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Am I normal?

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
Me and my boyfriend have sex on a regular basis, but i don't think I have ever had an orgasm with him! The thing is,he comes at least twice during sex, so how can he have an orgasm and me not? Does the size of his penis have anything to do with it? Are we doing something wrong? Help appreciated, cheers peeps!

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    hey.1st of all welcome to the site.(ive always wanted to do that)now im no expert(shock horror) but not everyone cums or orgasms every time.most lads can take 4 or 5 years to do it so i dnt see why lasses shud be diferent.stick at it and im sure itl happen in time.just hold on there.
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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    In some ways it is normal and in other ways not. Your boyfriend should also be interested in making you orgasm. You should talk to him about it and tell him hte situation. One of the best ways though is for you to know how to make yourself orgasm, therefore through personal interaction you can find this out. Then you can teach your boyfriend, and together you can learn to orgasm together. Trust me this is the best way, and it is important that you orgasm as well, not just your boyfriend. Remember girls can have multiple orgasms, you just need to discover your own particular way. Good luck, and either way you'll start having more fun at any rate cause a lot more attention will be focused on you, and you'll be doing new things which is always good to excite relationships.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Lots off women cant orgasm just through penetration (sp?) they need a little helping hand. <IMG alt="image" SRC="wink.gif" border="0">
    As someone else said you need to find out what you like yourself before you can expect him to know, after all we are all different.
    Then you can tell/show him what you like.
    HTH <IMG alt="image" SRC="smile.gif" border="0">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    but if i tell him that im not 'enjoying it' as much as him, won't this make him feel like he's not good enuff for me. I'm in a (literally) sticky situation here!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    if it does then he's very imature and not worth it
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    lol...4 or 5 years to cum?

    jesus, i'm lucky if i get 20 minutes.

    ok piss poor, and false, might i hastily add.

    ok, talking to him isn't gonna make him feel inadequate. he should be out there to please u, not just himself.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    have you gave him any pointers????
    my g/f did and now everytime we at it is "happy days" <IMG alt="image" SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0"> <IMG alt="image" SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Well if he really likes you he should be open to suggestions, and if he isn't get him to read this. I AM A BLOKE AND LISTENING TO MY GIRLFRIENDS MADE SEX BETTER FOR ME TOO.
    Nuff said <IMG alt="image" SRC="biggrin.gif" border="0">
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