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ultimate compliment!!

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
Whats the one thing that a person could say to you that would give you the biggest smile? The ULTIMATE compliment. My friend described the way he sees me yesterday, and it was the nicest thing, made me glad somebody sees me like that.

How would you like people to see you? Have you already been given your ultimate compliment? What was it?

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Personal: 'You're the best thing that's happened to me.' :D
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by lil_minx

    How would you like people to see you?

    As someone who was themself at all times, I suppose.

    Yes, I sometimes get sensitive, yes I sometimes worry about being judged. But I'd rather be like that than be an ass licker, who spends all their life trying to be nice to everyone, just so they get respect or whatever it is. And it's all totally fake, you aren't living your life, and you aren't being true to yourself. Your being what you think other people will accept you ass, and it's all such a fecking waste of time.

    As far as compliments go, I'm not that bothered. I'm happy if I have people around me who i enjoy being around, and who enjoy being around me. That means much more to me than some one-lined compliment, to be honest :)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I went on holiday to Canada a few years ago and my then 14 year old Cousin said "I'm so glad you came here" - that was really nice to hear!!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Similar to what Brian said. Just to be wanted around, really...haha even to be fancied :/

    :)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    The biggest compliment i have got for a while was being asked to be my nephew's godfather: i got a card for my twenty-first and there was a picture of him (Nathan) with his heart-melting innoccent blue eyes and the line "would you like to be my godfather?"........means an awful lot to me.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Someone to like me for me. The best compliment for me is if someone says "you're intelligent", not just ohh you do well at school, but to actually say you're intelligent and interesting. My ex said to me once that I was one of the most intelligent and driven people he knew - which was a real compliment as he spent the majority of the duration of our relationship constantly debasing me.

    I had a nice compliment last night actually, I started talking to this guy in a club and we started talking about politics - Labour party, the war, Iran, top-up fees etc. and he said "I like you, you've got attitude" and asked for my number - I hadn't even touched him. heh. Shame I didn't like him that much though...

    So I'd like someone to like me for my substance rather than appearance.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I once got a letter off a former friend of mine, saying how i changed her life and she envy's everyone who is ever going to meet me, because of all the great things Im going to go on and do with my life, and the wonderful friend I am going to be in the future to all the people I meet. It was a lovely letter in a strange way (strange because of the circumstances).

    But the best thing ever is my partner, the fact that he's stayed with me through all this shit over the past 2 years is a compliment in itself, and every time he looks at me and tells me all the beautiful things he thinks of me, its the only thing that puts a real smile on my face. He's my definition of perfection, and that's the most wondeful thing anyone could find in someone else.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    When people tell me how beautiful my little boy is, and when my boyf looks at me in a certain way, just makes me melt he doesnt have to say anything i can read his facial expressions.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    My friend once told me, "I just like the way you're so true yourself and don't care what others think, and have passion and drive. Unique. I want to be unique just like you".

    And at the time it was the best thing anyone could ever tell me, as I felt as if I was going unnoticed.

    And then some days ago, my friend told me that a guy I met who's her friend had told her something along the lines "she was so nice, and intelligent. Was really interesting to talk to her. And she had so much more knowledge and depth than other. Just talking to her was enough to make her beautiful to me".

    *melts*
    The guy is damn fine as well.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    ahh, *sniffs*
    i love it when i'm around my boy friends, they always smell delish

    also, i'm still thinking anout the question!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    When one of my friends was having a bad night and i promised his friend i'd get him home his son turned round and said " i trust her and when she promises she means it, he'll be okay". This lad has a real trust problem and i thought it was really nice that he felt he could trust me.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    "Hi, my names Marshall Marther III. Would you like to sign to shady aftermath a multi million advance 5 album deal?"
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    playboy chick comes up to me; ure not rich and im still attracted to u, and so r all my m8's..... want to join us in our orgy? :D:D:D
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i've just had an email saying 'You're the greatest'
    that was lovely

    although i opened it and it was just an ad for porn *sigh*
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by BritJames
    lol

    awwww
    you're 2nd greatest :)

    i already know who my greatest is *grin*

    always 2nd best, me :rolleyes:

    ah well
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