Is it possible?

Former Member

Do you think that if you're in a good relationship, with someone who you love a lot and care about more than anything in the world, you can still get feelings for another person? Like strong love feelings?

I mean I dunno...but I always thought that if you were in a relationship, a really happy one, then you wouldn't even notice other people never mind start feeling things for them. I thought that for some reason it would be blanked out because you loved someone else.

I've just been thinking about this a bit, because I was thinking about people who cheat and stuff and people who have affairs when they're married...do people cheat and have affairs even when they're really happy with their partner?

I'm woffling, but I would like opinions.

Former Member

quite defintely possible, especially if that relationship is faily. it's virtually impossible to have eyes only for one single person, cos other people will turn up with aspects of their personality that u like more than ur bfs. u'll invariably know people and think "i wish my bf had those eyes" or "i wish my bf was that caring" or what have you.

feeling things for a person - agian, i would have to say this is fairly normal and okay. the feelings u have at the start of a relationship are always heightened cos ur exploring a new person. if u meet someone when ur in a relationship, the feelings will still be heightened, even if it is just a friendship.

and if ANY of that makes sense, i'll be surprised. <IMG alt="image" SRC="tongue.gif" border="0">