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the perfect kiss
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Ok gals (or even guys i spose) i need your advice and opinions. I've recently started goin out with one of my really good m8s that i've fancied (and so has she in return apparently) since we 1st met about a yr ago-(and i no its stupid that it took this long 2do somat bout it) neway we havent been able to get alone yet, and when we do the moment is gonna come when the ' <IMG alt="image" SRC="wink.gif" border="0"> 1st kiss <IMG alt="image" SRC="wink.gif" border="0"> ' arrives. now apparently i aint that bad but shes older than me and i really wana leave a good impression cos evry1 knows that da 1st kiss is the 1 that sticks in the memory 4evr, and so i wana make it realy special, u know wot i mean? PLZZZZ!!!!!!!! give me any advice ne1 can to be able 2do this!!! THANKSSSSSS!!!!!!!!
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My guess is that you won't take much notice of the above and want something more specific so try this.
As you move forward to kiss her, slide your hand under her hair to the back of her neck and cradle her head in your hand while you kiss her, your other hand lightly stroking the side of her face, ear & neck will help.
Kiss her softly not roughly, you can then take your lead from her until you gain confidence from her reaction.
Well girls what do you reckon? Yea or Nae? <IMG alt="image" SRC="cool.gif" border="0">
I remember it vagually, but remember the next time I kissed a girl that way better when I got to high school who I eventually ended up sleeping with...
We were about 11/12 and were by that reseviour walking, chatting and laughing and we had a mini play fight and kinda both fell down near the water, she joked and said that I'd rescued her from the water like in baywatch and I joked back and said I'd better give her mouth-to-mouth, we then kinda looked at each other and I went down and did the mouth thing, she burst out laughing then stopped and told me to do it again and stuck her tongue in my mouth and we just sort of kissed for a while, I remember feeling quite flushed and stunned afterwards... lol
Anyway, remember that a kiss is not all in the tongue, obviously don't over use your lips and slobber the poor person to death but if you let your lips go soft and use them to that effect its quite good...
I think the perfect kiss to me would be outdoors when its totally chucking it down and your both soaked to the bone holding each other kissing while water runs off your faces... mmmmmm, thats been on my to-do pile for a while... shame I can never get the two (weather + willing voluenteer) together...
*wants his own resevoir, jealous* <IMG alt="image" SRC="tongue.gif" border="0">
anyways, i've never been kissed b4, but i think, it's more about the who the kissee is, rather than the kiss itself.
TheShyGirlBeth xxx
I agree with the others... Just A Regular Guy's method is the BEST (and its exactly how my current man kisses <IMG alt="image" SRC="tongue.gif" border="0"> ) I also agree with what he sed about chemistry - how the hell does he understand it so well?! lolundefined
Just the way my boyfriend kisses me when he's trying to say sorry or that he loves me but can't find the words. Perfect! Works every time! <IMG alt="image" SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0">
with my last b/f our first kiss was nice but the kisses that stick in my mind are the ones from later on in our relationship. they got better as we got 2 know each other better. well worth waiting 4!
sept now hes giving them 2 sum1 else <IMG alt="image" SRC="frown.gif" border="0">
He then kept phoning me, and for some reason I didnt want to meet up with him...I will always kick myself for that...Ah well......those were the days when it was just about kissing :-)
-moogs
it was brilliant. we went out for ages and then broke up but we just recently went out again but r not together ne more.
ne ways i luv u even more now just a regular guy. brill method. <IMG alt="image" SRC="wink.gif" border="0">
And whoever said there's no such thing as a perfect kiss, you're wrong!!
x
Baby
I agree that chemistry is necessary, but the girl is not going to analyse you as she is kissing you. Regular Guy's description was great <IMG alt="image" SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0"> be gentle, soft, sweet and sexy. always works.