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Goofy Mates?

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Hey there listen I had a mate like that once and I mean he was the excact same as your mate and everytime I got with someone he would phone her and tell her that I called her a bitch or called her all these names and then it would cause us to split up!!! well just about 3 months ago I told him where to go and I have never spoken to him since!!! (IDEA UR MATE AND MY MATE COULD GET TOGETHER LOL) <IMG SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    What sort of a friend calls you a slut? If i were you i would tell her that this childish name calling is hurtful to you and if she were really a good friend she wouldn't say those sorts of things.

    You could try getting her to become engaged in conversation with lads on a night out. Maybe her true personality will shine through and it won't matter if she's not cindy crawford.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Gareth lover:
    <STRONG>She also drags my reputation down to the ground</STRONG>
    It doesn't sound like you've got much respect for her.

    If you don't like going on the pull with her, ask yourself why you do it. Is it to make you feel better about yourself?, or do you really appreciate her as a friend?
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    with some of the things you have said it does not sound like you two are mates!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i think devil is right how can you be best mates when you are acting like this best mates stick by each other through thick and thin. Put your friends before boys cos a friend is there forever boyfriends until you split up. Real mates dont slag each other off
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    moving to relationships
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I think ur freind is probably not as confidant as u r, so if u wanna help her, then u gotta help her get some confidance. Tell her she isnt ugly and if she feels like she is then help her feel better about herself, like mayb lending her some of ur clothes and mayb givin her a make-over. Once shes brimming wiv confidance she'll soon find sum lads of her own and then u can get the lads u want!
    I dnt think any of my freinds r ugly, sum r jus not as pretty as others, so mayb u shudnt look at her like that. Everyones pretty in their own way!
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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I can see that it might be rather annoying.However the way that you say 'She drags my reputation down' gives me the impression that you dont really care about her that much and you are not being a true friend.I have one or two mates who are sometimes described as goofy,but I dont give a shit about what people think of them cos I really love them.I think they are fantastic to hang around with and would always stick up for them.You should not just simply focus on her appearance,but her personality.This is what matters! <IMG SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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