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her first time?

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
I have had sexual relationships before with experienced girls. But my current gf there is one slight difference, she is still a virgin at 21. And we might soon be in that 'train entering the tunnel' situation.
Because of her non experience how should I react or take things? in all geniune concern - will it be painful for her ? will she bleed? any advice . thanks <IMG alt="image" SRC="smile.gif" border="0">

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I don't think it's exactly the same for everyone but I just recently lost my virginity to a guy more experienced and it was fine. I was lucky and didn't bleed at all...it did hurt a bit to start with but that didn't last too long! As long as you just take it slow it should be fine. Just make sure she's ready and relaxed (as you can be!), I'm sure she'll tell you if she's not comfortable! <IMG alt="image" SRC="smile.gif" border="0">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    thankyou for the good advice, those seem to be the best advice - take things slowly and talk to her about it. many thanks <IMG alt="image" SRC="smile.gif" border="0">
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