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WHY do people do it?????

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
Im getting really pissed of with people trying to make other people out bad all the time.
Lets take ShyBoys thread was there any need to turn it into a fuckin bitching thread and having digs???

So why do people insist on dragging stuff up every bloody time???

Yes im annoyed at the fact that people just dont know when to stop having a go at people.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i'm gonna keep my head down till i know who's winning ok.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Calm down Becky! I love to see you laughing and whatnot, not all angry. Come on... for me? :D

    I also don't see the point for meaningless arguing, and I sincerely believe that people should refrain from using doing so on the boards. Similarly, I utterly dislike verbal attacks on people, for it is unfair, unconstructive and disrespectful, regardless of any provocative behaviour (two wrongs do not make a right).

    Anyway - Becky, come on, return to your normal fun self. :)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Cos this is a discussion board. Therefore every post is up for discussion. You cant control other peoples views and what they say can you?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    You mean me?
    You know what, I am obviously not entitled to my opinions here, so I may just keep out of anything goes from now on. I wouldn't drag anything up if it didn't worry me a hell of a lot. And what you are referring to worries me a hell of a lot.
    You did not need to make another thread for this - if you have a problem with what I said then take it up with me, I have PM capabilities you know?

    I wasn't "having a go" as you put it I was doing far more - I was expressing deep - very deep - concern.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Re: WHY do people do it?????
    Originally posted by BeckyBoo
    Im getting really pissed of with people trying to make other people out bad all the time.

    Well said hun, there's quite a few people on here who never seem to have anything nice to say about others.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    So ok its perfectly fine to keep having a go at the same person time after time?
    I just feel that people keep having a go and just dont know when to stop.

    How would you feel being at the end of slagging off everytime you come? I dont think anyone would constantly like the piss ripped out of them.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by BumbleBee
    You mean me?
    You know what, I am obviously not entitled to my opinions here, so I may just keep out of anything goes from now on. I wouldn't drag anything up if it didn't worry me a hell of a lot. And what you are referring to worries me a hell of a lot.
    You did not need to make another thread for this - if you have a problem with what I said then take it up with me, I have PM capabilities you know?

    I wasn't "having a go" as you put it I was doing far more - I was expressing deep - very deep - concern.

    I said it in the other thread.......no response.

    I then edited my post to say not just you.

    OK
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by morrocan roll
    i'm gonna keep my head down till i know who's winning ok.

    Sorry for interfering, but this is worth a :lol:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Mobily's Ghost
    Sorry for interfering, but this is worth a :lol:

    and dont you bloody start :lol::lol:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Re: Re: WHY do people do it?????
    Originally posted by Faith
    Well said hun, there's quite a few people on here who never seem to have anything nice to say about others.
    I have plenty of nice things to say about 95% of the people who post at the site, so you can't mean me. :rolleyes:
    I said it in the other thread.......no response.
    Didn't think it deserved one - you're overreacting and for once I am glad to say that I am not the only person who was worried by what was said. I thought you, being a mother, would understand. Obviously not.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Re: Re: WHY do people do it?????
    Originally posted by Faith
    Well said hun, there's quite a few people on here who never seem to have anything nice to say about others.

    least someone actually seems to see where im coming from, thanks for putting you thoughts here :)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by BeckyBoo
    So ok its perfectly fine to keep having a go at the same person time after time?
    I just feel that people keep having a go and just dont know when to stop.

    How would you feel being at the end of slagging off everytime you come? I dont think anyone would constantly like the piss ripped out of them.

    Like I said in the thread - Go find another thread where people have started slagging ShyBoy off for his past (except his confessions one where he said about his past in the first place) - you won't find one. It's only been brought up in this thread because his ideas about wanting to look after kids DIRECTLY RELATE to his "past".
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    What is the point in all this arguing?

    Respect other peoples views. Yes i agree sometimes some people are victimised to a certain extent. But some times people are deservant of the tag they've been given.

    Not saying ShyBoy deserves people having a go all the time, but when he makes posts he knows people are gonna read them and form views about him.

    Obviously something he previously said, worried people. Thats not having a go, thats concern.

    There is no point arguing about it.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by BeckyBoo
    and dont you bloody start :lol::lol:

    :lol::lol::lol::lol::lol::lol::lol:

    See, you should be laughing! "don't worry, be happy."
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Re: Re: Re: WHY do people do it?????
    Originally posted by BumbleBee
    Didn't think it deserved one - you're overreacting and for once I am glad to say that I am not the only person who was worried by what was said. I thought you, being a mother, would understand. Obviously not.

    PLEASE dont even go there !!!!!!!!!!

    Im not angry yet but try to bring me into this about me being a mother and i will really fuckin blow.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Of course people are entitled to their opinions, its just theres a line that shouldnt be crossed; some people can take things too far.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by LacyMay

    Obviously something he previously said, worried people. Thats not having a go, thats concern.

    There is no point arguing about it.

