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who says love is easy..

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
He was my first love... My first kiss and everything.. When we first met we werent good friends. but then one day i decided to talk to him and we so hit it off.. then we ending up hanging out a couple times, it took him FOREVER TO ask me out. the day he did was the best day of my life.. I had the biggest smile on my face... i was on top of the world and i mean nobodyy could push me down ! r relationship was pretty good i always looked forward to are cuddle session , kissing, talking to him just was greatt.. then things turned to the worst we didnt hang out in 2 weeks and i confronted him about it and he gave me a lame excuse about him not feelin and and everything.. its been a month and i have to see him almost everyday so its still very hard i cry alot over this .. thats how i know he was my true love .. sometimes i smile that it happened but i still feeel like my heart was broken and ripped into a million pieces, i always wonder is he still cares about me.. or thinks about me which i think he doesnt because everyday i see him happy hugging and flirting with other girls.. and thats what hurts the most !

"If you love something let it go.. if it comes back to you its yours, if it doesn't it never was."

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    awwwww manga, that's rough. <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/frown.gif"&gt;

    i know things feel horrible and it feels like you're never gonna get over with it, but take it from someone who has been there, u will get over this.

    and what you have to remember is, although he was the first, he will most definitely won't be the last. <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt; you have to believe that you will find the one someday, it's what keeps us all going.

    so just know that the hurt does go away, and that you'll have many more chances to love if you just keep looking for it.

    chin up, kid. i know this is your first love, but you'll get over this. and he's a dork for making you feel like this and not appreciating you for who you are. <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

    good luck magnachick.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Calvin:
    although he was the first, he will most definitely won't be the last.

    true. mangachick, i pretty much know how you feel. and its like shit. but like calvin said, this is only the first in your long and glorious career of man-eating (ok, he didnt actually say that, but what the hell). my point is more or less that all you can do is, erm, not much really, until the next guy comes along.

    think of this as an experience that makes you stronger - you've been to both extremes - first the happiest dayof your life, then you've hit emotional rock bottom, and youre now dragging yourself up from it. it may seem demented that something as great and wonderful as love can make you feel so bad, but youve also gotta remember how good it feels when it goes your way. make that your reason to keep going, and beleive in yourself <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    wot im going to say ma sound a bit harsh but it has 2 be said, like alot of lads (well some) he sounds like he didnt want to carry on with this relationship but didnt have the courage 2 finish it properly, so took the easy way out.

    to me it doesnt sound like he cared much about u or he would have told u the real reasons why he didnt want to carry on, and hugging other girls infront of u is below the belt.

    u must try 2 put him 2 the back of ur mind and move on, i know how hardit is but in time the pain will ease.

    out there there will be some1 who will treat u right and not like this.

    good luck, chin up!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    THANKS ALOT EVERYONE FOR THE ADVICCE I REALLY APPRECIATE IT.. words of advice make me feel better about myself thanks guys
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