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For those of you who don't read my LJ, i had to let you in on this cause i'm soooooooooo pleased, and i told my mum today & shes really pleased too 
. Gah i was nervous:nervous: ...anyway here goes........
Well me & Chris had a very serious chat today & have decided that we are gonna start saving our pennys to get married & start a family!!!!!!!
Got lots to look into before i can get pregnant, eg my tablets i take etc..i know some will say to sort myself out first, but i think that could take years and also feel that if anything it will help.
Yay i really feel ready & can't wait. my babe wants to be a dad too...:D
. Gah i was nervous:nervous: ...anyway here goes........Well me & Chris had a very serious chat today & have decided that we are gonna start saving our pennys to get married & start a family!!!!!!!
Got lots to look into before i can get pregnant, eg my tablets i take etc..i know some will say to sort myself out first, but i think that could take years and also feel that if anything it will help.
Yay i really feel ready & can't wait.
my babe wants to be a dad too...:D 0
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*great big hugs*
I hope you and Chris are happy together and have a wonderful family
Congrats hun!!!
Cheers, by the tablets i mean i'm taking prozac
don't wanna be the one to piss on your bonfire, but presumably you're taking prozac for depression??? you would most likely have to stop taking them before you tried for a baby, and pregnancy makes your emotions go absolutely mental. not to mention pre and post natal depression... handling that without medication would be tough to say the least.
just mentioning it cause i knew someone in the same situation...
you might want to consider waiting for the depression to pass/waiting for a non-depressive patch before trying....
just something to think about.
yeah i kinda guessed i would have to come off them, i think i can manage without them.
cool.
it's just one of those things to be aware of.
Are you sure? A baby brings along more worries and stresses than anything you can imagine. I don't want to put a dampner on your excitement, but if you're not 'ok' now, a baby isn't going to fix anything.
It's great that you're looking to the future and all....have you discussed this with your doctor?
Nope going to see the doc on the 10th, will take his advise, although i know what you are saying, i don't feel like i agree, due to the reasons i am depressed anyway.
I know a baby won't fix things, id be stupid if i thought that.....what i mean is, i don't think it will make things worse. I know what you are all saying, i will see what the doc says & all but i feel that if they don't stay the same, they will be better.
You don't know me from Adam (or Eve as the case may be) but I'm really happy for you
:thumb:
Hmm maybe, depends if your gonna be nice
I also didnt want to put a dampner on your news, but good luck and I hope everything works out well for you
Mr_Wobble