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shud i be worried

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
i really wanna have sex with my gf she finally said she wud have sex with me but i am woriied that i mite come to quickly and then shell be pissed off so how do is top myself from coming to soon if there is a way?

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Don't burn yourself out to soon and try the stop start method? There's a topic a page or so back about this.
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    ClaireBearClaireBear Deactivated Posts: 467 Listening Ear
    There may be a couple of techniques here that may help if you find this is a problem.

    But most of all, don't worry about it, it won't necessarily happen.

    CB
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i couldnt understand that so yeah you should
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    More 4play... Most girls orgasim from 4play rather than acutal penetration. Have a wank before you shag or summit?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Totally off-topic but...i know i guy called Leon whos middle name is Dan! Woah...
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Felix Da Housecat
    More 4play... Most girls orgasim from 4play rather than acutal penetration. Have a wank before you shag or summit?

    Yeh. i say go for a wank ebfore it, ull be like a pornstar then, u wont come for ages!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Yea the best thing to do would be have a wank a few hours before u go and shag the girl and do alot of foreplay on her.

    Squeeze them breasts and lick her nipples then move down and slowly lick her out (dont bite her like someone did here before) then tease her and whenever ur ready penetrate her.;)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    It doesn't sound like you've had sex before (as you're worried about cumming too soon). The thing is, you're not going to find out if it's a problem or not until the time comes. You'll either find that you get over excited, and cum too quickly, or the nerves make it hard for you to relax and feel comfortable enough to cum - which might mean you'll last some time, and might not even cum at all.
    Of course, you could just find that it's no real problem after all, and that you actually feel comfotable, can hold off long enough for both of you to enjoy it, and cum.

    Mr_Wobble ;)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I wouldnt worry if i were you, i thought the same thing before i first had sex. It will be fine. Like many poeple have already said, if your too worried have a wank before you go and meet her. But seriously mate, dont worry about it and just enjoy it.
    BTW Mr. Wobble speakes a lot of sense so listen too him
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by beerboy

    BTW Mr. Wobble speakes a lot of sense so listen too him
    Ooo, thank you! I really must start listening to myself someday then! :D

    Mr_Wobble ;)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Mr_Wobble
    Ooo, thank you! I really must start listening to myself someday then! :D

    Mr_Wobble ;)

    :lol:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Just dont worry about having sex, relax and blow your load when the time is right.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Shogun2002
    Just dont worry about having sex, relax and blow your load when the time is right.

    lots of foreplay for her then bingo bango, you could also use durex performa if your really worried, but stress and an increased heart rate increases the chances of premature ejaculation so try and relax and enjoy yourself. also take shoguns advice on board, its the best advice i've read on this thread :p
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