I WANT A BOYFRIEND

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<IMG alt="image" SRC="eek.gif" border="0"> HOW DO I GET ONE ?! <IMG alt="image" SRC="eek.gif" border="0">
(I know it's not as simple as that, but any tips or any advice, will be greatly appreciated !)
<IMG alt="image" SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0"> Love TheShyGirlBeth xxx <IMG alt="image" SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0">

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www.amazon.com :P

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Lol find a desperate person like me <IMG alt="image" SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0">.

Just make friends with people, talk to us (we're not THAT alien) and be friendly, see how things go from there.....

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I found that I wanted a man and nobody took any notice of me.
When I decided that i wanted to be single, I had about 4 guys asking me out in one week <IMG alt="image" SRC="eek.gif" border="0">.

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stop looking.

I had this really intense crush on a guy at my school and then i suddenly met my (now) boyfriend and because I was so into this other guy who wasnt there I just chatted normally to this fit bloke, then i kinda forgot about the other guy :-)

Honestly, stop looking. And be happy on your own.

:-)

-moogs

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um, are you fit? if u r then it aint a problem, if u arent then, um, work at it, ok, thats the worse bit of advice anyone has been given, but, um, l8rz

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I feel the same- sort of. I would love a boyfriend but it's not like there isn't anyone. I'm sure I could go out on new years and find me someone who i could be with happily for all of what.. 2 weeks?! I really think it's usually better to wait and find someone special and then they turn up when you're not expecting it at all!

It's the most annoying thing to say but just, stop trying and they usually turn up <IMG alt="image" SRC="wink.gif" border="0">

The other thing- it doesnt actually fit any real reason, you could be the best looking girl ever and not get anyone because blokes are afraid of rejections or whatever.

You'll find someone soon i'm sure! But, not going out trying to find him...

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1) get naked
2) hold up a 6 pack of beer

they will be all over you <IMG alt="image" SRC="wink.gif" border="0"> <IMG alt="image" SRC="wink.gif" border="0"> <IMG alt="image" SRC="wink.gif" border="0"> <IMG alt="image" SRC="wink.gif" border="0"> <IMG alt="image" SRC="wink.gif" border="0"> <IMG alt="image" SRC="wink.gif" border="0"> <IMG alt="image" SRC="wink.gif" border="0">

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stop looking. seriously - I went for six months desperately wanting a boyfriend, then the fortnight I decide I want to be single, two asked me out in one evening (the second one was unlucky <IMG alt="image" SRC="tongue.gif" border="0"> ). just work on your confidence, school work and friends, and wait and see <IMG alt="image" SRC="smile.gif" border="0">

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Well join the club, i want a trustworthy and honest girlfriend <IMG alt="image" SRC="eek.gif" border="0"> well i'm stuffed then <IMG alt="image" SRC="tongue.gif" border="0">
Seriously tho, don't look. Some decent young fella will come your way.

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Originally posted by Marmite:
<STRONG>i want a trustworthy and honest girlfriend <IMG alt="image" SRC="eek.gif" border="0"> well i'm stuffed then <IMG alt="image" SRC="tongue.gif" border="0"> </STRONG>

That's not very nice Chris!

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Originally posted by Marmite:
<STRONG>Well join the club, i want a trustworthy and honest girlfriend <IMG alt="image" SRC="eek.gif" border="0"> well i'm stuffed then <IMG alt="image" SRC="tongue.gif" border="0">
Seriously tho, don't look. Some decent young fella will come your way.</STRONG>

I think that's more appropriate to say about men.

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I totally agree Liberty <IMG alt="image" SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0">

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There's no hurry, you'll thank yourself for it.
The World Awaits You

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Originally posted by SeaShihtzu:
I totally agree Liberty <IMG alt="image" SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0">

Humph! <IMG alt="image" SRC="tongue.gif" border="0"> <IMG alt="image" SRC="tongue.gif" border="0"> <IMG alt="image" SRC="tongue.gif" border="0">

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Im annoyed too! I always have the blokes who in my opinion 'arent fit' cumin all over me (not literally...) but anyone i actually want well..dosent. I think the main problem with me and any other lass' is that some peeps (either the bloke or the girl) are too shy to go up to anyone fit that they like and talk/flirt/watevr.I mean i normally can talk really easily too peeps who arent my type but when mr.absolutely gorgeous comes over im like: gawd!!help me!!!!! I think i need an atitude change really...and maybe get drunk once in a while...

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Originally posted by SeaShihtzu:
That's not very nice Chris!