    Yes I do appreciate that, but is there any need to keep dragging it up? thats all im saying.
    That thread started off as a fun, amusing thread till comments were aimed at certain people and theres no need for it.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by BeckyBoo
    Yes I do appreciate that, but is there any need to keep dragging it up? thats all im saying.
    That thread started off as a fun, amusing thread till comments were aimed at certain people and theres no need for it.

    As I said... if you actualy look, it is NOT being constantly been dragged up as you seem to claim.

    Although he was saying stuff in a "fun amusing way" the main point of the thread was to make it clear that he would enjoy a job with small children and wanted to pursue that - the only reason "it" was bought up was because "it" directly related to that, and people were worried, and to be honest people have a right to be given what they know about him. Nobody insulted him. Nobody called him names. Nobody did anything other than express concern over the matter.

    Personally I'd be worried if my kids were in the care of a guy whos watched child porn.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by BeckyBoo
    Yes I do appreciate that, but is there any need to keep dragging it up? thats all im saying.
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    You say *keep* dragging it up as if people are constantly on about how odd shyboy is which they don't at all.

    In actual fact I have rarely seen anyone say anything about him.

    In this instance I don't care about being flamed because I am worried by what he has said. Others are too. I have done nothing wrong.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    hakuna matata what a wonderful phrase. It means no worries for the rest of your days. Its our problem free philosophy hakuna matata
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by jacaranda
    hakuna matata what a wonderful phrase. It means no worries for the rest of your days. Its our problem free philosophy hakuna matata
    Timone and Pumba! :D
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Do you not think theres a time where you have to just stop keep having digs.
    So shyboys done some disturbing stuff we know that but to keep dragging it up, make comments I feel that you have to draw the line somewhere.
    Also its not just him ive seen comments made about theres others, but im not prepared to go into it. How i see it is people dont come here to get put down all the time.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    EH EH eh eh eh
    Calm down Calm down eh

    :p
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    *buts in*

    If they have a problem with it, surely they'd say?

    Becks people are just gonna flame you down if you try fighting other peoples battles.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by BeckyBoo
    Do you not think theres a time where you have to just stop keep having digs.
    So shyboys done some disturbing stuff we know that but to keep dragging it up, make comments I feel that you have to draw the line somewhere.
    Also its not just him ive seen comments made about theres others, but im not prepared to go into it. How i see it is people dont come here to get put down all the time.

    Have you actualy read whats been said? People DON'T keep dragging it up and they DON'T keep making comments about it. You've blown this completely out of proportion and made the situation a lot worse. Nobody was having a dig nor was anyone being offensive towards ShyBoy. Why do you keep acting as if people are constantly having a go at him and bringing stuff up, when quite simply they don't?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by LacyMay
    *buts in*

    If they have a problem with it, surely they'd say?

    Becks people are just gonna flame you down if you try fighting other peoples battles.

    Im not fighting battles, im telling people how i feel on this subject. I have to admit I did get a bit angry at one point. But you see when people make comments about me as a mother then I will flip.
    You see im sat behind this screen and someone has made judgement about me........NO im not happy. So how many people do actually feel this way.....we will never know.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Shukes
    Have you actualy read whats been said? People DON'T keep dragging it up and they DON'T keep making comments about it. You've blown this completely out of proportion and made the situation a lot worse. Nobody was having a dig nor was anyone being offensive towards ShyBoy. Why do you keep acting as if people are constantly having a go at him and bringing stuff up, when quite simply they don't?
    :lol: Sorry, have to laugh, that must be like the 5th time you've said that...at least im paying attention :p
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Shukes
    Have you actualy read whats been said?

    I think you really should go from the beginning of that thread and read it again. Little *inuendos* doesent take a genious to work it out really.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Becky - stop trying to be the champion of other people's rights. It is tiresome. People do not need you to make secondary threads in order to draw further attention to their little "quirks" as you would have us all believe Shyboy's habits are (although I would rate watching child pornography as more than a little quirk).

    I am of the opinion that you aren't fully aware of the disturbing things that this poster has said in the past and if you were you would in no way defend him. In actual fact, as a decent human being who cares for other human beings I am sure you would have been quick to jump in with both feet and raise concerns over any future involvement Shyboy may have with children.

    Yes, perhaps in the past he has said some things that he did not mean to - perhaps he has even lied about things or exaggerated them, this I and many others would be able to overlook as you suggest but he has said some highly disturbing things of late. Others that I have spoken too share this view.

    The fact of the matter is that you have not stopped to consider why quite a few people in the space of several minutes were inclined to agree with points that were raised, amongst those were some people who are not normally inclined to get involved in "arguments" as such.

    Whatever your opinon of the situation, the fact remains that you have chosen to draw further attention to the young lad than would have occured had you left the issue well alone.

    I would also like to point out that you yourself are not perfect. I am sick of being told how to think and how to act by people like yourself - I will say whatever I god damn like and if you want to waste your time trying to change me or anyone else for that matter then fair enough, post whore away.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Mist
    EH EH eh eh eh
    Calm down Calm down eh

    :p

    go and do sommat useful....get the coffee :p;)
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