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I've Been Dumped...

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
Hi, I was dumped yesterday from an 18 month relationship. Any ideas how to cheer me up?
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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    When Im really unhappy I listen to my favourite music loudly in my room. It cheers me up no end. Or just do something that will take your mind off your ex. Hope this helps <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Why are women such bitches? I don't know why we stand for it. I really don't. Why do we put ourselves through all the shit that goes with a relationship? We start going out with someone, we're happy, we're in love, it finishes, you get hurt and what do you do??? You do it all over again with someone else! It's crazy! <IMG SRC="mad.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Because that's life, without the lows there are no highs, without sadness you cannot appreciate happiness.

    Don't class all women as bitches just because of a bad experience.

    Sorry about your break up. Give yourself time and don't rush into anything. Take care.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I don't think I'll be having another relationship for a long while yet. It's too stressful. <IMG SRC="mad.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Sorry to hear that mate, there seems to be a lot of it about at the moment - women are dumping their men left, right & centre. The only advise I can offer is to go & get shit-faced, it usually makes me feel better <IMG SRC="tongue.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Lol, yeah, I might just have to do that! It'll make me feel better for about a day, but what after that? <IMG SRC="mad.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Bangkok Chick Boy:
    <STRONG>I don't think this is the place to ask that, this is a forum. And considering ur sat opposite me anyway, why not just ask? We'll go at 11. <IMG SRC="mad.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"></STRONG>

    Ask what??? <IMG SRC="wink.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="rolleyes.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Bangkok Chick Boy:
    <STRONG>Lol, yeah, I might just have to do that! It'll make me feel better for about a day, but what after that? <IMG SRC="mad.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"></STRONG>


    Unfortunately, you're just going to have to wait it out. There isn't anything that can magically make it all better, but eventually you'll no longer care. Cultivate a feeling of apathy - this is another thing which works for me <IMG SRC="wink.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    [sarcasrm]
    Oh that is awful mate. Couldn't have happened to a nicer, more caring and mature bloke
    [/sarcasm]

    <IMG SRC="rolleyes.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    You sound really sincere(!) <IMG SRC="mad.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Honestly forget all the happy happy stuff..... CRY, SHOUT, SCREAM you'll feel much better!!!!!!! Listen to really sad music toooooo........... make your eyes go all red and puffy then.............SMILE!!!!!! and get on with life.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    First of all, its a bit unfair to blame women in general... both sexes do the dumping...

    I was dumped recently by my bloke after a long relationship, one in which I couldn't see any problems.

    My advice is to go shopping for some new clothes, go out all weekend (good time as its a long bank hol) with your mates and generally treat yourself. If there's something you want in a shop, buy it, if you fancy a bottle of champagne buy one (me & my mates had a champagne toast to me being single, it helped, honestly!). Also, give yourself time to get over it, there will probably be six weeks of being utterly heartbroken and after that you'll be OK. Trust me.

    ps. Don't under any circumstances try to contact your ex. Its the law.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Bangkok Chick Boy:
    <STRONG>You sound really sincere(!) <IMG SRC="mad.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"></STRONG>

    You don't say <IMG SRC="rolleyes.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">

    Are you surprised?
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Thanks for your advice, but it's hard not to see her cos we both go on the same bus to college! I try not to talk to her, but she p*sses me off, cos she has 3 or 4 friends on the bus and they talk about me, and I have no-one. I don't want to start a slanging match or cause a scene, and I don't want to sink to her level, so I try to ignore it and get on with things. <IMG SRC="mad.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">

    [ 30-05-2002: Message edited by: Bangkok Chick Boy ]
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Why did she dump you by the way?
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Well things were going fine I thought, but her dad had been living abroad, he moved home a couple of weeks ago and ever since then, she just couldn't make time for me, got bored and told me to f*ck off. <IMG SRC="mad.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Why did she dump you by the way?

    The mirical of god, gave her the ability to see again, and she realised what a fucking minger she was going out with. Hence fourth she got rid of the ugly fucker <IMG SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">

    Bangcock whatever your name is heres my tip, deal with it, get over it and at the same time get a life <IMG SRC="rolleyes.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    aaahhh thats so sad well wot do is i eat lots of chocolate they i listen to heavy metal till im ready to hurt some one then i yell at my mom and i feel a whole lot better hope i helped
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    thats not a nice thing to sad wuck fit dont be so mean he was just dumped

    [ 30-05-2002: Message edited by: star_**** ]
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by wuckFit:
    <STRONG>

    The mirical of god, gave her the ability to see again, and she realised what a fucking minger she was going out with. Hence fourth she got rid of the ugly fucker <IMG SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">

    </STRONG>

    WuckFit, take a look in the mirror recently? Maybe you should.... <IMG SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by star_****:
    <STRONG>aaahhh thats so sad well wot do is i eat lots of chocolate they i listen to heavy metal till im ready to hurt some one then i yell at my mom and i feel a whole lot better hope i helped</STRONG>

    Thanks Star_****, I guess I just neede a bit of time to adjust and life will go on! <IMG SRC="frown.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Well mate, the best I can offer is that in 2 weeks she'll be thinking "What have I lost?!" - and she'll be after you... let her be.

    And best of British.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    WuckFit, take a look in the mirror recently? Maybe you should....

    Whos the one that has just been dumped, you cant say anything about looks!!!

    lol you got dumped, nae luck <IMG SRC="rolleyes.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Yeah. When it comes to trying to understand a woman, I have one rule: don't bother trying! <IMG SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by wuckFit:
    <STRONG>

    Whos the one that has just been dumped, you cant say anything about looks!!!

    lol you got dumped, nae luck <IMG SRC="rolleyes.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"></STRONG>

    Looks had nothing to do with it actually buddy. You're not helping the situation....
    <IMG SRC="mad.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Looks had nothing to do with it actually buddy. You're not helping the situation....

    Now you know how it feels when you post your rather pointless and less helpful posts on other peoples topics asking for help!!!!

    If you dont like it(which is obvious)then give the respect to other posters and there topics that they deserve!!!!

    Think av made my point now <IMG SRC="rolleyes.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I don't mind, I can take constructive critism, which is what I gave on the bullying issue. Everyone is free to pass comment and judgement, I don't mind. Whether I read it is another story, I will only read the helpful stuff. <IMG SRC="rolleyes.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by wuckFit:
    <STRONG>

    The mirical of god, gave her the ability to see again, and she realised what a fucking minger she was going out with. Hence fourth she got rid of the ugly fucker <IMG SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
    </STRONG>

    Wuckfit, the guys only asking for advice on how to cheer himself up...and then u come in and say that, theres no need!! Think about what you're saying in the future before you post, thats if your brain can handle that much work!
    <IMG SRC="rolleyes.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="mad.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Whether I read it is another story, I will only read the helpful stuff.

    So you will be able to predict if something is going to be "helpful" or not before you even read it!!!

    Thats quite amazing, do you do fortune telling as well? <IMG SRC="rolleyes.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by wuckFit:
    <STRONG>

    So you will be able to predict if something is going to be "helpful" or not before you even read it!!!

    Thats quite amazing, do you do fortune telling as well? <IMG SRC="rolleyes.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"></STRONG>

    Well whenever you make a post I know that it is gonna be a load of sh*t and therefore don't pay it much attention. <IMG SRC="rolleyes.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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