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Tempted

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
I've been seeing my girlfriend for bout 3 months now and I honestly love her to bits and worship her BUT when I go out and get pissed I do seem to get really tempted by girls that are flirting with me,

I haven't done anything yet but I'm scared i will, i'm trying to cut the drink down but I love letting my hair down cus I have a really stressful job. HELP!

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by novakovino:
    <STRONG>I've been seeing my girlfriend for bout 3 months now and I honestly love her to bits and worship her BUT when I go out and get pissed I do seem to get really tempted by girls that are flirting with me,

    I haven't done anything yet but I'm scared i will, i'm trying to cut the drink down but I love letting my hair down cus I have a really stressful job. HELP!</STRONG>


    Flirting is a big part of our lives....and temptation is always present......these feelings you are having are pretty normal....it's whether you act on them or not that is the big issue.

    You've been with your girlfriend for three months now, and perhaps your fear of giving in to temptation stems from the fact that you haven't committed to each other fully yet. Sometimes it takes more than three months to secure a place in your heart that's exclusively for her.
    You have to be brutally honest with yourself and consider just how important she is to you.

    Where do you want the relationship to go?

    How strong are your feelings for her?

    Is one night of passion with another girl worth jeopardising your relationship?

    If this doesn't help then perhaps you should discuss these feelings you are having with her. But be careful how you approach the subject!! If in doubt about the way she'll respond, don't tell her.

    Also, if you really think you might do something when you're drunk, then perhaps you should ask your friends to make sure you don't do anything stupid when you're out together.
    Of course this depends on the type of friends you have......many guys (especially if they're single) will encourage a bit of "innocent" fun.

    Ultimately though it's your call (as it always is).......so be honest......and be strong.

    Hope this helps.

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