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where wud you draw the line?

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
hey guyz,

i'm in a really happy relationship <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> and i cant ever imagine ending it with my bf! BUT...i just wanted to know where you wud draw the line? what could you never forgive your bf/gf for doing...or saying? <IMG SRC="mad.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">

i love my bf soo much that i think i cud forgive him 4 almost anything!!! cud you?

luv P!nk xXxXxXx <IMG SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I would never forgive my boyfriend if he....

    1) Cheated on me
    2) Hit me
    i love my bf soo much that i think i cud forgive him 4 almost anything!!! cud you?
    No. If I did that I may as well be a doormat
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Hi Pinkitten
    Celebrate a loving relationship... with true love there is nothing to forgive!
    skitt
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i draw the line at saying she loves me then dumping me for some1 else and expecting us to get back together a few years later!

    thats what my last girlfriend did!

    dai
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    awww thanx skitt <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> and im sorry to hear that dai...im sure it was her loss!!!

    i no i am not a doormat but if you have ever been in love you will know that 'love conquers all' and that forgivness mends your hurts!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by dai fychan:
    <STRONG>i draw the line at saying she loves me then dumping me for some1 else and expecting us to get back together a few years later!

    thats what my last girlfriend did!

    dai</STRONG>

    awww dats so horrid! go get your revenge! I would draw my line at my boyfriend trying to kill me and then saying he loves me <IMG SRC="tongue.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> but then who wouldnt?!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    but if you have ever been in love you will know that 'love conquers all' and that forgivness mends your hurts!
    yes yes tell that my friend who was beaten to a pulp by her last boyfriend

    I am in love and I do think that forgiveness is important, but its a two way thing, you cannot just simply say 'i forgive you' then an issue is completely forgotton about. It takes time and patience, trust, but i know for a fact that if my bf did something to me which i consider is 'stepping over the line' then its blatantly obvious that he hasnt taken my feelings into consideration, and if I did nothing about it then I would have absolutly no respect for myself. <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I could never forgive cheating, anything else is usually forgiveable though.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I would have to agree with others and say I'd draw the line at being beaten and being cheated on. The second is possibly forgivable, but the first is not.

    Someone who love you does not hit you. They don't do it because they "care about you so much". Jealousy and possessiveness is not love. Even if I did love someone and they hit me, I would leave. It would be hard to go, but I've learned that you cannot change people, and I wouldn't try by endangering my life. Abuse usually only goes one way: worse. I know many women who left abusive partners, forgave them, went back for more and only ended up having to leave again.

    I like to think that this is one lesson I wouldn't have to learn the hard way, but could learn from others' mistakes!
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