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What you look for-

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
Just been wondering about this-

Whats the one thing that people look for most in a relationship-

Trust-
Someone to love
Someone to love you
Security
Sex
Just happen or anything else-

Like if I got into a rel now i'd either be looking for a) sex (at least im honest) b) someone just to be with and have a laugh!

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Sex
    Trust
    Humour
    Good Personality
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    personality
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    sex & someone to love me
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    um...

    good personality.
    to love me for me and not my legs! lol.
    sex.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    What Tink said and:

    Security,
    Someone who I can be myself around, cos that doesn't happen too often,
    Someone who can make me laugh without trying,
    Trust

    I think that's about it. Will edit if any more come into my head :p
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Trust
    Security
    Someone I can be myself around
    Reliability
    Someone who challenges me (makes me work hard to figure them out, likes to play some games and generally keep me on my toes).
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Sex
    Trust
    Someone who I think is good looking.
    Someone who likes me for who I am and doesn't try to change me.
    Someone who I can talk to about almost anything.
    Someone with a personality I like and can get on with.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    sex
    sex
    sex
    sex
    sex
    sex
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by VinylVicky
    sex
    sex
    sex
    sex
    sex
    sex

    I'm sure we could all work around this :naughty:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Just a fit bloke with a pulse would do right now ;):naughty:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by VinylVicky
    sex
    sex
    sex
    sex
    sex
    sex

    Lol how did I know it would be you that said that!? I guess I've gone psychic :p. I got another one to add to mine:

    Someone who you can just sit in silence with and it not be uncomfortable. Doesn't happen too often, but when it does, tis great :)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Everything that everyone else said, but with one huge difference:

    NO SEX.

    Ilora x
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    company
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Trust is one of the most important things in a relationship. I don't think you can have a proper relationship without it.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    For a relationship, as in a girlfriend, I first look for a friend, and a great lover - or as Vicky put it...
    Originally posted by VinylVicky
    sex
    sex
    sex
    sex
    sex
    sex
    Though I would add to that...
    Sex
    Sex
    Sex
    Sex
    Sex
    SEX!

    :naughty:

    Mr_Wobble ;)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I would have to say:


    personality,
    sense of humor,
    sensativity,
    love,
    understanding
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