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Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
hi guys..

I have a girlfriend, were pretty close
(very close actually ) but she's about to
have a baby with in the next few weeks..
Here boyfriend left her when she told him she
was pregnat with his child, this is when she came to me to talk and stuff..
We talk about sex alot.. and other things too. Ive spent many nights with her crying on
my sholder with her saying how much she loved this guy but hes gone...
Then the other day she had an ultra sound ? or something that determind the sex of the baby? im not sure what they call it..
but any way she found out its going to be a boy and she asked me if she should have it
curcumcized or to keep the forskin?
she asked me if i had forskin and i said i did, she asked alot about it and wondered what she should do for her baby.
Whats the norm on this these days.
I know they used alot in the old days and i have seen a couple of my mates dicks with out forskin.
but what should i say??

any ideas, help . Thanks for listening...

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    well unless there are medical problems, or she's jewish, then just leave it. hardly something to be concerned about.

    The ignorance is mind numbing
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Turtle:
    well unless there are medical problems, or she's jewish, then just leave it. hardly something to be concerned about.


    There isn't really any point, unless it's a big thing in Australia or something.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Leave it, leave it, leave it.

    Unless shes got a religious reason for it, dont. Its NOT healthier.

    "Men rarely, if ever, manage to dream up a god superior to themselves. Most gods have the
    morals of spoilt children." Robert A. Heinlein
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    leave it unless she is religious
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    OWCH!!! she should leave the little mans winkie alone. he'll thank her 4 it later on in life.(i'm uncut if anyone was wondering)

    as long as theres dirty freaky monkey sex, the worlds a great place !
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Does she know how much the little chap will scream!!
    leave it alone, its just a barbaric Religious practice.
    But to be fair it is healthier in hot, humid climates where washing is not done offten!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    suggesting anything ibbow?

    *is aussie*

    and nah, whowhere, its not a big thing in oz, at least as far as i'm aware.

    The ignorance is mind numbing
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Ibbow:
    Does she know how much the little chap will scream!!
    leave it alone, its just a barbaric Religious practice.

    Barbaric?? Thats really insulting! u cant go around talking about people's religion like that!
    Also, my boyfriend was circumsised because he's muslim, and he's fine. It's up to the baby's mother.



    Nobody's perfect til u fall in love with them!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    wrong comment: we can and we will go around saying what we want about other people's relgions, because it really is the scourge of the earth. we're just sorry we offend people while we're at it.

    and ur sig is wrong. u fall in love with them and they become substantially less perfect.

    The ignorance is mind numbing
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Circumcision really only started for hygeine reasons..So long as your friend doesnt live in poverty without running water then tell her not to do it.

    Shooting Star, female circumcision is also a religious practice. They mutilate baby girls in the name of religion..How do you feel about that?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by ~Shooting Star~:
    Barbaric?? Thats really insulting! u cant go around talking about people's religion like that!

    Why cant we? According to some religions, its ok to circumcise women (ie surgically remove their clitoris). And thats sometimes done without anasthetic.

    So if its barbaric well say it is. OK?


    "Men rarely, if ever, manage to dream up a god superior to themselves. Most gods have the
    morals of spoilt children." Robert A. Heinlein
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Ok ok.....i agree with u, but i was mearly stating that what commonly happens, in practice in religions such as islam & judaism is perfectly acceptable & shouldnt be called "barbaric". I wouldn't do it, but that is what i believe. If they're just gonna be carrying on a tradition thats been happening for hundreds, thousands of years, i dont think that should be insulted. that's all!!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Cutting an adult womans clitoris off without anasthetic is traditional in places of the Middle East and Africa...surely you agree that is barbaric?

    Theyre entitled to it, yes, but we are equally allowed to condemn it for being barbarous, unnecessary and evil.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    errrrr...NO. i dont think any of this is 'barbaric', i dont think any of u people actually know wot your talking about! i just read the posts above...and i agree with shooting star! it wont make 'the little boy scream' its hardly that painful, and we are approaching the 2002 i think there r things 2 make it less-painful...it IS more hygenic, it can stop health and dick problems in the future when ur older, and it looks a whole lot better!:P...SO u can DISAGREE with it, but u cant call it 'barbaric'...OK?

    thanks <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt; heheh...
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    oh yeah Kermit and CO...dont get rude yeah...
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    ANY knife near a dick is painful, really and truly!

    so just to clarify - u wouldn't mind getting ur clit cut off, without anesthetic? u SURE u wouldn't mind?

    hmm, go do the research, u'll be horribly surprised.

    The ignorance is mind numbing
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Spacechick..WTF?

    I assume youre a female so how do you know what it feels like to have a part of your dick cut off? Are you a mother and if so did you have your sons foreskin snipped?

    If not then im afraid you dont know what youre talking about. The babies do cry and scream and it hurts like hell.

