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Am I evil?
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I'm sorry if any of the following is unclear - I'm not really used to writing about relationship problems, I'm afraid!
I've been going out with a girl for about a year and a half - she's a year younger than me, and we started going out a few months before I went off to university.
The trouble is, whilst at university I met ANOTHER girl who I just totally adore. Since we met, I just haven't stopped thinking about her. We never *did* anything (in fact, I'm not even sure if she feels the same way about me as I do her) but I feel like such a bastard.
I'm afraid of telling my girlfriend - she seems so happy at the moment and has even been talking about us moving in together (despite the fact that she's off to university herself in September).
And I still don't know what I want.
Stupid blokes, so indecisive, eh!
Many thanks in advance.
Pete
I've been going out with a girl for about a year and a half - she's a year younger than me, and we started going out a few months before I went off to university.
The trouble is, whilst at university I met ANOTHER girl who I just totally adore. Since we met, I just haven't stopped thinking about her. We never *did* anything (in fact, I'm not even sure if she feels the same way about me as I do her) but I feel like such a bastard.
I'm afraid of telling my girlfriend - she seems so happy at the moment and has even been talking about us moving in together (despite the fact that she's off to university herself in September).
And I still don't know what I want.
Stupid blokes, so indecisive, eh!
Many thanks in advance.
Pete
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