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Is sex over rated??

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
Is sex over rated or do you just have to find that person you're compatible with??? Sorry, just curious...hope i dont offend anyone by asking!

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    yes.

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    aww, turtle, that wasn't very helpful! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

    i think sex is a bit overrated when it's just on its own. However, it's a lot better when you're in love and when there's a lot of foreplay involved.

    and I don't see how that could be offensive...
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    erm...

    Yes...

    I think some people make a far bigger deal out of something so natural, but it can be very sensual and fantastic with the right person.. <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i really like ur name justin credible lol i only just got it doh! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt;
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by amadee:
    aww, turtle, that wasn't very helpful! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;


    well, with my years and years of experience, i decided to summarise everything <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/tongue.gif"&gt;

    or not.

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    If u dont get ur hopes up and expect it 2 be a certain way then u'll b fine! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Sorry I didn't meant that 2 sound harsh or nething, just stating how i think it is <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I was wonderin this a few days ago, i mean if u think about it, there really isn't that much 2 it, it's just the whole emotional side. Then again, that's wat makes us human i suppose.

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Tinkabee:
    Is sex over rated or do you just have to find that person you're compatible with??? Sorry, just curious...hope i dont offend anyone by asking!

    YES, sex is so overrated its in\mpossable to know what to do or think about it! i mean I've never accually had it myself but my best friend and her boyfriend have been fucking for a year now and they say it's gereat, wonderful and incredable de-stressing. I'm sure it is. But until I have it, I don't believe anything, and thats what I think you should do - do think much of anything anyone tells you until you've accually experienced it yourself - its the obnly way to know!

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I actually find that the foreplay is sometimes better than the sex, cos with sex there is a bit of pressure to 'perform' but foreplay is just for fun so you can enjoy it alot more.
    When I started goin out with my gf I was thinking for weeks that if we didn`t get down to it soon that she'd end it. With my main influence being TV, I think its just that too much emphasis is put on sex in a relationship on TV.
    We're both perfectly happy just lying in each other's arms. Does that sound sickeningly luvvy-duvvy or wot?

    "Honesty is just an excuse for lack of imagination."
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    No way!!! sex is superb.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I don't think sex is over rated at all. It just depends on who your doing it with and whether or not u like that person

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    sex is overrated if you are just engaging in the act.

    it's the associated emotions and the closeness the act can bring that makes it special.
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    Girl-From-MarsGirl-From-Mars Posts: 2,822 Boards Guru
    Originally posted by Calvin:
    sex is overrated if you are just engaging in the act.

    it's the associated emotions and the closeness the act can bring that makes it special.

    yeah i totally agree <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I think turtle got it right in the first place. Everything else isnt really the point, it's like saying love isnt overrated and relationships arent overrated. But sex , just the word sex- yesh its overrated.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Calvin:
    sex is overrated if you are just engaging in the act.

    it's the associated emotions and the closeness the act can bring that makes it special.

    Once again Calvin hits the nail squarely on the head. <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    hmmm.

    2 votes for me and just 1 for turtle. guess i win this round. <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt;

    thanks gfm and mackenzie <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    there was an election? damn. shite. better pay more attn next time round <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt;

    of course, thanx to wierd american voting systems, i actually still one. u see, that one vote came earlier than ur two votes, so it couted as three votes. lmao. that'll teach u yanks to not know how to vote properly <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt; j/k dudes. but u gotta admit, ur never gonna be able to live that whole debacle down, are you?

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    Girl-From-MarsGirl-From-Mars Posts: 2,822 Boards Guru
    lol yeah that was a fiasco..

    I love deadlines. I love the whooshing noise they make as they go by.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    sure i can. i'll just move to london. <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt;

    i'm pretty much british anyways...
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Turtle:
    teach u yanks to not know how to vote properly <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt; j/k dudes. but u gotta admit, ur never gonna be able to live that whole debacle down, are you?

    Whereas in the much more advanced UK we have a govt. elected by less than 30% of the population.


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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    the worst thing about the election is that bush is acting as though he won by a landslide.

    the house, senate, and white house were all republican controlled... the senate was tied so the vice president broke the tie on votes, so the republicans always won. I guess this made bush feel as though the republicans ruled the planet, even though gore technically won.

    because the senate was republican controlled, all the different committees were headed by republicans. but recently a republican senator decided to switch to independent, making the democrats have the most members. so now all the committee chairs have to switch from republican to democrat....

    all i can say is halleluja <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt;

    Your cycles have bled into ones supposed to be my own
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