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How much pride do you have?

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
Are you always the one to say "I'm sorry, let's kiss and make up"?

Or..

Do you throw a strop and sulk and say nowt for days?

Usually, I just bugger off, and let them cool down, remember that the arguement was stupid, and then wait for them to apologize, or if it drags for days, I go and say, "Hey, this was a big pile of cack, let's smooch!"..

What bout you lot?

Are you petty and stubborn? Or, are you all open arms and forgiving?

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I`m slow to anger, but once you`ve really upset me, steer clear for a while! I`m slow to simmer down too.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    It depends on the argument, but I tend to let them come to me & grovel :yes:
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Re: How much pride do you have?
    Originally posted by bebedawl

    Do you throw a strop and sulk and say nowt for days?

    LMAO, that's me. Although it can last for 5 minutes or a couple weeks, depending on how angry I feel and how far away the person is. A lot of it's down to immaturity I think.

    I usually give in in the end though.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    it depends who the argument was with and whether or not it was my fault.

    if i think it was my fault, i'll apologise, but if i don't think it was (even if really it was) i get all stubborn and sulk.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I have a short and quick temper and i DO NOT hold grudges at all , unless you REALLY piss me off!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1

    But usulaly with me and my b/f it is an equal amount of groveling!!

    But then again we rarley , an i mean rarley fight!!!
    *been together for almost 4 years*:p
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Re: How much pride do you have?
    Originally posted by bebedawl
    Are you always the one to say "I'm sorry, let's kiss and make up"?
    not with the kind of blokes i have most of my arguments with!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Aww, but manly love is so in right now ;)

    Har.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by bebedawl
    Aww, but manly love is so in right now ;)

    Har.
    i can't wait to tell razor rick and basher.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    LMAO! :lol:
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Yes, I forgive them or at least that's what they think
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Depends on the argument, but if I'm in the wrong I get very soppy and it works very effectively. ;)
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I currently hold grudges against people i fought with 18 months/2 years ago.

    And chances are once i get them on their own i'll give them a kicking, even though they've probably forgotten what they've done!

    I dont like backing down in arguments. And i have been known to ignore people for several months if they really piss me off. Even if they apologise.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    it all depends on the fight. A t the moment im not talking to one of my friends barry, we had a fight and a few hours later i called him up and said sorry. Then he picked a fight on me again but i still said sorry a few days later, now he had ago at me and ive desided im just going to let him be the one to say sorry now (its been 4days)
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    depends on what it was over, and the person... if its someone really important to me, I can sulk for ages, but will always forgive, if its someone who I'm not really close to, I'll never speak to them again over something trivial.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Im normally very laid back and dont get annoyed withem or into fights. But once I get really pissed of ill just ignore them for a while and either wait till they come back or go back.
    Depends whos fault it is- and seeing as how im never wrong...

    Forgiven not forgotten!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I am very stubborn and it takes me a long time to forgive, although I never forget!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Re: How much pride do you have?
    Originally posted by bebedawl
    Are you always the one to say "I'm sorry, let's kiss and make up"?

    :yes:

    I try and sulk and be stubborn, but it usually only last a few minutes then I give in! :rolleyes:
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by KinkyRed
    It depends on the argument, but I tend to let them come to me & grovel :yes:

    me 2. :)
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I tend to be the one saying sorry. Then again I tend to be the one making the mistakes :eek2: *notices he keeps using this :eek2: recently*
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by *hellie*
    I am very stubborn and it takes me a long time to forgive, although I never forget!

    i'm very similar. i'm the most hard headed person my friends know. but the weird thing is, i foget, but hold a grudge against them forever lol
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Not sure.

    I get angry quickly.

    I'm usually nice later.

    Depending on how stupid or nasty the other person was.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Re: How much pride do you have?
    Originally posted by bebedawl
    or if it drags for days, I go and say, "Hey, this was a big pile of cack, let's smooch!"..
    Lezza :p

    I'm about as mellow as you can get so I don't get really annoyed very easily, buuuut the last person who betrayed me felt my wrath and haven't been spoken to for over 8 months and I see em almost every day at college. Heh heh. Let that be a lesson to all of ye!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I have quite a bit of a short temper and sometimes I can stay angry at someone for days and sometimes I only stay angry for like a couple of hours and then I finally cave in and apologize.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    For me it depends on the type of fight..... if it's just a little tit for tat, niggling one then I usually forget about it.

    If on the other hand the fight gets a bit more heated it depends on who started it. If I am in the wrong then I am always the first to say sorry. If though it wasn't my fault at all and the other person said some really bad stuff, then I let them know just how hurtfull they were - basically I make them feel like crap for saying the bad stuff and causing a fight - make them crawl!
    :naughty:

    If I have a fight though I never bring up things that happen in the past or really hurtfull things - keep it in the present and above the belt I say!!!! :thumb:
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