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Dont wanna feel this way

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
I have liked someone for ages and have decided that I dont want to feel this way about him anymore, but the thing is, I dont know how to block out my feelings for him HELP!! <IMG SRC="confused.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Why is it a bad thing to love somebody and to have feelings for somebody? What's so wrong with the man?!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Theres nothing wrong with him its just that, I love him so much and he knows this, and wel I know that it wil never go anywhere.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by AliMarie:
    <STRONG>I have liked someone for ages and have decided that I dont want to feel this way about him anymore, but the thing is, I dont know how to block out my feelings for him HELP!! <IMG SRC="confused.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"></STRONG>

    Can't help who you fall in love with. It's one of those crazy little things in life, put there to make it interesting!! Or looking at it another way, something else for us to fret and worry about!!! Lol.

    Just go for it. You only live once!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    HOw do you know it won't go anywhere?

    If you really like this guy, just give it a shot. That way if it doesn't work out you at least have no regrets.

    He might not have the guts to make the first move. I'm a guy and I know this has happened to me before.

    Good luck.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I reckon the hardest part is realising that someone isn't right for you when they are - you're over half way there! i suggest:

    - think about why you don't think u should be with him
    - think about other people u might want to be with, or other things u can do with ur time and money! (everyone knows having a b/f or g/f empties the pocket <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i fell in love with someone but she treated me like shit. Dumped me by email for another boy and said we could get back together in a few years! yeh like!

    i've moved on, i still love her to bits, but i knew it was time to move on so i just tried to think about other things. <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">

    Hope that helps! <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    From personal experience, i can understand how u might be feeling!
    It takes time to stop 'loving' someone or to stop caring alot about them and it doesnt just happen overnite!
    All i can say is try and put him to the back of your mind, go out and pull!
    Move on, its the only way!
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