    Slicing bits of skin off babies is a barbaric practice that belongs back in the stone age. Unfortunately some people are still brainwashed by their religions and inflict this kind of shit on their baby children.

    Its butchery, nothing less.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Why would you want to cut anything off your baby if it wasn't infected or dangerous?

    Hygiene my arse, never heard of soap and water?

    Perhaps you should listen to the children crying on the childrens ward at my hospital before you say it doesn't hurt. Anaesthetic wears off you know. FFS a small cut on the finger hurts, what the fuck do you think a cut on one of the most sensitive parts of the male anatomy will feel like.

    Unless it is totally necessary, it is a barbaric act.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Sorry girls but I have to agree with the guys on this one. I'm a mother and my son had to be circumsized at 11 months due to the fact that his wee man wasn't developing properly (now he's hung like a horse!!!) But seriously though when the anaesthetic wore off he was in a lot of pain and it broke my heart to see that and I certainly would not have had him circumsized voluntarily. Also in some parts of Africa it is customary to "stitch up" a woman's vulva leaving enough "hole" so the menfolk can get their pleasure - once pregnant and ready to pop they don't reopen the stitching - OWWWWWWWW They practice this on girls as young as 7 and 8 years old and it's the older women in the villages that perform the "operation"..
    Now that is barbaric
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    AS I have said b4 I used to work in a swimming pool, and there was a 'dip bath' the council provided for the muslims (ne1 no the prince regent @ brighton?) Well I would have to fill the dip bath for them. and yes I DID hear them scream, I dont care what language thay speak pain is a unversal cry!
    Just becaus thay have been doing it 4 1,000 of years it is no excuse 4 it to contine.
    Now I dont care who ne1 worships 'GOD', l'la, Buda, Judus, satan or Elivs! thay have that right, but when it is impossed on a small child who has no choice in the matter (boy or girl) I question if that 'god' said it's tobe done. Thall shall not harm... my arse! Most ppl belive in a 'god' but is there ne concrete proof? after all we belived in witches!
    Religion has been the cause of more wars, persecutions and human rights violations than any other cause. chopping 4skins and clits off is just the thin end of the wedge.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    spare the little man god why would anyone wana get that done leave the hood on thats my opinion <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt;
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I say get rid, I have the matt finish but the gloss always looks better. Less cheese hiding away too. Chop it off.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Definitely leave it on- he'll thank you for it in 20 years time!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    off with it, i say! have it away! anteaters look disgusting and i've heard from enough chicks that, apparently, hygiene IS a problem!

    yes, i proudly walk around with my willy wanker holding his purple crown aloft for all to see and admire! hahaha
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Ant eaters..LOL.

    The only people who let their nads get dirty are the kind of people who aint gonna be getting within 50 feet of any woman anyway.

    Hygeine is only a problem for animals. Most normal people wash daily.

    All you roundheads are just jealous of us normal people cos your mommas decided to get a little slap happy with the scalpels.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Captain Kirk:
    Less cheese hiding away too. Chop it off.

    Theres only cheese if ur too stoopid to wash properly. And, lets face it, if looks come into it, ur not ready to be whipping ur knob out for anyone. They aint pretty at the best of times <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;



    "Men rarely, if ever, manage to dream up a god superior to themselves. Most gods have the
    morals of spoilt children." Robert A. Heinlein
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    It's lucky for me that my last girlfriend liked a bit of Edam. <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/redface.gif"&gt; <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/redface.gif"&gt; <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/redface.gif"&gt;

    I'm joking by the way, my little fella wears his helmet but its always cleaned before a race. <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt; My analigies are getting better aren't they?

    (This would be a perfect opertunity to joke about Linguist and his 'baby bell'). <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/rolleyes.gif"&gt;


    "Excellent!" <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.stopstart.fsnet.co.uk/Gif/burns.gif"&gt;
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Yeah, Im glad my ikkle un wears a helmet, keeps him warm <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/tongue.gif"&gt; And yeah, you should mention his baby bell <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/tongue.gif"&gt;

    Keep up with the analogies <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;


    "Men rarely, if ever, manage to dream up a god superior to themselves. Most gods have the
    morals of spoilt children." Robert A. Heinlein
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Baby Bell, eh?

    Very good. I'll think of a witty reply, just you wait. Something to do with your mum tasting of sweaty Feta probably.

    <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.stopstart.fsnet.co.uk/smilie/badrazz.gif"&gt; It's all in the tounge, baby! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.stopstart.fsnet.co.uk/smilie/badrazz.gif"&gt;
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Cunning Linguist:
    Baby Bell, eh?

    Very good. I'll think of a witty reply, just you wait. Something to do with your mum tasting of sweaty Feta probably.

    That kind of thing isn't very mature.

    (Look, it still ties in to the cheese theme... God I'm good! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt; )
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