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CONFUSED!!!!PLZ help!

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
ok i cud really do wiv sum advice if u dnt mind helpin me that is?!?

Rite well my ex b/f who iv known since we were kids broke my heart by cheatin on me wiv his ex g/f who hes now bk wiv.Well his g/f went on holiday a week & half ago & since then hes bin syin how much he likes me & how he cares about me & wants 2 get 2getha wiv me seriously but i think that wen she gets bk from her holiday,im really confused coz i really do love him.
write bk
love
Rach
xxxx

If u have a good soul u can make sum1 happy!! If u can make sum1 happy ure a good person & a good friend!

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    hello tigerlilly. haven't seen you the boards of late, welcome back. <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

    there's an old expression that goes "fool me once, shame on you. fool me twice, shame on me."

    i think you should go with your instincts on this one.

    1. he's cheated on you before.

    2. he only started up with you again cause his current g/f went on holiday.

    3. he's can't seem to decide which ex he wants.

    make it easy on him, tigerlilly. until he makes up his mind, stay away from him as much as possible. otherwise you become convenient to him and he'll realize that he can have you whenever he wants, and will treat you as such.

    you deserver better than that. and as i've always maintained.. if he really loves you, he needs to figure that out. and if you were meant to be, he'll come back to you.

    in the meantime, keep your distance and keep meeting new boys. there are plenty out there that won't treat you like this.

    good luck.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    and if that isn't well put enuff (which it is), simply this guy is too confused what he wants and is possibly also a wanker. steer clear, it'll save u a lot of heart break in the long run.

    Look into these tired eyes. See something you might recognise.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru

    Hiya <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/tongue.gif"&gt;
    Not saying this to be bad or anything, BUT get your own back, this girl well....she broke you up cheated with your man yeah! So while shes away you get with this guy,then do exactly the same to him, cheat on him! See how he likes it! And as for his g/f... forget about her, he cant say anything to her if he cheated on her, and you he'll be left with nothing!
    Sorry shouldnt be putting ideas into your head!
    Love Miss_Kxxxxx
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Thanx guys ure a big help i think ure right about him just usin me & bein a wanka etc.. i did think about gettin my own bk on his g/f but i aint that evil i cudnt do it.
    u r all rite about tryin 2 avoid him but theres 1 teeny little problem...........hes like best friends wiv my dad!!& we r always around each other!! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/frown.gif"&gt; neway ill try my best <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/wink.gif"&gt; & i will keep u posted!
    plz keep writin
    love
    Rach
    xxxx
    xxxx
    xxxx

    If u have a good soul u can make sum1 happy!! If u can make sum1 happy ure a good person & a good friend!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Tigerlilly, he sounds really bad news. It just shows - once a cheat always a cheat. Even if you can't keep away from him, freeze him out. The bastard doesn't deserve your attention!

    This is the first day of the rest of your life.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Come on girl, he's messed u about and he's getting ready to mess you up a bit more, dont go for it, tell him to try and stay faithful for more than five minutes and you go find someone who deserves you, you're worth it!!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Calvin:
    hello tigerlilly. haven't seen you the boards of late, welcome back. <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

    there's an old expression that goes "fool me once, shame on you. fool me twice, shame on me."

    i think you should go with your instincts on this one.

    1. he's cheated on you before.

    2. he only started up with you again cause his current g/f went on holiday.

    3. he's can't seem to decide which ex he wants.

    make it easy on him, tigerlilly. until he makes up his mind, stay away from him as much as possible. otherwise you become convenient to him and he'll realize that he can have you whenever he wants, and will treat you as such.

    you deserver better than that. and as i've always maintained.. if he really loves you, he needs to figure that out. and if you were meant to be, he'll come back to you.

    in the meantime, keep your distance and keep meeting new boys. there are plenty out there that won't treat you like this.

    good luck.

    I totally agree with you Calvin - nice

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