why cant i get sex?

Former Member

I just turned 18, and for the past few years have been without a boyfriend.
i know what i want from a bloke, and since i cant find it, i decided i wanted just sex.
I thought this would be easy, but no!
blokes always say yeh im up 4 it etc but when i wanted sex, where were they?!?!

I dont understand why its so dificult for me, i know im not ugly, got nice figure big boobs and up for a laugh!! so why cant i either find a man whos what i want, or a man who i can fuck!!

ANy ideas why its so hard??:eek2:

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It shouldn't be hard for a girl. Go to a club (which is more or less just a meat market). If you are slim and half decent looking, then it won't be long before some cocky bloke tries to chat you up, and if you think he's alright, then flirt a little, and you're sorted.

Mr_Wobble

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It's not hard.

Girls have an even easier time cos men are pathetic and pretty easily manipulated

Go clubbing, pull a guy and ask him where he's going afterwards.

Some might bottle out, but then those ones would be a crap shag anyway, eh?

:rolleyes:

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I go clubbing, but i never get approached by anyone who i dont know! Blokes will chat to me, or jus twalk past n smile but never try it on!!

my friends say im intimidating, but im only 5'2!!

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Some guys don't like girls who seem too eager for relationships etc

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Originally posted by EssexBabe
I go clubbing, but i never get approached by anyone who i dont know! Blokes will chat to me, or jus twalk past n smile but never try it on!!

my friends say im intimidating, but im only 5'2!!

Come on to them. It ain't difficult to get a guy's attention!

:rolleyes:

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Well you could opt to dance close to a bloke you like the look of and get closer to him and look at him and look away get his attention by dancing real close to him. You could even dance around them or bump into them accidentally on purpose. Then see what happens next.

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mr wobble will have you probably. or ask man of kent, hes a dirty old man - oops forgot,hes married. do you like em young, cos shyboy in the corner is lonely at the moment.

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and if you ask Lacy nicely, she might let you have a go of harmless

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Originally posted by rainbow brite
and if you ask Lacy nicely, she might let you have a go of harmless

Nay she wont :yeees:

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Originally posted by LacyMay
Nay she wont :yeees:

ah well, im sure the others will still be happy to oblige.

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Originally posted by rainbow brite
mr wobble will have you probably.

Hmmm, *checks diary* Oh, go on then, I can fit her in to my hectic shedule somehow. Now, when are you available?

Mr_Wobble

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Simply chat to go- sound a bit up for it and flirty but not too much or straight away.

If you keep going looking for it its harder to get!
Its like waiting on a kettle to boil- just leave it alone and it'll happen. Seroiusly!

If thatdont work give me a shout- ill overally sort ya out

Former Member

Try

"I am only looking for no commitment and a bit of fun in the sack"

Would work on me.......providing I fancied you tho

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Originally posted by CRAZYREDEYES
Try

"I am only looking for no commitment and a bit of fun in the sack"

Would work on me.......providing I fancied you tho

That would work for me too! It would surprise me though!

Mr_Wobble

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You're from Essex, aren't you born with genes that tell you how to shag?

I don't see the problem really, I've never known any woman have trouble getting laid it's always the blokes (like me ). Just be friendly and chatty to any bloke you meet, be outgoing but not loud - I'm sure if you just do simple things like that you'll get plenty of attention from half decent blokes. Once you spot one you like get a little flirty with him and you'll soon see if he's up for it or not.

If you're really struggling send me a PM

Former Member

I have this problem as well!

my problem is i cant seem to find anyone decent to sleep with! i've GOTTO have chemistry with someone to sleep with them, or it sh**e!

Seems when i do find this the guy runs away!? i'm not loud pushing etc.... every guy i've been with in the past says "why me"? as in asking why hes so lucky!????

weird yes, i'm def not perfect, but i'm 6' tall thin, and i think pretty good looking.... but wheres there men to sleep with !!!! i'm gonna go nuts here! :crazyeyes :crazyeyes

Saying this, its not like being a girl you can jsut go up to some guy and say "hey, fancy a shag" guess you just gotta play it cool, and pray!!! lmao!

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Originally posted by canuckgirl
Saying this, its not like being a girl you can jsut go up to some guy and say "hey, fancy a shag" guess you just gotta play it cool, and pray!!! lmao!

Ummmmm..... That's exactly what you CAN do!

Girls have it easy when it comes to pulling. It just takes a wee bit of confidence and a slightly shorter skirt :rolleyes:

Former Member

you and your skirts.

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Originally posted by eefs
you and your skirts.

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Short skirts show a lot of leg, and leg is nice :rolleyes:

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alrighty then.

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Originally posted by eefs
alrighty then.

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Originally posted by EssEmm
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Short skirts show a lot of leg, and leg is nice :rolleyes:

:yes: :yes:

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Maybe your look like the "unapproachable"?

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Originally posted by rainbow brite
shyboy in the corner is lonely at the moment.

:yes: very

come to my place later babe

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Originally posted by AntiPop
You're from Essex, aren't you born with genes that tell you how to shag?

cheeky!

If you're really that desperate to get a shag then you're going to have to appraoch blokes yourself! Could be waiting forever otherwise, you know what men are like! :rolleyes:

Former Member

Trouble with bars and clubs is that there are always people who're already attached trying to tempt you. And then if you respond positively, their other half gets pissed off (in my experience anyway).

Probably your best bit is to make friends with someone you fancy from work/college, see whether they've got a partner, if you haven't make clear your intentions.

And yes, I suppose, you could shag someone who's attached, but I wouldn't recommend it

Former Member

You could be like the two girls who approached my bloke in town whilst I was at the bar and said, "Are you single?" to which he replied no. They just said, "Shame, you could have had both of us" and walked off.

I wondered why his jaw was on the floor when I got back!

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Re: why cant i get sex?

Originally posted by EssexBabe
I dont understand why its so dificult for me, i know im not ugly, got nice figure big boobs and up for a laugh!! so why cant i either find a man whos what i want, or a man who i can fuck!!

Maybe for once men are looking past all that and you just have no personality? :rolleyes:

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Re: Re: why cant i get sex?

Originally posted by BumbleBee
Maybe for once men are looking past all that and you just have no personality? :rolleyes:

Lol, Hehehe yeah riiiiiight

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Hoi, Essexbabe! Keep us updated on your shagging situation

I'm sure I'm not the only person that wants to know if we helped :rolleyes:

:rolleyes: