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Paedophile Next Door... need help!

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
My next door neighbours have 2 daughters and this completely un-related bloke from the village has been coming round to their house most nites for the past year or so. My mate and I always jokingly called him a paedo.

However, just recently he has been paying particular attention to the oldest one and touching her, not inappropriately, but what I would say was 'un-necessary'.

Anyway, tonight they have been sat on a bench holding hands and reading a magazine. I can see from my bedroom window, and I nearly fell over when I saw them kiss. I definately got a boyfriend/girlfriend vibe by looking at them.

He is a bout 45 and her no more than 15. The worrying thing is that the parents are always in and watch them! And do nothing about it, so they clearly haven't got a problem with it. But it's sick.

What should I do? :confused:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    you need to report it mate, no questoin about it!!! Its wrong, they are children and just thing of all the things going on that you havent seen. Honestly, tell the police or social services, you can tip them off withought letting them know your identity.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by VinylVicky
    you need to report it mate, no questoin about it!!! Its wrong, they are children and just thing of all the things going on that you havent seen. Honestly, tell the police or social services, you can tip them off withought letting them know your identity.

    What about proof?! I aint got none. They'd always deny it, and is it my place to say anything, surely the parents need to wake up and smell the bacon and take some responsibility for this?

    :(
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Yes:yes: :yes: :yes: I agree with Vicky tip them off, it sounds too weird to ignore! Hopefully theres nothing going on that shouldn't be, and if there is he'll get put away! It makes me sick to think that the would parents just let it go on.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    no way, they take everything seriously and they will investigate. if you need proof take a fucking picture. Please.:(
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    what is it your business to get involved?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    You don't need proof for social services to come in and check it out, they will find the proof themselves.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by jacaranda
    what is it your business to get involved?

    You're sick in the fucking head if you can say something like that. Does a 45 year old man have any right going out with a 15 year old? Jesus, i never knew you were that thick!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    look I don't think that it is right at all but if i was in ramnor's position I don't think i'd want to get involved.... see there is no way I am thick... you just jumped to the wrong conclusion as to what I think
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    WILL ONE OF U 2 CHANGE YOUR FUCKING AV. :|
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by jacaranda
    look I don't think that it is right at all but if i was in ramnor's position I don't think i'd want to get involved.... see there is no way I am thick... you just jumped to the wrong conclusion as to what I think

    If you knew that the outcome was that the girl was taken away, raped and murdered, then would you report it? I think the answer is yes, but the outcome could be that, so why not fucking report it to maybe try and save somone's life?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I was here first so my av stays
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by jacaranda
    look I don't think that it is right at all but if i was in ramnor's position I don't think i'd want to get involved.... see there is no way I am thick... you just jumped to the wrong conclusion as to what I think


    Even more reason to get involved!!! god 15!!! hes being going round for the last year!!!! would your mum let you at 15 be with a 45 yr old, even if theres nothing going on its better to be safer than sorry!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by *Lisa*
    WILL ONE OF U 2 CHANGE YOUR FUCKING AV. :|


    LMAO, agreed. :D
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    angelic girl, hunni, please please please can u change your av? I'll give u a lollipop. :yes:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by jacaranda
    what is it your business to get involved?
    You are fucking sick!

    Please tell me what you make out of this:

    After he was imprisoned in Dachau Martin Niemöller wrote a poem, First they came for the Jews.

    First they came for the Jews
    and I did not speak out -
    because I was not a Jew.

    Then they came for the communists
    and I did not speak out -
    because I was not a communist.

    Then they came for the trade unionists
    and I did not speak out -
    because I was not a trade unionist.

    Then they came for me
    and there was no one left
    to speak out for me.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by *Lisa*
    angelic girl, hunni, please please please can u change your av? I'll give u a lollipop. :yes:

    Yes, you don't want to be mistaken or associated with Jac.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Angelic girl, you seem like a sane and reasonable person, who knows common sense when she sees it, would you please change your av?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by RiSe & ShInE
    Yes, you don't want to be mistaken or associated with Jac.

    DONT call her Jac. :|

    At first i thought u meant Jacqueline the Ripper, but she is 'hardcore' so i knew u were wrong. :p
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by *Lisa*
    DONT call her Jac. :|

    At first i thought u meant Jacqueline the Ripper, but she is 'hardcore' so i knew u were wrong. :p
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by *Lisa*
    DONT call her Jac. :|

    At first i thought u meant Jacqueline the Ripper, but she is 'hardcore' so i knew u were wrong. :p
    Thank you *applauds* :)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by *Lisa*
    DONT call her Jac. :|

    At first i thought u meant Jacqueline the Ripper, but she is 'hardcore' so i knew u were wrong. :p

    Ok then Lisa, godess of all that is great, i will edit it. :p

    No offence to Jacqualine the Ripper.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by RiSe & ShInE
    Ok then Lisa, godess of all that is great, i will edit it. :p

    No offence for Jacqualine the Ripper.

    Good boy.

    Now fetch :p
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by *Lisa*
    Good boy.

    Now fetch :p

    No. :p
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by RiSe & ShInE
    No. :p

    Aww, boring. :p
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by *Lisa*
    Aww, boring. :p

    Fuck you. :D
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I took it down:( but I don't have any small pics to replace it with:confused::( not sure what to do?


    I don't like not having an AV:crying: :crying: :crying:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by RiSe & ShInE
    Fuck you. :D

    And i was jsut about to give u a lollipop.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by angelic girl
    I took it down:( but I don't have any small pics to replace it with:confused::( not sure what to do?


    I don't like not having an AV:crying: :crying: :crying:

    Aww, your so cute.

    Have u got a pic u would like?

    If so add me on msn Justsweetninnocent@hotmail.com and i'll resize it for u :)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    :( Where's my lollipop :confused:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by angelic girl
    I took it down:( but I don't have any small pics to replace it with:confused::( not sure what to do?


    I don't like not having an AV:crying: :crying: :crying:

    Start a new thread, someone will help you out :D

    Please someone will you point her which direction :)
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