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What do i do???

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
Right ive had advice before but now i need more! Its about the same boyf as last time!Right, the day before our 1 month anniversary thing, i made the really very stupid mistake of finishing my boyfriend! i was out at a party and all my mates (who dont like him told me i should finish things-and i made the mistake 2 listen 2 them) and i dumped him!The next mornin after realising what i had done i asked him back out, he said yes straight away! But the problem is that we arn't as close as we used 2 be- i miss our relationship cos its got 2 the stage that we dont talk because i hurt him so much! I keep tellin him how much he means 2 me and wat a stupid mistake i made and how much I LOVE HIM!!! He said he can't forget because of so much i hurt him! Will things ever get back 2 normal! Im not sure if he wants 2 stay with me but i hope so, he told me that he does but whats the point if we never talk! Our relationship used 2 be the best!& i wouldnt swop him for the world! HELP <IMG SRC="confused.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    If I was you I would tell him that you desperatly need to talk. Then you should tell him what you just said in your post. If it still doesnt get much better then maybe its time to start thinking if it could ever work out. You might not think what I think is true or a good piece of advice but you asked! Sorry to hear that your relationship isn't going as well as you want it to. <IMG SRC="cool.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i agree with sexy essex bird
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I am not being funny or any thing but it doesnt sound to me that it will work out because i think otherwise it would of done by now! Sorry!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Sorry to keep posting on here but ive just thought of one more thing to say. have you not thought that maybe if you needed to ask for help before this on here, about the same boyfriend then maybe things were going wrong before you broke it with him!


    whats the point if we never talk!


    I think that this is a good point and maybe if you do decide to take my advice from earlier and talk, then maybe you should ask him this!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    If you loved him you'd not have broken up with him when told to anymore than you'd have cut off a limb just cos your friends told you to.

    Sure you like him, but you have no concept yet of what love is.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    well, hes just hurt thats all. It will take time for him to fully get over how much you hurt him thats all.
    Just show him you love him and care like with letters and record a tape full of love songs, sit down and talk to him fully really talk to him sit him down and look in his eyes and say your heart say how you feel let him know, because if he doesant want to be with you why is he still with you he cares alot he loves you loads but he just doesant know that you really care just bring the love back into the relationship. I know what sounds like soooooo corny but just show him and then he will slowly forget they hurt you caused him and slowly know how much he means to you, good luck
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    in all fairness, if he leaves u it'll be yur fault. You can't say you love him because it's obvious to us, - and will be to him, that you don't after what you did. Next time make your own descissions and don't do what your friends tell you to, it's immature. You do know that you can't actually blame them for this don't you?
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