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What do you do for comfort?

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
I'm am very much a huggy person from someone i love, but if i can't have one, what do i do to feel comfort?

What do you people do?

I hope this makes sense.

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Re: What do you do for comfort?
    Originally posted by Tweety
    I'm am very much a huggy person[SIZE]

    I can't breathe. :p
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I go to bed and curl up under the covers. Or at leat I would if I had the opportunity. Usually it`s a blanket on the sofa.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Re: Re: What do you do for comfort?
    Originally posted by Mobily's Ghost
    I can't breathe. :p

    :) That made me smile, which is a real achievment (sp?) today.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Awww. Yeah I'm a huggy person too, but if I'm on my own... hmm, call up a good friend and have a moan, or snuggle up under a blanket with ice-cream or hot chocolate depending on the weather, and watch mindless TV :)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by perfect***day
    call up a good friend and have a moan

    Guess who is normally the one that has to listen to friends going on about their problems? lol.

    I don't know what I do really. Hmm... talk about it I guess or play music loudly or something.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    yeah i love da hugs but other than that probably listening to music and singing along lol
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Mobily's Ghost
    Guess who is normally the one that has to listen to friends going on about their problems? lol.

    That sounds a bit cold.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Tweety
    That sounds a bit cold.

    Not really. Friendships are two-way things, and so it's fair if people can both give and receive. For instance, when I needed to talk about a problem with a friend, she said 'sorry, I'm busy', only to then proceed to tell me all about her problems without either asking how I am or anything.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Mobily's Ghost
    Not really. Friendships are two-way things, and so it's fair if people can both give and receive. For instance, when I needed to talk about a problem with a friend, she said 'sorry, I'm busy', only to then proceed to tell me all about her problems without either asking how I am or anything.

    Thats different then.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    *hugs tweety loads*

    I make my cat listen to what i have to say :/ and then i hug him for ages. And he loves it. He told me so.:yes:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Have a moan 2 BeZ or Instie on the phone
    Get hugs off BeZ or GweZ
    And if all else fails, curl up on my futon with a big cushion with a real old movie or playing slow songs and using my laptop
    ...I tend to think too much when theres something on my mind and need comforting when theres no one around, which only makes ya feel worse!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by *Lisa*
    *hugs tweety loads*

    Thanks Lisa :).
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Tweety
    Thanks Lisa :).

    Can u please remove your hand from my butt? :p
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by *Lisa*
    Can u please remove your hand from my butt? :p

    :) Must i?:p
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Tweety
    :) Must i?:p

    Yes. :p

    Groping me in public. Tut.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by *Lisa*
    Yes. :p

    Groping me in public. Tut.

    Ok, wanna come back to mine for a cuppa? ;):p
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Tweety
    Ok, wanna come back to mine for a cuppa? ;):p

    Haha, tart. :p

    I'm goin shopping now, maybe later. ;)
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