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Moving out

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
Me and my boyfriend have been planning to move to St.austell or Newquay together but as i'm only 16 and he is 20 do u think its too soon? <IMG SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="eek.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="confused.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Moving to relationships forum
    Susie <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Probably.


    Look we need a lot more info to give you proper advice on this.

    How long have you been together?

    Are you currently living together and just moving, or are you moving and moving in together all at once?

    What do your parents feel about it (both sets of parents)?

    Have you both got jobs there set up?

    etc, etc, etc.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I'd say you probably are. I'm 18 and I don't think I could cope just yet with living with my boyfriend. It's quite a big move for your relationship and I think you have to be quite mature to cope with the reality of living together. I doubt it'll be all sunshine and happiness 24/7. Depends on your current home situation, where you are with your education and money as well. You can't rely on him to support you or you'll trap yourself. I'd have a good think about it and perhaps put it off for a few years <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Didn't you just say you wanted to end things with your boyfriend? http://www.thesite.org/cgi-noperl/ubb/ultimatebb.cgi?ubb=get_topic&f=4&t=001595

    *confused*

    [ 28-02-2002: Message edited by: Black_Knight ]
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Move in if u think its for the best. Just make sure you've got something to fall back on. U only live once! Enjoy it and don't take it too seriously like certain people do.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    when did you two decide this? how r u 2day anyway?
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    We were going to move in together down st.austell because i need to be next to the college. I've realised that i wouldn't be able to stand living with him so i've decided not to go to the college but to carry on at sixth form here in wonderful torpoint. <IMG SRC="rolleyes.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    How do you know you "wouldn't be able to stand living with him" if you have never lived together? That presumption isn't necessarily true, and, in order to determine whether or not it is, perhaps you should have a trial period of living together.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    yeh but i know i wouldnt be able to stand it because i cant stand the way he acts sometimes. he thinks he is funny but its just childish and annoying. Also, i can have a bad temper and i think if we moved in together we would probably end up breaking up or killing each other. <IMG SRC="eek.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    So if you don't much like him, why on earth are you with him. More to the point, why did you even entertain the idea of moving in with him. And answer black_knights question...is this the same guy you can't see a future with, after a good summer? <IMG SRC="rolleyes.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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