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I've Been Dumped...
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Hi, I was dumped yesterday from an 18 month relationship. Any ideas how to cheer me up?
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Don't class all women as bitches just because of a bad experience.
Sorry about your break up. Give yourself time and don't rush into anything. Take care.
Ask what??? <IMG SRC="wink.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> <IMG SRC="rolleyes.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
Unfortunately, you're just going to have to wait it out. There isn't anything that can magically make it all better, but eventually you'll no longer care. Cultivate a feeling of apathy - this is another thing which works for me <IMG SRC="wink.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
Oh that is awful mate. Couldn't have happened to a nicer, more caring and mature bloke
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I was dumped recently by my bloke after a long relationship, one in which I couldn't see any problems.
My advice is to go shopping for some new clothes, go out all weekend (good time as its a long bank hol) with your mates and generally treat yourself. If there's something you want in a shop, buy it, if you fancy a bottle of champagne buy one (me & my mates had a champagne toast to me being single, it helped, honestly!). Also, give yourself time to get over it, there will probably be six weeks of being utterly heartbroken and after that you'll be OK. Trust me.
ps. Don't under any circumstances try to contact your ex. Its the law.
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Are you surprised?
[ 30-05-2002: Message edited by: Bangkok Chick Boy ]
The mirical of god, gave her the ability to see again, and she realised what a fucking minger she was going out with. Hence fourth she got rid of the ugly fucker <IMG SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
Bangcock whatever your name is heres my tip, deal with it, get over it and at the same time get a life <IMG SRC="rolleyes.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
[ 30-05-2002: Message edited by: star_**** ]
WuckFit, take a look in the mirror recently? Maybe you should.... <IMG SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
Thanks Star_****, I guess I just neede a bit of time to adjust and life will go on! <IMG SRC="frown.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
And best of British.
Whos the one that has just been dumped, you cant say anything about looks!!!
lol you got dumped, nae luck <IMG SRC="rolleyes.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
Looks had nothing to do with it actually buddy. You're not helping the situation....
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Now you know how it feels when you post your rather pointless and less helpful posts on other peoples topics asking for help!!!!
If you dont like it(which is obvious)then give the respect to other posters and there topics that they deserve!!!!
Think av made my point now <IMG SRC="rolleyes.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
Wuckfit, the guys only asking for advice on how to cheer himself up...and then u come in and say that, theres no need!! Think about what you're saying in the future before you post, thats if your brain can handle that much work!
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So you will be able to predict if something is going to be "helpful" or not before you even read it!!!
Thats quite amazing, do you do fortune telling as well? <IMG SRC="rolleyes.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
Well whenever you make a post I know that it is gonna be a load of sh*t and therefore don't pay it much attention. <IMG SRC="rolleyes.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">