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i DONT KNOW WHICH WAY TO TURN?!

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru


Hello guys i'm back!

sorry i havent written recently but internets been down! But i do need some help.

well i told u all about me splitting up with my boyfriend, i was fine and had no problems didnt feel guilty about cheating on him as it was really over months ago. but he rang me and wont let go, he doesnt know that i cheated, which is good as he would proberly kill him self he was so possesive over me he wouldnt let me out and where r u what u doing etc etc!

i havent thought about it for ages and now i feel really lonely and dont have anyone to turn to, as my poor friends (WELL R VERY GLAD I HAVE SPLIT UP WITH HIM!)but they have there own problems and boyfriends and i feel like a drag as i was never really there as he pulled me away from them, now we all get on well, but i need to tell some others so this is proberly really boring for u all! Sorry!!

i just feel lonley, i dont know what to do with myself, i cant consentrate but its not really about him, the lonely bit is but no way am i going back to him!

im just scared that i will never find anyone else, as im not exactly attreactive!

sorry for giving u all this i just need some advice...............

cheers POLLS!

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    hello shine -- welcome back. <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

    you're just going through a rough patch right now. when you break up with someone, it's natural to feel a loss and to wonder if you're going to ever find that special someone.

    but don't get down on yourself. you are your own person and should never be defined by the relationship you're in. you're better than that, and you're better than him

    and don't be concerned by you appearance. you were able to pull this guy, and you will be able to pull many more. don't let this set back stop you from meeting new people.

    you'll find the one.. just keep going out there, ok?

    good luck.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru

    thanks it helps to know people understand...... he tried to ring me again tonight and use e-mail and chat and just wont go away!

    how do i get him to stop and leave me alone!

    but thanks 4 ur help!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    WB Shine <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

    um i can understand your problem (been there done that) it gets really lonely after u end a relationship but getting back together doesn't really help things cuase the problems u had b4 haven't gone away and u end up right back where u started

    just tell him to leave u alone atleast for alittle while untill u get over each other

    I know I'm not perfect but I can smile
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    shine --

    being up front is always the best way like kitty says.

    if he keeps it up. then you need to stay as far away from him for a while. screen your calls, ignore his emails and block his im til he understands you want him to leave you alone.

    it really is for the best. distance will help you get over him.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    this sounds familiar to me shine...

    i had an ex who kept on bugging me, i just eventually told her "FUCK OFF YOU BITCH GET OUT OF MY LIFE".

    she still didn't totally get the message, but close enuff.

    Look into these tired eyes. See something you might recognise.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru

    <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt; thanks! i think u are right be blunt!

    tell him to fuck off!...... i can really do with out him!

    he was a bad choice so i learn from mistakes! never go out with anyone who wants to controll u!!
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