you are because you've seen how bad things or people can be. The difference between you and your experiences are who you choose to be, despite everything that could have turned you cold and unkind.You are the good the world needs and the best of us.” ~ Kirsten Corley
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    Millie2787Millie2787 Community Champion Posts: 5,146 Part of The Furniture
    Shaunie said:
    Thank you. She has passed away now:(😭
    Sending you huge hugs @shauine I’m here if you need me , losing your nan can be really hard , I know what it’s like - message me if you need me 💖
    Sometimes all you need is one person to believe in you , for you to begin to believe in yourself.
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    Kathleen07Kathleen07 Posts: 1,938 Extreme Poster
    Shaunie said:
    Thank you. She has passed away now:(😭
    oh Shaunie... Love and best wishes your way, must be so difficult. We're all here for you <3
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    Millie2787Millie2787 Community Champion Posts: 5,146 Part of The Furniture
    I just want our little prince back 😭💙👼🏻
    Sometimes all you need is one person to believe in you , for you to begin to believe in yourself.
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    Kathleen07Kathleen07 Posts: 1,938 Extreme Poster
    Millie2787 said:
    I just want our little prince back 😭💙👼🏻
    I really sympathise :(<3
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    LaineLaine Deactivated Posts: 2,762 Boards Guru
    Sending hugs You two ❤

    🌈Positive thoughts🌈

    "This is my family. I found it, all on my own.
    It's little, and Broken, but still good. Yeah. Still good." ~ Stitch

    "Lately, I've been struggling with all the simple things in my life" ~ Cian Ducrot

    "I don't know if it's because my heart hurts or I'm insecure" ~ Juice Wrld
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    *BananaMonkey**BananaMonkey* Posts: 5,462 Part of The Furniture
    Meggles said:
    I feel like I've been hit by a car.
    Physically and mentally very unwell
    We are here for you if you want to chat, sending hugs :heart:


    " And everywhere I am, there you'll be, your love made me make it through, oh I owe so much to you "
    " So I say thank you for the music, the songs I'm singing, thanks for all the joy they're bringing, who can live without it, I ask in all honestly what would life be? Without a song or a dance, what are we? So I say thank you for the music, for giving it to me "
    '' It's a beautiful day and I can't stop myself from smiling "
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    thumperbearthumperbear Posts: 44 Boards Initiate
    Shaunie said:
    Thank you. She has passed away now:(😭
    Massive hugs shaunie I know it’s the hardest thing to go through but she’s will be sat in heaven smiling down on you xxx here if you want to talk x
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