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will i ever find someone?

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
hi! im an 18 year old female and have never had a boyfriend. i am a very bubbly person who loves to laugh and was told by a good guy friend (who's gay) that it would be too easy for someone to fall in love with me.

Why? and what can i do about it? my best friend has a boyfriend and now i really want one too. please help!

p.s. im a virgin and am not planning on having sex before im married. cheers xx <IMG SRC="frown.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="rolleyes.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="confused.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="confused.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Bubbly personality, that's cool! I'm actually looking for someone like that for myself. <IMG SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">

    You will find someone, there's no question about that. So don't you worry, it's just a matter of time, and when you find that someone, you'll know.

    No sex before getting marry, that is great! It truely is hard to find someone like yourself in today's world. When a guy loves you, not having sex shouldn't be much of an issue, he'll respect your decision.

    Chatbox

    [ 17-03-2002: Message edited by: Chatbox ]
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    hey chatbox! cheers! but i really dont see myself finding someone soon. got an email address?!! <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="eek.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="cool.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Hi Rose
    If u were my daughter, I'd be proud of u!
    Fatherly advice - dont rush into the unknown!
    Take care
    skitt
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    thanks skitt (fellow scot!) and u guys, ur all so kind! <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Dont worry about it mate a bubbly personality is the best u can get why because when anyone is around u they will always be happy with u and around u.
    you will find someone im in the same boat and well im bubbly and outgoing and all the rest but people on here have made me think that someone will be there for me one day after all theres always someone out there for us all we just go and get it lol

    go out and enjoy ur life and dont worry just be urself and someone will love u. liz x x <IMG SRC="rolleyes.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Its tough isn't it - knowing what you want - the warmth and happiness of a relationship and not being able to have it.
    All I can say is try to be happy, be yourself, and someone will want you, and love you for it soon.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by rose:
    <STRONG>hey chatbox! cheers! but i really dont see myself finding someone soon. got an email address?!! <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="eek.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="cool.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"></STRONG>

    You can send me private messages...

    About you don't think that you'll be able to find someone soon, well, all I can say is that I've been single for 2 years, and still am, but what keeps me going is that: I'm still single because people don't know much about me, when I find the right person (someone with an interest in me), I'll know that she's interested about me and had made an effort to know me (I'm not easy to know/understand). As they (most people) say, good things come to those who wait, and patient is a virtue.

    Chatbox
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    It's true what they say that relationships find you when you're not trying...

    I met my ex-bf (who was my first bf, and I'm 20) when I'd had a rough day, spent the day in the library, writing an essay and crying. I looked terrible, felt terrible, and wasn't trying to impress anyone... I looked like a slob too... I was wearing comfort clothing.. a baggy sweatshirt and my Canada cap (felt like hiding behind a cap that day).

    What did he say to the friend who introduced us after I left? (I'd only been with them about half an hour)....
    "She's fit, why didn't you introduce me to her before??"

    Men... I will never understand them.. Ladies, why do we bother getting all glitzed up? <IMG SRC="rolleyes.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Not thread related

    But just want to say, Nikki_100, I like your signature. It's so true.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Thefairmelissa, I do actually have one good friend that I consider as a nice guy. He's down in London at the moment...

    I think I scared Rose away when she asked me how many gf I've had. Most of you on this forum know about my past, right?

    Chatbox
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    hey! chstbox - you never scared me away actually! 2 g/f's is a great number!

    and thanks thefairmelissa for your post...i havent met many people who agree about the no sex before marriage thing other than my best friend! <IMG SRC="rolleyes.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="tongue.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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