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the perfect kiss

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
Ok gals (or even guys i spose) i need your advice and opinions. I've recently started goin out with one of my really good m8s that i've fancied (and so has she in return apparently) since we 1st met about a yr ago-(and i no its stupid that it took this long 2do somat bout it) neway we havent been able to get alone yet, and when we do the moment is gonna come when the ' <IMG alt="image" SRC="wink.gif" border="0"> 1st kiss <IMG alt="image" SRC="wink.gif" border="0"> ' arrives. now apparently i aint that bad but shes older than me and i really wana leave a good impression cos evry1 knows that da 1st kiss is the 1 that sticks in the memory 4evr, and so i wana make it realy special, u know wot i mean? PLZZZZ!!!!!!!! give me any advice ne1 can to be able 2do this!!! THANKSSSSSS!!!!!!!!

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    no such thing as a perfect kiss - i wanted mine to be perfect but instead the guy jammed his tongue down my throat, was sloppy and felt like a washing machine on spin cycle. My advice is just go with the flow and dont be too disappointed if it doesnt work out the way u planned. plently more ppl to kiss
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Yeah, chill man. My first kiss was pretty good, and i waited AGES for it - my 18th birthday party in fact <IMG alt="image" SRC="eek.gif" border="0"> Just gop with the flow and you'll be fine. One word of warning - go easy on tongue!! <IMG alt="image" SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    The reality is (& the girls will bear this out) is that everything hinges on that first kiss. It's not the kiss itself but the spark aka. Chemistry. If she feels that chemistry when you kiss you're on, if she feels nothing then it's 'just friends'.

    My guess is that you won't take much notice of the above and want something more specific so try this.

    As you move forward to kiss her, slide your hand under her hair to the back of her neck and cradle her head in your hand while you kiss her, your other hand lightly stroking the side of her face, ear & neck will help.

    Kiss her softly not roughly, you can then take your lead from her until you gain confidence from her reaction.

    Well girls what do you reckon? Yea or Nae? <IMG alt="image" SRC="cool.gif" border="0">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    My first proper kiss was when I was much young at primary school when I was going out with this girl, but it was more of a puppy-love kind of thing, we used to kiss everytime after school outside in front of our parents horrified faces and then we experiemented one time when we where playing around outside...

    I remember it vagually, but remember the next time I kissed a girl that way better when I got to high school who I eventually ended up sleeping with...

    We were about 11/12 and were by that reseviour walking, chatting and laughing and we had a mini play fight and kinda both fell down near the water, she joked and said that I'd rescued her from the water like in baywatch and I joked back and said I'd better give her mouth-to-mouth, we then kinda looked at each other and I went down and did the mouth thing, she burst out laughing then stopped and told me to do it again and stuck her tongue in my mouth and we just sort of kissed for a while, I remember feeling quite flushed and stunned afterwards... lol

    Anyway, remember that a kiss is not all in the tongue, obviously don't over use your lips and slobber the poor person to death but if you let your lips go soft and use them to that effect its quite good...

    I think the perfect kiss to me would be outdoors when its totally chucking it down and your both soaked to the bone holding each other kissing while water runs off your faces... mmmmmm, thats been on my to-do pile for a while... shame I can never get the two (weather + willing voluenteer) together...
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    that bloody resevoir! corrupted u, i say!

    *wants his own resevoir, jealous* <IMG alt="image" SRC="tongue.gif" border="0">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Just a regular guy got it in one! Best descrption of how to kiss a girl if ever i heard one! <IMG alt="image" SRC="smile.gif" border="0">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Just A Regular Guy -- thumbs up ! i'm dying to meet a guy who can kiss the way u described !!!!!

    anyways, i've never been kissed b4, but i think, it's more about the who the kissee is, rather than the kiss itself.

    TheShyGirlBeth xxx
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    My 1st kiss was complete slober fest....was so annoyd that i ran away from him! oh well.....
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    my first ever kiss was when i was 13. it was with my first boyfriend at a party. i'd shit scared about it for absolutely ages, but when it came down to it i got fed up with waiting for him to make the first move and did it myself! (not a usual occurence for me!) it was actually loads better than i was expecting, and i didnt bite him or anything which is always a bonus, hehe <IMG alt="image" SRC="smile.gif" border="0">

    I agree with the others... Just A Regular Guy's method is the BEST (and its exactly how my current man kisses <IMG alt="image" SRC="tongue.gif" border="0"> ) I also agree with what he sed about chemistry - how the hell does he understand it so well?! lolundefined
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Just A Regular Guy:
    <STRONG>...My guess is that you won't take much notice of the above and want something more specific so try this.

    As you move forward to kiss her, slide your hand under her hair to the back of her neck and cradle her head in your hand while you kiss her, your other hand lightly stroking the side of her face, ear & neck will help.

    Kiss her softly not roughly, you can then take your lead from her until you gain confidence from her reaction.

    Well girls what do you reckon? Yea or Nae? <IMG alt="image" SRC="cool.gif" border="0"></STRONG>


    Just the way my boyfriend kisses me when he's trying to say sorry or that he loves me but can't find the words. Perfect! Works every time! <IMG alt="image" SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    this is gonna sound bad but i dont really remember my first kiss sept it was it was horrible!
    with my last b/f our first kiss was nice but the kisses that stick in my mind are the ones from later on in our relationship. they got better as we got 2 know each other better. well worth waiting 4!
    sept now hes giving them 2 sum1 else <IMG alt="image" SRC="frown.gif" border="0">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    My first kiss , was alright....It was in Paris in front of the Sacre Couer, and a firework went off. IT was with Tom Fox who was irish and had amazing eyes. I was 15. And looking back it wasnt th ebets kiss I've had but felt perfect right there and then.

    He then kept phoning me, and for some reason I didnt want to meet up with him...I will always kick myself for that...Ah well......those were the days when it was just about kissing :-)

    -moogs
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    my first kiss happened coz 2 tarty girls in my yr made me kiss my boyfriend coz we hadnt yet (we had been goin oout for 2 days)

    it was brilliant. we went out for ages and then broke up but we just recently went out again but r not together ne more.

    ne ways i luv u even more now just a regular guy. brill method. <IMG alt="image" SRC="wink.gif" border="0">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I agree with debs - when someone kisses you to say something - like they love you or they're sorry - there's *something* more in it than just a kiss, and that can make it perfect.
    And whoever said there's no such thing as a perfect kiss, you're wrong!!

    x
    Baby
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    ok, now my first kiss was when i was nine but that wasn't a love kiss. you can tell by a kiss what the other person is feeling. all you have to do is put your feelings into the kiss. dont be shy about nothin and that description from "just a guy", when my boyfriend kisses me like that i feel totally pampered and trust it'll blow her over. just take it slow and softly. good luck <IMG alt="image" SRC="wink.gif" border="0">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    my first kiss was crap (and it was with my current bf lol, didn't put him off!). I remember saying to a friend after that date "he kisses exactly like a wet fish!" but I think it was just nerves, it's certainly got a thousand times better.

    I agree that chemistry is necessary, but the girl is not going to analyse you as she is kissing you. Regular Guy's description was great <IMG alt="image" SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0"> be gentle, soft, sweet and sexy. always works.
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