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bit confused

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
Hello people

I am a bit confused, and not even sure if there is anything worth pursuing. When i was 15 i went out with this girl and she was probably the most attractive girl ive ever bin out with. Thing is i got treated like a bit of a mug because i was almost amazed at getting a girl this fine. However after about a month we split up on really bad terms she said some stuff about me witch made my schoolife bad for a while. However after a while it was forgotten about and all was fine. Thing is over these past few months ive developed a great friendship with her brother who's been a geeze to me. The girl found out and suddenly shes been so friendly with me, flirtin and everything and she apologised to me for everything that happened. We have been talking a lot since we rarely ever spoke 2 each other. However im really startin 2 like her again and i dont know if she feels the same shes quite a confusing girl so its difficult to read the signals. I really want something to develop again but i dont know what to do. Help? <IMG SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i think you just need to talk to her and find out whats shes feeling.

    you also need to consider that if you did get back together with her would it interfer with your friendship with her bro?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Ask yourself why it is you've been finding her attractive again. Is it because she's giving you attention? Because she's really attractive? (Shakes head). Honey, this doesn't really bode well for a successful relationship. She clearly doesn't make you happy.

    If you're not prepared to leave it altogether, why not have a quiet chat with her, and attempt to find out why she's interested again? Make sure you have good reasons for pursuing anything - you don't want to get hurt again.

    Looks ain't everything, and I think she's already proved that....

    Have some respect for yourself, luv. <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Cheers for your replys people
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