I promise to stay longer this time. Last time I was here was 2013. Newer members won't know me but in checking top members by post it appears many of you are still here! Well done to those who have stayed all this time. I've been a passing stranger for a while but I hope to stay here more. This site helped me survive 12-15 years ago. If I can help people here not maybe it allows me to pay back some of the beautiful people and help I received over a decade ago.