Hey i'm bitter, what do you expect! <IMG alt="image" SRC="tongue.gif" border="0">

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The stop looking advice is totally crap. Imagine if people applied the same logic to something like getting a job. If you want anything then you have got to put some effort in an try to get it. Things don't just come to you with no effort at all on your part. The more effort you put in the more success you will have. If you want a boyfriend then start approaching boys instead of waiting for them to approach you.

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i agree with the wanting and not getting anf then deciding single is good!
me and my b/f broke up and i wsnt interested in anyone but him still then wen i decided single life was good 2 i got asked out 4 times! <IMG alt="image" SRC="eek.gif" border="0"> <IMG alt="image" SRC="smile.gif" border="0">

JsT

Originally posted by stealgate:
<STRONG>The stop looking advice is totally crap. </STRONG>

It worked for me!

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Originally posted by stealgate:
<STRONG>The stop looking advice is totally crap. Imagine if people applied the same logic to something like getting a job.</STRONG>

yes, but not everyone is as moronic as you and tries to apply a "one size fits all" mentality to things.

life does not work under one rule, one law, one axiom. it's far too complex for that.

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Originally posted by ~*LIBERTY*~:
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I think that's more appropriate to say about men.</STRONG>

Why is that more appropriate to men!? You sexist beast. And SeaShihtzu as well for agreeing. If Marmite has come across untrustworthy and dishonest women (which it seems quite clear that he has) then why are you disagreeing with him?

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whoever it was that sed that the advice about not trying was crap then i kinda agree.
i am not saying that u should go and fling urself on top of some bloke that u fancy, but dont just sit and stare at him and wonder wat could have happened.
if there is someone u like then ask them out. if he says no then u have saved urself time and u can then move on.
trust me wasting time on blokes that r not interested is pointless and makes u cry..a lot... and wen u dotn want to. <IMG alt="image" SRC="wink.gif" border="0">

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Stop trying. at high school all i wanted was a boyfriend, and it wasn't til i got to colege and had to concentrate on getting used to new settings etc i found i had the choice of about 5 or 6 blokes to go out with and then came along my current bf who is absolutely gorgeous and all i ever wanted and i haven't changed at all

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marmite, how cums u dont have a g/f?,
u seem like a trustworthy bloke, who respects the female race <IMG alt="image" SRC="wink.gif" border="0">

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Originally posted by www.kissmyfuckingass.co.uk:
marmite, how cums u dont have a g/f?,
u seem like a trustworthy bloke, who respects the female race <IMG alt="image" SRC="wink.gif" border="0">

<IMG alt="image" SRC="confused.gif" border="0"> dunno, guess i just haven't met the right person yet *sighs*

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dunno, i guess i havent met the rite person yet

well u neva know the rite person cud b rite under ur nose (not literally of course)

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Originally posted by www.kissmyfuckingass.co.uk:
well u neva know the rite person cud b rite under ur nose (not literally of course) <IMG alt="image" SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0">

Nah, she's probably about 200miles away <IMG alt="image" SRC="smile.gif" border="0">

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You know it really would make a hell of a lot of a difference if you could all see what each other looks like. I'm not someone who judges people on the way they look, but in terms of finding a partner, it obviously does help. I'm male myself, and I can't help but think someone who posts a conversation-starter like 'I WANT A BOYFRIEND' is either very young or just desperate for attention. If you really want a boyfriend, tear yourself away from the computer for a couple of weeks, and go and talk to REAL people. The chances are a few people on this board are like 40 or something anyway, and if you are young it's probably not a very good idea to broadcast that want a boyfriend over the internet...?

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Originally posted by Link:
<STRONG>The chances are a few people on this board are like 40 or something anyway, and if you are young it's probably not a very good idea to broadcast that want a boyfriend over the internet...?</STRONG>

I see, so us older ones who just happen to think that we could possibly offer some useful advise to those younger ones that need it are just perverts are we. <IMG alt="image" SRC="mad.gif" border="0">

I don't profess to be always right but I do feel that what I have to offer just may be of use to somebody.

I also remember as a young teen wishing I had sombody to ask about relationships and sex and stuff but the web was not around then.

I wonder if those that have read my posts feel that I have made a contribution to the site or they feel I (and others) are just pervs.

So tell me, should I stay or should I go?

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<IMG alt="image" SRC="mad.gif" border="0"> YES. SIR. I WILL DO EVERYTHING YOU SAY. SIR. <IMG alt="image" SRC="mad.gif" border="0">
yeah, LINK, the ripe old age of 21, by this rate, i'll be needing to call the funeral directors for you.
God man, I may be 15, but i do have a life, and i do talk to REAL people.
So don't judge me. You don't know anything about me.
Oh, and by the way, I am not attention seeking either. I just wanted a simple answer for a simple question. OKAY ?
TheShyGirlBeth.