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Why am i worried????

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru

Hiya <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/tongue.gif"&gt;
I know i should be happy my boyf is moving in 2moro BUT this is only for a few months then hes going to move in with his friend....which worries me! I know i can trust my boyf and i do! I just know what his pal is like...he didnt like me coz i cheated on my boyf that one time! and he'll do anything to...well you know..get me back! Which worries me as when i aint out with him, ill worry wonder if hes with other girls! I know i shouldnt but you know how it is! Im probably just being selfish but i still get worried! Maybe i should talk to him!
Love Miss_Kxxxxx

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Miss_K:

    Hiya <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/tongue.gif"&gt;
    I know i should be happy my boyf is moving in 2moro BUT this is only for a few months then hes going to move in with his friend....which worries me! I know i can trust my boyf and i do! I just know what his pal is like...he didnt like me coz i cheated on my boyf that one time! and he'll do anything to...well you know..get me back! Which worries me as when i aint out with him, ill worry wonder if hes with other girls! I know i shouldnt but you know how it is! Im probably just being selfish but i still get worried! Maybe i should talk to him!
    Love Miss_Kxxxxx

    You shouldnt worry, but then again you should. In the end whatever happens happens for a reason. SO just, let things flow

  • Girl-From-MarsGirl-From-Mars Posts: 2,822 Boards Guru
    lin, could you BE any more ambiguous?! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/rolleyes.gif"&gt;

    miss k.... if you trust your bf and everything, and if he loves you (and moving half way across the country to be with you sounds like he does!), then hes not going to cheat on you, that i can logically see. i mean, why do people cheat? coz there's something wrong with teh relationship, coz they dont love the other person, coz they're bored, coz they fancy someone else. etc. just because his friend might be a bit dodgy, and try and set him up to cheat or something, doenst mean he actually will. if he does go through with it and get off with/sl;eep with someone else, then you'll see hes not worth it, no matter how wrong his friend was for doing it. but if hes worth staying with, then he'll turn the other girl down, and preferably have a bit of a go at his mate too.

    it isnt something you should overly worry yourself with... if you act all jealous and possessive with him, chances are he might feel more pushed away than if you just carried on as you are..

    I love deadlines. I love the whooshing noise they make as they go by.
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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    dang it. gfm beat me to this one too. <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/tongue.gif"&gt;

    she's right you know. you have to trust your boyfriend cause he's never given you a reson to mistrust him from i've read so far.

    and he's not going to be with his mate for a few months as you say. that's plenty of time for you to make sure your boyfriend knows how much you love him, and for you to convince him that his mate is just being petty. <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

    don't worry about a potential problem that may not surface for months. live for now miss k. use these months to stregthen your relationship. <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

    good luck.

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